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Fifty-five percent of surveyed baby boomers plan to remain in their existing homes as they age, but less than a quarter of those surveyed have any plans to renovate their homes to more safely and easily accommodate natural changes that come with aging.

This is according to a new report from home improvement services company Leaf Home and market research firm Morning Consult, which enlisted responses from 1,001 baby boomer homeowners (aged 59–77) and 1,001 millennials (aged 27–42) in late December 2023 and early January 2024.

The report describes homes owned by baby boomers as “time capsules,” since most of the surveyed boomer cohort (73%) said they have lived in their homes for 11 years or more. This is combined with the finding that “over half of their homes were built in 1980 or earlier with many never investing in renovations,” according to the results.

For millennials and younger generations who could eventually purchase these homes in the future, this creates a “looming underinvestment crisis that promises a future of deferred maintenance for their millennial inheritors,” the report said.

But for those who are aging in place in these homes today, there is also a notable deficit of renovations and added safety features, which could prove problematic for those who will naturally develop vision, mobility or cognitive impairments as time progresses, the report said.

Another recent report found that the current housing inventory is ill-equipped to facilitate aging in place safely for older Americans.

Just 24% of baby boomers are preparing their homes for aging, and even fewer are adding other safety features. Roughly 75% of baby boomer respondents report that they “have never added safety or accessibility features in their homes,” while 81% of the cohort report planning to leave an inheritance of some kind when they pass away.

Roughly half of millennial respondents (51%) expect to receive no inheritance.

“The housing market is caught in a generational tug-of-war. Boomers will soon face aging-in-place hurdles, while millennials will face the surprise of homes in need of major upgrades,” said Jon Bostock, CEO of Leaf Home, in a statement accompanying the report.

“With an aging and ignored inventory of homes available in the next decade, we may see a crisis that will overwhelm the home improvement industry and strain the budgets of inheriting millennials, impacting the housing market,” Bostock added.

Source: housingwire.com

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The city of Laguna Beach, Calif. recently offered details of its city-sponsored aging-in-place program, dubbed “Lifelong Laguna,” in a profile published by CNBC. It provides new insight into the measures cities can explore to more easily facilitate aging-in-place goals for older residents.

2021 research from AARP indicates that 77% of adults at or over the age of 50 want to stay in their homes as they get older, but the figure in Laguna Beach is much higher. There, the figure is closer to 90% according to Rickie Redman, director of Lifelong Laguna.

Originally piloted in 2017, Lifelong Laguna is a program that enlists a local area nonprofit to encourage support for aging in place.

“Lifelong Laguna is based on the Village movement, where aging in place is encouraged with community support,” the story reads. “The Laguna Beach program aims to fulfill a specific need for a city where approximately 28% of residents are age 65 and over, while local assisted living and memory care services are scarce.”

Much of the city’s older population has lived in Laguna Beach since they were in their 20s and 30s. Now in their 70s and 80s, they simply do not want to be displaced to live somewhere else, even if another area or dedicated facility could more easily attend to their needs as they age.

“They make this city unique,” Redman told CNBC, saying many of the older residents can trace their journey here to the city’s “artistic roots,” the story explained. “They’re the placeholders for the Laguna that we now know.”

The program currently serves about 200 older residents, and there is no direct cost to them for participating. It is entirely funded by grants and local fundraising efforts, according to Redman.

“Its services address a wide range of needs, including a home repair program the city operates in collaboration with Habitat for Humanity, nutrition counseling and end-of-life planning,” the story explained.

Other cities and communities have adopted similar systems, as aging-in-place preferences have increased dramatically since the onset of the COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic. Data from Genworth Financial indicates that roughly 70% of the 10,000 baby boomers who will turn 65 every day until 2030 will require long-term care at some point in their later lives, CNBC reported.

“There definitely is a mindset change, where people are saying, ‘I do want to stay put, I don’t necessarily want to move into a nursing home or into assisted care,’” said Jessica Lautz, deputy chief economist and vice president of research at the National Association of Realtors (NAR) to CNBC.

One beneficiary of the Laguna Beach program told the outlet that her needs have been attended to very promptly, from assistance with yard clean-up to the organization of end-of-life services for her recently deceased husband.

“Anything that I’ve needed, I’ve gotten help,” said Sylvia Bradshaw, an 84-year old Laguna Beach resident when describing her membership in the program.

Source: housingwire.com

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A credit limit is the maximum amount of money a person can currently borrow from a financial institution.

Credit cards and lines of credit let us borrow funds from banks, credit unions and various companies. Credit limits determine just how much money we can borrow without incurring penalties like overdraft fees. Americans tend to gradually increase their credit limits as they age; Experian® reported that the average credit card limit for Generation Z in 2022 was $11,290, while the average credit limit for Baby Boomers was $40,318 that same year.

“What is a credit limit?” may be such a common question because multiple factors can influence a person’s limit. We’ll explore this question and discuss how to increase your credit limit.

Key takeaways:

  • Financial institutions largely set credit limits based on a borrower’s credit history.
  • Credit utilization is based on your credit limit and your available credit.
  • Regularly practicing good credit habits can increase your limit

Table of contents:

How are credit card limits determined?

Your credit limit is determined by the institution you borrow money from, whether they’re a bank, a credit union or a government agency. Credit limits take several factors into account, including your income and credit score. People with higher credit scores and income are normally approved for higher credit limits because lenders view them as financially responsible people.

Annual revenue

When a borrower applies for credit or asks for a credit limit increase, lenders look at annual revenue. From their perspective, a borrower with more income is more likely to make their payments on time—and vice versa.

Credit score

Credit scores help us qualify for auto loans, mortgage interest rates and credit cards—plus the limits we’ll receive when approved. If you have good credit, then you’ll likely be eligible for high-limit credit cards from the get-go.

Debt-to-income ratio

Lenders can use your debt-to-income ratio to set your credit limit by weighing your monthly debt payments against your total income. A low debt-to-income ratio can prompt lenders to offer higher credit limits since your spending habits show you regularly make responsible financial choices.

Employment status

Your employment status can also affect your credit limit largely due to timing. If you apply for a credit card or ask for a limit increase while you’re seeking a job, you’ll most likely receive a lower limit than you would as a full-time employee.

Credit limit vs. available credit

A person’s credit limit and their available credit are heavily tied together, which can cause people to confuse these two terms. To clarify, your available credit refers to the amount of money you can still borrow after calculating your debt. On the other hand, your credit limit refers to the total amount of money that your lender lets you borrow.

For example, if you have a $10,000 credit limit and spend $5,000, you’ll still have another $5,000 in available credit that you can access during this billing cycle. Your credit utilization ratio is calculated by weighing your available credit against your total credit limit. In this case, your credit utilization would be 50 percent.

How does your credit limit affect your credit score?

Whenever you ask a lender to increase your credit limit, they’ll perform a hard inquiry to review your credit history and help inform their decision. Inquiries briefly cause your score to dip, which is why conventional wisdom recommends not attempting to increase your credit limit right before applying for something vital—like a home or a new car.

Credit limits can also affect your score if you consistently have a high utilization ratio. Credit cards with high limits typically help borrowers maintain lower utilization ratios, which is beneficial for credit health.

What happens if you go over your credit limit?

Exceeding your credit limit can have negative consequences, especially if you do so repeatedly. Some of the drawbacks you might encounter include:

  • Account review: A lender may review your longtime credit habits, which could potentially lead to a credit limit reduction.
  • Credit score changes: Credit utilization makes up 30 percent of your FICO® credit score. Repeatedly going over your credit limit could significantly hurt your credit.
  • Increased interest rates: Depending on your lender’s policies, they may issue a penalty APR on the offending account, which can be much higher than your standard rate.
  • Overdraft fees: Most lenders will charge a $35 overdraft (or over-the-limit fee) after a specified time period if you don’t pay off your balance.

How to increase your credit limit

If you consistently make your monthly payments on time and keep your utilization low, the credit card issuer may approve your request to increase your limit. But remember to allow six to 12 months before asking. Your issuer probably won’t raise your limit after just one or two months of opening the account or if you’ve been making late payments.

Some credit card issuers will actively increase your limit after they review your account history. Sometimes, they’ll ask you to update your income. If you’ve earned a raise recently, you can provide that information, and the lender may increase your limit. When an issuer reviews your account like this, it does not cause a hard inquiry because you didn’t ask for them to review the account.

Work on your credit with Lexington Law Firm

Credit cards are fantastic resources that can positively impact your life when used responsibly. Even if you get approved for a high credit limit, it’s best to monitor your spending and borrowing habits. Lexington Law Firm offers great services like credit education tools and credit report analysis that may help you with your credit.

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Prior to joining Lexington, Brittany practiced a mix of criminal law and family law.

Brittany began her legal career at the Maricopa County Public Defender’s Office, and then moved into private practice. Brittany represented clients with charges ranging from drug sales, to sexual related offenses, to homicides. Brittany appeared in several hundred criminal court hearings, including felony and misdemeanor trials, evidentiary hearings, and pretrial hearings. In addition to criminal cases, Brittany also represented persons and families in a variety of family court matters including dissolution of marriage, legal separation, child support, paternity, parenting time, legal decision-making (formerly “custody”), spousal maintenance, modifications and enforcement of existing orders, relocation, and orders of protection. As a result, Brittany has extensive courtroom experience. Brittany attended the University of Colorado at Boulder for her undergraduate degree and attended Arizona Summit Law School for her law degree. At Arizona Summit Law school, Brittany graduated Summa Cum Laude and ranked 11th in her graduating class.

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Mortgage interest rates continued their decline this week and have hit the lowest level in six months since May of 2023. Mortgage interest rates are now at an average of 6.61%, easing from 6.67% last week. The typical monthly mortgage payment for a $400,000 home is now at $2,046. While NAR’s Pending Home Sales shows flat data from October to November, the recent week’s rate decline should motivate buyers who had been priced out of the market.

There are many signs of encouragement heading into 2024 in the housing market, such as more housing inventory from home builders, lower mortgage interest rates, and demographics. This year, even the youngest baby boomer (born between 1946 and 1964) turned 60 years of age. Baby boomers are the largest share of home buyers and may be looking for their retirement property. Last year, half of older boomers paid all cash for their homes and are less concerned with mortgage interest rates. Additionally, millennials (the largest adult generation) may be looking for their first property or a move-up family home.  Housing demand is apparent. With added inventory and better mortgage interest rates, 2024 looks like a better year.

Source: nar.realtor

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If you spent your teenage years waiting anxiously for one of your siblings to get out of the shower, the idea of selling your spacious, multi-bathroom home and moving into a smaller house or condo may feel like a reversal of fortune.

Yet for many retirees, downsizing makes financial and practical sense. Younger baby boomers — those currently ranging in age from 57 to 66 — made up 17% of recent home buyers, while older boomers — ages 67 to 75 — accounted for 12%, according to a 2022 report from the National Association of Realtors Research Group. Boomers’ primary reasons for buying a home were to be closer to friends and family, as well as a desire to move into a smaller home, the report said. Both younger and older boomers were more likely than others to purchase a home in a small town, and younger boomers were the most likely to buy in a rural area.

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For retirees Fred and Shelby Bivins, selling their home in Green Valley, Ariz., will enable them to realize their dream of traveling in retirement. The Bivinses have put their 2,050-square-foot Arizona home on the market and plan to relocate to their 1,600-square-foot summer condo in Fish Creek, Wis., a small community about 50 miles from Green Bay. They plan to live in Wisconsin in the spring and summer and spend the winter months in a short-term rental in Arizona, where they have family.  

Fred, 65, says the decision to downsize was precipitated by a two-month stay in Portugal last year, one of several countries they hope to visit while they’re still healthy enough to travel. “We’ve had Australia and New Zealand on our list for many years, even when we were working,” says Shelby, 68. The Bivinses are also considering a return visit to Portugal. Eliminating the cost of maintaining their Arizona home will free up funds for those trips. 

With help from Chris Troseth, a certified financial planner based in Plano, Texas, the Bivinses plan to invest the proceeds from the sale of their home in a low-risk portfolio. Once they’re done traveling and are ready to settle down, they intend to use that money to buy a smaller home in Arizona. “Selling their primary home will generate significant funds that can be reinvested to support their lifestyle now and in the future,” Troseth says. “Downsizing for this couple will be a positive on all fronts.”

Challenges for downsizers 

For all of its appeal, downsizing in today’s market is more complicated than it was in the past. With 30-year fixed interest rates on mortgages recently approaching 8%, many younger homeowners who might otherwise upgrade to a larger home are unwilling to sell, particularly if it means giving up a mortgage with a fixed rate of 3% or less. More than 80% of consumers surveyed in September by housing finance giant Fannie Mae said they believe this is a bad time to buy a home and cited mortgage rates as the top reason for their pessimism. “This indicates to us that many homeowners are probably not eager to give up their ‘locked-in’ lower mortgage rates anytime soon,” Fannie Mae said in a statement. As a result, buyers are competing for limited stock of smaller homes, says Hannah Jones, senior economic research analyst for Realtor.com. 

Here, though, many retirees have an advantage, Jones says. Rising rates have priced many younger buyers out of the market and made it more difficult for others to obtain approval for a loan. That’s not an issue for retirees who can use proceeds from the sale of their primary home to make an all-cash offer, which is often more attractive to sellers. 

Retirees also have the ability to cast a wider net than younger buyers, whose choice of homes is often dictated by their jobs or a desire to live in a well-rated school district. While the U.S. median home price has soared more than 40% since the beginning of the pandemic, prices have risen more slowly in parts of the Northeast and Midwest, Jones says. “We have seen the popularity of Midwest markets grow over the last few months because out of all of the regions, the Midwest tends to be the most affordable,” she says. “You can still find affordable homes in areas that offer a lot of amenities.” 

Meanwhile, selling your home may be somewhat more challenging than it was during the height of the pandemic, when potential buyers made offers on homes that weren’t even on the market. The Mortgage Bankers Association reported in October that mortgage purchase applications slowed to the lowest level since 1995, as the rapid rise in mortgage rates has pushed many potential buyers out of the market. Sales of previously owned single-family homes fell a seasonably adjusted 2% in September from August and were down 15.4% from a year earlier, according to the National Association of Realtors. “As has been the case throughout this year, limited inventory and low housing affordability continue to hamper home sales,” NAR chief economist Lawrence Yun said in a statement. 

However, because of tight inventories, there’s still demand for homes of all sizes, Jones says, so if your home is well maintained and move-in ready, you shouldn’t have difficulty selling it. “The market isn’t as red-hot as it was during the pandemic, but there’s still a lot to be gained by selling now,” she says.

Other costs and considerations 

If you live in an area where real estate values have soared, moving to a less expensive part of the country may seem like a logical way to lower your costs in retirement. While the median home price in the U.S. was $394,300 in September, there’s wide variation in individual markets, from $1.5 million in Santa Clara, Calif., to $237,000 in Davenport, Iowa. But before you up and move to a lower-cost locale, make sure you take inventory of your short- and long-term expenses, which could be higher than you expect. 

Selling your current home, even at a significant profit, means you will incur costs, including those to update, repair and stage it, as well as a real estate agent’s commission (typically 5% to 6% of the sale price). In addition, ongoing costs for your new home will include homeowners insurance, property taxes, state and local taxes, and homeowners association or condo fees.

Nicholas Bunio, a certified financial planner in Berwyn, Pa., says one of his retired clients moved to Florida and purchased a home that was $100,000 less expensive than her home in New Jersey. Florida is also one of nine states without income tax, which makes it attractive to retirees looking to relocate. Once Bunio’s client got there, however, she discovered that she needed to spend $50,000 to install hurricane-proof windows. Worse, the only home-owners insurance she could find was through Citizens Property Insurance, the state-sponsored insurer of last resort, and she’ll pay about $8,000 a year for coverage. Her property taxes were higher than she expected, too. When it comes to lowering your cost of living after you downsize, “it’s not as simple as buying a cheaper house,” Bunio says 

Before moving across the country, or even across the state, you should also research the availability of medical care. “Oftentimes, those considerations are secondary to things like proximity to family or leisure activities,” says John McGlothlin, a CFP in Austin, Texas. McGlothlin says one of his clients moved to a less expensive rural area that’s nowhere near a sizable medical facility. Although that’s not a problem now, he says, it could become a problem when they’re older. 

If you use original Medicare, you won’t lose coverage if you move to another state. But if you’re enrolled in Medicare Advantage, which is offered by private insurers as an alternative to original Medicare, you may have to switch plans to avoid losing coverage. To research the availability of doctors, hospitals and nursing homes in a particular zip code, go to www.medicare.gov/care-compare.

At a time when many seniors suffer from loneliness and isolation, a sense of community matters, too. Bunio recounts the experience of a client who considered moving from Philadelphia to Phoenix after her daughter accepted a job there. The cost of living in Phoenix is lower, but the client changed her mind after visiting her daughter for a few months. “She has no friends in Phoenix,” he says. “She’s going on 61 and doesn’t want to restart life and make brand-new connections all over again.”

Time is on your side 

Unlike younger home buyers, who may be under pressure to buy a place before starting a new job or enrolling their kids in school, downsizers usually have plenty of time to consider their options and research potential downsizing destinations. Once you’ve settled on a community, consider renting for a few months to get a feel for the area and a better idea of how much it will cost to live there. Bunio says some of his clients who are behind on saving for retirement or have high health care costs have sold their homes, invested the proceeds and become permanent renters. This strategy frees them from property taxes, homeowners insurance, homeowners association fees and other expenses associated with homeownership 

The boom in housing values has boosted rental costs, as the shortage of affordable housing increased demand for rental properties. But thanks to the construction of new rental properties in several markets, the market has softened in recent months, according to Zumper, an online marketplace for renters and landlords. A Zumper survey conducted in October found that the median rent for a one-bedroom apartment fell 0.4% from September, the most significant monthly decline this year. 

In 75 of the 100 cities Zumper surveyed, the median rent for a one-bedroom apartment was flat or down from the previous month. (For more on the advantages of renting in retirement, see “8 Great Places to Retire—for Renters,” Aug.)

Aging in place

Even if you opt to age in place, you can tap your home equity by taking out a home equity line of credit, a home equity loan or a reverse mortgage. At a time when interest rates on home equity lines of credit and loans average around 9%, a reverse mortgage may be a more appealing option for retirees. With a reverse mortgage, you can convert your home equity into a lump sum, monthly payments or a line of credit. You don’t have to make principal or interest payments on the loan for as long as you remain in the home. 

To be eligible for a government-insured home equity conversion mortgage (HECM), you must be at least 62 years old and have at least 50% equity in your home, and the home must be your primary residence. The maximum payout for which you’ll qualify depends on your age (the older you are, the more you’ll be eligible to borrow), interest rates and the appraised value of your home. In 2024, the maximum you could borrow was $1,149,825.

There’s no restriction on how homeowners must spend funds from a reverse mortgage, so you can use the money for a variety of purposes, including making your home more accessible, generating additional retirement income or paying for long-term care. You can estimate the value of a reverse mortgage on your home at www.reversemortgage.org/about/reverse-mortgage-calculator.

Up-front costs for a reverse mortgage are high, including up to $6,000 in fees to the lender, 2% of the mortgage amount for mortgage insurance, and other fees. You can roll these costs into the loan, but that will reduce your proceeds. For that reason, if you’re considering a move within the next five years, it’s usually not a good idea to take out a reverse mortgage.

Another drawback: When interest rates rise, the amount of money available from a reverse mortgage declines. Unless you need the money now, it may make sense to postpone taking out a reverse mortgage until the Federal Reserve cuts short-term interest rates, which is unlikely to happen until late 2024 (unless the economy falls into recession before that). Even if interest rates decline, they aren’t expected to return to the rock-bottom levels seen over the past 15 years, according to a forecast by The Kiplinger Letter. And with inflation still a concern, big rate cuts such as those seen in response to recessions and financial crises over the past two decades are unlikely. 

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If someone reports their company for tax evasion in the U.S., he or she will receive 30 percent of the amount collected. Have you ever loaned someone money and had them not pay you back? Here’s one thing that you can do to them (IRS’ 1099-C). While we’re on the general topic, despite strong retirement savings, Fidelity Investments’ Q3 2023 analysis reveals a surge in hardship withdrawals and 401(k) loans, addressing short-term financial challenges. By the numbers: 3 percent took hardship withdrawals (up from 1.8 percent in 2022). 8 percent tapped into 401(k) loans (compared to 2.4 percent last year). The silver lining? Retirement balances are on the rise, and savings rates remain steadfast. For those planning retirement, consider suggesting reverse mortgages as a game-changer. They offer an alternative, allowing access to funds without swiftly depleting hard-earned savings. If you haven’t set up reverse division at your shop, well, 10,000 people a day turn 62. Today’s podcast can be found here, and this week’s is sponsored by Gallus Insights. Mortgage KPIs, automated at your fingertips. Gallus allows you to go from data to actionable insights. If you can use Google, you can use Gallus. Hear an Interview with attorney Brian Levy on the NAR lawsuits and the implications for housing finance moving forward.

Broker and Lender Software, Products, and Programs

Are you a compliance nerd? A group of mortgage industry veterans has launched a software company for loan servicing that is getting a lot of attention. Keep your eyes and ears open for MESH software (Mortgage Enterprise Servicing Hub), which is their brand name for a series of software products aimed at loan servicers. The first product runs hundreds of compliance rules on loan portfolios daily, so servicers have a daily review of all loans against everything the CFPB, Agencies and States can throw at them. Look up “MESH Auditor”.

It’s time to start planning for the year ahead! Join the Computershare Loan Services (CLS) team from January 22 – 24 in The Big Easy for MBA’s Independent Mortgage Bankers Conference. With CLS’ originations fulfillment, co-issue MSR acquisition, subservicing, and mortgage cooperative, IMBs can streamline their operations, minimize expenses, and maximize profits. Contact the CLS team today to schedule a meeting in New Orleans.

Ring in the new year with a kinder outlook by joining us for the highly anticipated “Kind Mindset” event presented by Kind Lending. Taking place on January 16th, 2024, at The Buckhead Club in Atlanta, GA, this immersive event is designed to empower attendees with valuable insights on growth, success, and mindset. With an impressive lineup of speakers, including Kind Lending’s CEO/Founder, Glenn Stearns, and special guest Captain Charlie Plumb, 6-year Prisoner of War and former Fighter Pilot, this event promises to be a transformative and inspirational experience. Get ready to cultivate a “Kind Mindset” and embark on a journey of transformation and success. Register today.

Aging, Down Payments, and Housing Demographics

Do you think getting old is hard? The U.S. Census Bureau released a report showing that about 4 million U.S. households with an adult age 65 or older had difficulty living in or using some features of their home. About 50 million, or 40 percent, of U.S. homes had what were considered to be the most basic, aging-ready features: a step-free entryway into the home and a bedroom and full bathroom on the first floor. About 4 million or 11 percent of older households reported difficulty living in or using their home. The share increased to nearly 25 percent among households with a resident age 85 or older. Over half (about 57 percent) of older households reported their home met their accessibility needs very well, but only 6 percent of older households had plans to renovate their home in the near future to improve accessibility.

In general, Zillow expects home prices to remain roughly flat in 2024, with only a 0.2% increase in its housing market index. Existing home sales are expected to fall further to 3.74 million. Zillow does mention that this forecast does not take into account the latest forecast from the Fed, and the expectation for big rate cuts in 2024.

Falling mortgage rates have put some spring in the step of the homebuilders, according to the latest NAHB / Wells Fargo Housing Market Index. As one would expect, with mortgage rates down roughly 50 basis points over the past month or two, builders are reporting an uptick in traffic as some prospective buyers who previously felt priced out of the market are taking a second look. With the nation facing a considerable housing shortage, boosting new home production is the best way to ease the affordability crisis, expand housing inventory and lower inflation. But builders have lagged production for so many years…

Non-builder loan officers find the builder world a tough nut to crack. Many, if not most, big builders are dealing with the mortgage rate issue by subsidizing buy-downs. Builders generally build free upgrades into their models, and these funds are being used to buy down the rate. The builder gets full price for the house, loses a few points on the mortgage, which might have instead gone to upgraded countertops or something else.

Even if one can get approved for a loan, buying can still be prohibitively expensive. Receiving help from family and friends for that crucial down payment can be a major turning point for many consumers. In fact, nearly 2 in 5 homeowners (39 percent) have received down payment assistance, according to LendingTree’s Mortgage Down Payment Help Survey, of nearly 2,000 U.S. consumers. 78 percent of Gen Z homeowners reported some financial support for a down payment, mostly from their parents. 54 percent of millennials have received down payment help, followed by 33 percent of Gen Xers.

Almost a third (31 percent) of Americans think putting down 20 percent for a down payment is obligatory. However, 59 percent of current homeowners say their down payments were less than 20 percent of the home’s purchase price, and just 29 percent put down 20 percent or more. One in 10 Americans never took out a mortgage, while 15 percent had a mortgage but have since paid it off. Baby boomers are the most likely to have paid off their mortgages, at 29 percent.

As anyone shopping for a home can tell you, it’s slim pickings out there. For many years we have been seeing the biggest squeeze in the starter home category. It appears that for years part of the problem is a lack of confidence to move up to the next category. People in starter homes are staying put, which is keeping homes off the market.

Capital Markets

It was another slow news day yesterday without any meaningful economic data or news to move sentiment. However, investors are laden with optimism as a soft-landing for the economy comes into view and seem to be throwing caution to the wind with over 150 basis points of Fed Funds easing fully priced in for next year. In accordance with that, benchmark bonds rallied to fresh highs yesterday after the U.S. Treasury sold $58 billion in 5-year notes to excellent demand. The strong auction exposed some short positioning, and it invited additional late buying. That followed Tuesday’s $57 billion 2-year Treasury auction that attracted a record number of indirect buyers to snap up high yields before the Fed’s anticipated rate cuts, which are fully priced in to begin at the March meeting in just over 80 days. Yields on benchmark treasuries have dropped to levels not seen since the summer.

Today has a fuller calendar than the past two sessions in regard to economic news. We are under way with initial jobless claims (+12k to 218k, a little higher than expected), continuing claims, advanced economic indicators for November (goods trade balance, retail inventories, and wholesale inventories), none of which moved rates. Later today brings the NAR’s Pending Home Sales Index for November, Freddie Mac’s Primary Mortgage Market Survey, and another large amount of supply from the Treasury, headlined by $40 billion 7-year notes. We begin the day with Agency MBS prices worse a few ticks (32nds), the 10-year yielding 3.81 after closing yesterday at 3.79 percent, and the 2-year is down to 4.25.

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Knightvest, a real estate investment and management company, has published its inaugural annual Multifamily Renter Sentiment Report findings. The survey offers insights into the decision between renting and buying, the consequences of high mortgage interest rates, and variations in rental preferences across different generations.

  • Most renters (59%) choose to rent rather than feel forced to rent.
  • Among the respondents, 51% of Millennials and 54% of Gen Z individuals have actively chosen to rent.
  • A surprisingly high number of renters (31%) feel ambivalent or uninterested in home ownership.
  • 74% of renters report that their timeline to purchase a home has significantly lengthened due to increased mortgage rates
  • Older Americans are selling homes to live in apartments.
  • 73% of people say that social interaction is essential in an apartment community
  • Baby Boomers value social interaction more than Millennials (78% versus 71%)
  • On the whole, Gen Z respondents are slightly more enthusiastic about the idea of owning a home compared to Millennials (29% vs. 25%).
2023 Knightvest Multifamily Renter Sentiment Report Infographic

The rent-versus-buy decision is increasingly nuanced given this dynamic macroeconomic environment, and it’s interesting to see the data support what we’re hearing anecdotally from residents: if you create communities built on quality, service and care, then apartments can become sought-after destinations where residents thrive through multiple seasons of their lives.

David Moore, Knightvest Founder and CEO

Top Reasons Why People Rent

  • The high cost of owning a home is a concern for 62% of people.
  • The reduced responsibility for maintenance and repairs is a factor for 51% of individuals.
  • 35% of renters cite the increased flexibility to relocate as a reason they choose renting instead of buying.

Also, it is interesting to note that:

  • 29% of renters have previously owned a home.
  • 71% of Baby Boomer renters have owned a home before, and their primary reason for renting is to have fewer maintenance and repair responsibilities.

Finally, The surge in mortgage rates has caused a significant delay in decision-making for those looking to buy a home.

  • An overwhelming 74% of survey participants have indicated that the timeline for their home purchase consideration has been prolonged due to the substantial increase in mortgage rates.
  • Within this group, a staggering 79% have reported that this extension ranges from a few years to indefinite.
  • Millennials and Gen Z individuals have expressed similar salary expectations required to afford a home.
  • On average, Millennials have stated a need for a salary of $139,000 to purchase their desired home, while Gen Z has mentioned a requirement of $137,000.

As we head into 2024, this data underscores the enduring demand for apartments and reveals insights that will continue to shape the real estate landscape for years to come. At Knightvest, we remain focused on executing our strategy to renovate and reposition apartment communities to create compelling, modern living environments at an extraordinary value. With people staying in apartments longer, this work has never been more important than it is today.

David Moore, Knightvest Founder and CEO.

Knightvest conducted the survey in the Multifamily Renter Sentiment Report from November 20 to November 30, 2023, on an online platform. 4,100 U.S. apartment renters participated voluntarily and did not receive payment for their opinions.

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What should you do with your 401k or 403b when you leave your job? This is a question that confronts more and more people. According to the Department of Labor young Baby Boomers held on average 11.3 jobs from age 18 to 46. So it was no surprise when I received the following email from a reader named Juan:

In this article, we’ll look first at your options. Then we’ll cover some factors to consider as you choose the best option for your circumstances. And finally, we’ll cover some of the mechanics of actually rolling over a 401k to another 401k or IRA. Note that this article applies equally to both 401k and 403b retirement accounts.

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Options for a 401k When You Leave a Job

The first thing is to understand are options. When you leave a job with a 401k or 403b you have potentially four options when it comes to your retirement plan:

Take the Money: While I include this as an option, it’s not one that will do your retirement planning any favors. Taking the money will trigger ordinary income tax. If you are not 59 1/2 or older (or otherwise able to take a qualified distribution), you may also get hit with a 10% additional tax. So while this is technically an option, I’m going to assume for the sake of this article that it’s not one you are considering.

Leave it Alone: Most 401k plans allow you to leave your money in the 401k at your old employer. You won’t be contributing to the account anymore, but you can continue to invest the money in the funds available in the plan. Note that this option may not be available for 401k accounts with balances of less than $1,000. For balances of less than $5,000, you may need to take steps to prevent your old employer from automatically distributing the funds to you.

Rollover to Current Employer’s 401k: If your new employer has a 401k or 403b and permits rollovers, you can rollover the money to the retirement plan at your new employer.

Rollover to an IRA: Finally, you can always rollover the 401k to an IRA.

Considerations in Making Your Choice

What should you consider in deciding which option is best for you? While there is no one right answer for everybody, there are some important factors to take into consideration. The very first factor is access to good investment options.

Investment Options

One of the big potential downsides of a 401k or 403b is that some of them have lousy investment options. For that reason, it’s important to consider the investing options at both your old employer and your new employer. Part of this evaluation should look at the expense ratios of the mutual funds in both plans. Also, keep in mind that you may not need every mutual fund choice in a plan to be a good option. As you build your asset allocation plan across multiple accounts, you may only need one or two good investment choices with your 401k.

If the investment options at the old employer are good and fit your asset allocation plan, leaving them there is a reasonable option. You don’t have to go through the hassle of moving the money. In fact, that’s exactly what I did with my first employer. I was there for 10 years. When I moved to another job, I left my money in the company’s retirement plan because I was happy with the investment choices.

Simplicity

The second thing to consider is simplicity. The fewer accounts you have, the easier it is to manage. That’s true when it comes to rebalancing a portfolio and keeping track of your investments. If you have good investment options at your new employer, rolling your account over from your old employer to your new employer minimizes the number of accounts you have. If you happen to have good investment choices at both your old and new employer, you’ll have to weigh the inconvenience of the rollover with the inconvenience of managing two accounts. In the long run, I favor the simplicity of consolidating accounts. Further, as we’ll cover in a moment, it’s not at all difficult to rollover a 401k.

Age 55 Rule

The third thing is the age 55 rule. This is one I think a lot of people tend to forget. If you leave your employer in or after the year you turn 55 you can begin to take withdrawals from your 401k without incurring the 10% penalty. What happens if you leave your employer at age 54? Can you wait a year until you turn 55 and then start taking money out without penalty? No. This exception only applies if you leave your employer in the year you turn 55 or later. Of course, you’ll have to pay ordinary income tax assuming it’s a traditional 401k or 403b.

So what does this have to do with a 401k rollover? The age 55 rule does not apply to IRAs. If you rollover a 401k to an IRA, you cannot take advantage of this rule. Therefore, you should consider this factor when deciding what’s best for your retirement account.

Rollover Tips

If you decide to rollover your 401k or 403b, you’ll want to use what’s called a direct rollover. A direct rollover is the movement of your investments from one plan directly to another plan. In other words, you don’t get access to the funds. A direct rollover is quick and convenient.

There is such a thing as an indirect rollover where you do touch the money. The money comes to you and you then have 60 days to roll it over into the IRA or 401k. There are several drawbacks to an indirect rollover. First, your old employer may withhold 20 percent of the rollover for taxes. While you’ll get that money back eventually, you’ve got to come up with that extra 20 percent now to roll over the whole amount into your new account. Further, if you fail to rollover the assets within 60 days, the IRS treats the assets as a distribution. The result can be a very big tax bill, including the 10% penalty.

Finally, the easiest way to begin the direct rollover process is to contact the new plan administrator where you want your money to go. They likely have an entire department dedicated to helping investors execute a 401k rollover. They will walk you through the paperwork and make sure everything is processed properly.

Where Should You Open an IRA?

If you’re going to open up an IRA, where do you open it? The key to answering this question is to decide first what types of investments you’ll purchase. For example, if you want to invest in funds at Fidelity, then it makes sense to open the IRA at Fidelity. That’s true if you want to invest in funds at any mutual fund company. If you have a certain fund company you prefer, open the IRA with the mutual fund company. Not only do you invest for free into their investment products, but you can always add a brokerage account to invest in stocks, bonds, or ETFs.

If you want to invest in a broad array of ETFs and stocks, then a low-cost brokerage makes the most sense. Brokers offer IRA accounts that enable you to rollover a 401k. TD Ameritrade is my personal favorite because trades are inexpensive and they have physical offices just about everywhere. I’ve also used OptionsXpress, which offers a $100 new account bonus. You may have a different broker you prefer, but if you’re going to trade a lot of ETFs and individual stocks, a low-cost brokerage is a good option for an IRA.

The fourth option, of course, is a robo-advisor. These tools take a lot of the work out of creating an asset allocation plan and rebalancing your portfolio in exchange for a fee.

Related: How to Build Your Own Benefits Plan If You Leave Your Job

  • Rob Berger is the founder of Dough Roller and the Dough Roller Money Podcast. A former securities law attorney and Forbes deputy editor, Rob is the author of the book Retire Before Mom and Dad. He educates independent investors on his YouTube channel and at RobBerger.com.

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When it comes to supporting a charity, it doesn’t get much more convenient than donating at the card reader in the checkout line. But depending on your motivations and financial situation, it may not be the best approach.

More than two-thirds (68%) of Americans donate to charity at the register of retail establishments, according to a new NerdWallet survey conducted online by The Harris Poll Oct. 10-12. Some give because the cause is important to them, and others give because they feel guilty if they don’t. But whatever the reason, being thoughtful about your donations can ensure you’re giving without breaking the bank.

For customers, these donations likely look like an additional $5 or so on their total, or “rounding up” to the next dollar amount. In either case, the incremental giving adds up to hundreds of millions of dollars each year nationwide.

Many shoppers likely make the decision to donate in the moment. But thinking through why you donate ahead of time can help you make more informed decisions that align with your values and your financial goals.

Here’s how to decide whether you should give to charity on your next shopping trip.

Skip: If you want to have a significant impact and can give more

Small donations at the cash register may add up over time, but making a large donation could be more impactful for the recipient.

About one-third (32%) of Americans donate to charity at retail registers because the cause is important to them, according to the recent NerdWallet survey, and 26% because they like to be charitable. Donating at the register often means sprinkling a few dollars across numerous recipients as you go from store to store. If you want to have a bigger impact on one important cause, a larger donation can be a better fit.

Give: If a small donation suits you best

Donating $5 every few weeks on your grocery run may be easier on some budgets.

One-fourth of Americans (25%) say they give at the register because small donations don’t feel as costly, and one-third (33%) of Americans who donate at the register say they wouldn’t donate to charity at all if they didn’t donate at the cash register, according to the survey. If you already have your card out, small donations are convenient.

These campaigns work for that reason. Albertsons Companies Foundation, the charitable arm of the grocery store chain, raised $43.5 million for hunger relief at cash registers in 2022, according to Engage for Good, a marketing company that helps businesses and nonprofits raise money. That’s in addition to millions raised by the chain for Ukraine aid and other causes.

Skip: If you’re hoping for an easy tax break

Donating to charity can reduce your taxable income, but giving incrementally at the cash register can make claiming this deduction more difficult.

In order to claim a deduction for donations, they must be for a tax-exempt charity that is recognized by the IRS. Further, you must itemize deductions on your income tax return rather than taking the standard deduction. You’ll want to track these donations with documentation such as your credit card or bank statements. All of this is a lot to ask for a small donation at the register. If you want to deduct donations, direct contributions will be less of an administrative hassle.

Give: If it makes you feel good

Giving feels good, and feeling good can promote more giving. It’s a sort of generosity cycle.

A significant body of research supports that giving activates the brain’s reward system, which can lead to greater happiness. And the amount of happiness that comes from generosity isn’t dependent on the amount you give, according to a 2017 study in Nature Communications. In this way, giving small amounts not only adds up for the organizations, but also for the donors.

Skip: If it’s not in the budget

If your current financial situation has you cutting costs to make ends meet, don’t make it harder on yourself.

As we established, giving should make you feel good. But 13% of Americans say they donate to charity at the register because they feel guilty if they don’t, 10% say it’s easier than saying no, and 8% do it because they’re embarrassed to say no, according to the survey. A dollar here or there doesn’t seem like much when things are going well, but every dollar counts when you’re dealing with unexpected expenses, a job loss or other financial strain.

If donating to charity adds financial stress to your current situation, skip it. This isn’t the last time you’ll be asked.

METHODOLOGY

This survey was conducted online within the United States by The Harris Poll on behalf of NerdWallet from Oct. 10-12, 2023, among 2,096 U.S. adults ages 18 and older. The sampling precision of Harris online polls is measured by using a Bayesian credible interval. For this study, the sample data is accurate to within +/- 2.7 percentage points using a 95% confidence level. For complete survey methodology, including weighting variables and subgroup sample sizes, please contact [email protected].

NerdWallet defines generations in the following way: Generation Z, ages 18-26; millennials, ages 27-42; Generation X, ages 43-58; and baby boomers, ages 59-77.

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For teenagers, life can often be full of confusing changes and unexpected choices. What may have seemed straightforward in childhood is now complex and challenging. Experiences such as developing relationships, contemplating the future, and deciding about education options or career paths are all part of the teenage experience. Even when we think we know what direction to take, our perspectives on these matters can shift quickly. Below are the top 20 truths for today’s young adults to give them some peace and assurance about all the decisions and change.

1. Take Your Time

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One user said, “It’s okay to not resolve something immediately. If someone doesn’t answer your text/WhatsApp/Facebook message, if you need to take some time to think if you want to join in that fun event, if you hear that phone ring and you miss it, If you’re not answering to a social media post, things aren’t going to blow up. Real life requires you to do one thing at a time, well or great, and not a million things.”

Another user replied, “Except important stuff…like finances…pay your bills RIGHT AWAY.”

2. You Will Get Behind Sometimes

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One user shared, “While school has a structure in place to prevent you from falling behind, real life doesn’t offer the same safety net.”

Another user replied, “I will also say that conversely some of the arbitrary deadlines in school don’t apply to the real world. In college, it was kind of teachers being overly lax or strict. In the real world, if something cannot get done, regardless of the time or resources you throw at it, then it won’t get done. Yeah, you may have upset a client, but most of the time, as long as you communicate these issues as soon as possible, clients understand. Of course, it doesn’t always play out that way, but the real world seems to recognize real issues better than school sometimes can.”

3. On Time Is Better Than Perfect

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“It’s better to finish something on time, even if it isn’t perfect, than not to finish it at all,” one user posted.

Another replied, “This is so true. I find this with young grads coming through at work. Smart young people and many/most become good at their jobs… But there seems to be a need for perfection and an expectation they will get the time to achieve it.

“Maybe every generation is like that when young, but I notice it a lot these days. Maybe I’m just getting old. To the list, I would add… you will need to deal with uncertainty. Not everything will be clear and have an excellent tidy answer.”

4. Don’t Always Trust Social Media

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One user shared, “Social media is harmful.”

Another user replied, “Yes, I’ve heard from friends about their teenage siblings falling for TikTok fake news almost as often as I hear baby boomers fall for Facebook fake news lol.” 

5. 30 Is Not Old

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One Redditor stated, “30 is not old.”

Another user replied, “This. Too many people in their 30s and 40s act like they’re already practically in their graves.”

6. Expect Your First Job to Be Hard

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One user shared, “That your first job out of college is probably not going to be the cushy WFH jobs you see people have on TikTok. You’re probably going to have to grind for a bit.”

Another commenter added, “Also, you’re probably not going to make 500k doing computer science right after graduating.”

7. Get Advice From Experts

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“Your friends are idiots. They have just as much education as you. Take expert advice on what you want to know,” one user posted.

Another user replied, “I’m an older teen who legit doesn’t understand how you could think otherwise from this. I’ve seen teens say that older folks wouldn’t know what we’re dealing with, but that’s the opposite of the truth. They’ve already lived it and more. They would be the perfect ones to know what’s going on and give us advice. Just because we might not like what they say doesn’t mean they’re wrong. That seems like the most logical conclusion to me.”

8. Influencers Aren’t All That Unique

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One user shared, “When everyone thinks they’re an influencer, no one is an influencer.”

Another user commented, “I’m not in, nor do I pay attention to the numbers in social media posts. How many followers do you need actually to be an actual influencer? You can’t deny that people like Mr. Beast is an influencer out of the sheer amount of views he gets.”

9. You May Need to Compromise on Your Job

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“Very few people get to ‘do what they love for a living.’ Most adults have to compromise between what they want from life and what they want to give up to get it,” one Redditor posted. 

10. Adult Life Is Challenging

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One commenter shared, “Unless your parents have money and are willing to support you, life is about to get a whole lot more difficult.”

Another user added, “The problem is not that you ‘can’t’ walk in and get a job. You can, but you should be aware of the fact that you can lose that job as fast as you call it since they do get tons of applications.

“I used to work at some restaurant that just handed out job applications to every teenager who came there. One of the servers was over 18, and she had been working there for a few years. And when she complained about something to the managers, they just told her that she could either stay and not complain or she could just leave.

“They had a lot of people who could replace her, but those managers should understand that this ton of people who could replace that loyal and great server will leave soon enough and won’t be as good as her. I’m pretty sure that everyone who started working there simultaneously didn’t last even a year. Most stayed for a few months, probably not even half a year.”

11. No One Cares About High School

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“No one cares what you did in high school,” one user shared.

Another user commented, “Jokes on you, after two concussions in my early 20s, I can’t even remember what I did in high school!”

Another user replied, “PREACH!”

12. Take Responsibility for Your Mental Health

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One Redditor posted, “That trauma, mental illness, gender identity, sexuality are not justifications for being a bad person. Your mental health may not be your fault, but it is your responsibility.”

Another user added, “Paying rent and buying groceries quickly humbles you. You’re not paying your bills because of your mental health? The landlord will not care.”

13. You Don’t Need Constant Relationships

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“Teen love is a glorified myth from shows and movies. You don’t need to seek relationships constantly. Just live your life,” one user shared.

Another user replied, “Most of my friends laugh in my face when I say that I’m not interested in it yet and say I’m lying, but I just wanna enjoy what’s left of my youth for as long as possible lol.”

14. Be Respectful of Others

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One user posted, “You need to remember that you can’t speak to people IRL the same way you do from your keyboard. You’ll get popped in the mouth.”

Another user commented, “I work with a teenager, and he was going for his license, and the person riding with him told him to go down a certain way. It turns out it was a wrong-way street or something, and he went down it, so he failed. The 16-year-old looked at him and said you’re an a-.

“I was like, you really didn’t say that, did you?! He said well yeah, I did because he was an a-. Kids are gonna have a hard time in the real world. It doesn’t help that he half-a- his job and expects to get paid more.”

15. People Don’t Care That Much

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“People don’t care about you nearly as much as you think. Be a good person, but do what makes you happy without stress because people don’t have you In their minds as soon as you turn the corner!” one user shared. 

16. You Need to Adapt

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One Redditor posted, “You need to adapt to the world. Not expect that the world will adapt to you.”

Another user commented, “So much this. The world is not going to change for you. The world is not here to affirm you. You must affirm yourself and adjust your behaviours/develop coping skills to adapt to the world.”

17. School Is Not Useless

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One user shared, “Schools are not as useless as they think; they do have problems, but it’s been proven over time and time that education is one of the few ways to get out of poverty.”

Another user added, “The complaint that courses that you learn in school don’t ever apply. Like most math courses. They are there to teach you how to think; if you find a job that directly has you doing Matrices with linear algebra, good on you. Otherwise, you know how to approach things from different angles.”

18. Let Emotions Just Be Emotions

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“An emotion can be purely just an emotion, not a trigger, not depression and anxiety and not a reason to have a mental health crisis; sometimes it’s okay just to be sad!” one Redditor posted. 

19. Don’t Pay Too Much for College

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One user shared his thoughts and posted, “You don’t need an EXPENSIVE college degree. A private school that makes you take out huge loans to afford it is really not necessary at all. It is unlikely to yield better results. Also, living on campus is massively overrated, and if you can continue to live for free at home, it’s usually a great idea.

“State schools are generally far cheaper and usually of very decent quality. Also, look into EVERY potential scholarship (both merit-based and need-based) you might qualify for. Please fill out the FAFSA every single year and do it early.

“If state college isn’t looking super affordable, maybe there are no scholarships you qualify for that would help out. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with going the community college route. Relative to 4-year schools, community colleges can be dirt cheap and often provide way more flexibility if you want to do school and work part-time.

“Then, after two years, if you want to continue your education and finish up at a 4-year school, you generally can. In most cases, the credits should transfer (especially if the community college and state college are part of the same system), and you get yourself a bachelor’s degree and only pay the sticker price for two years instead of 4.

“If you live in a state that hasn’t taken this seriously and hasn’t invested in affordable higher education options, consider moving to a state that has. Establishing residency to get in-state tuition rates may take a year or more, but this can be worth it in many circumstances.

“Where you got your degree matters less and less these days. The stigma of online degrees is even lessening to a large extent, especially since COVID.

“It’s straightforward to get caught in financial traps when it comes to school, but it’s possible to avoid them. You have to plan things out and stick to what’s realistic so that you know you can see through to the end. Don’t compare yourself to others. You’re running your race. You’re on your path.

“The trades can be great for many. But if you’re not the manual labor type, you may be much better off finding a cheap higher education solution rather than trying to fit a square peg into a round hole.” 

20. You’re Not the Main Character

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One commenter shared, “You’re not always the main character.”

Another user replied, “You can go a little more in-depth with this, I think. You’re the main character of your own story. You just need to accept the fact that you’ll be an NPC to the vast majority of people you encounter.”

Another user commented, “Enjoy being the quirky NPC in everyone else’s story.”

Do you agree with the challenging truths that were listed above? Share your thoughts!

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These 7 Celebrities Are Genuinely Good People

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We’ve all heard the famous adage that “no publicity is bad publicity,” and while it tends to be accurate, there are certainly exceptions. But what about those few stars who stay out of the limelight and get along without a hint of trouble? 

These 7 Celebrities are Genuinely Good People

These 10 Activities Are an Immediate Red Flag

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Have you ever known someone and thought you liked them—until you learned about their hobbies? Then you get to know them and then you’re like, “Wow, red flag.” Well, you’re not alone.

These 10 Activities Are an Immediate Red Flag

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10 Celebrities That Made the Big Times Then Disappeared Off The Face of the Earth

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