Splitting assets and moving out can be messy during a breakup, even more so if you are buying a house during a divorce. While separation can complicate the home-buying process, it can still be done.
Before you consider buying a house during a divorce, here are some tips to keep in mind.
Buying a House During Divorce or After Separation: What to Consider
Moving forward as quickly as possible may be tempting, but buying a house during a divorce or after separation can get complicated. It’s possible to buy a house if you aren’t legally separated, but there are many factors to consider.
1. Finalize Your Legal Documents
First and foremost, your mortgage lender will require your legal separation agreement. This is a court-ordered document used to divide assets, debts, and other responsibilities between a couple.
A mortgage is a big financial obligation and your lender will want to make sure you are capable of qualifying for a mortgage as a single homeowner.
2. Figure Out Your Financials
Next, you should figure out exactly how much you can afford. Divorce typically comes with fees and ongoing costs like attorney fees, child support, or alimony, so it’s important to find out what you’re responsible for before determining what you can afford.
Tip: If you are responsible for an existing mortgage, it will be included in your debt-to-income (DTI) ratio and could make it more difficult to buy a home during a divorce. However, if the court awarded your spouse the property, then the lender may exclude that from your DTI.
3. Remove Yourself From First Mortgage
If your spouse was given the house, you will want to make sure you remove yourself from that mortgage so that you are not legally responsible for making monthly payments. This can be done by using a quitclaim deed or by refinancing.
4. Keep Records of Payment History
If you are making payments to your spouse, this will be included in your monthly debt amount. However, if you receive monthly payments, then this can count as qualifying income. Keep records of any payment history and bring this along with your legal separation agreement to your mortgage lender.
5. Get Pre-Approved
After the divorce is finalized, you can take the first step toward getting a mortgage by getting pre-approved. A pre-approval letter can help while shopping for a home. Not only does it say how much you can afford to borrow, but it also lets sellers know that you are a serious buyer.
Is It a Good Idea to Buy a House During a Divorce?
Buying a house during a divorce is possible, but it will be more of a challenge.
If you live in a community property state, then you and your spouse must sign and notarize a quitclaim deed. A quitclaim deed transfers any interest your spouse has in the property over to you or vice versa.
Community property law says that couples who acquire property during a legal marriage own the property equally, and if a quitclaim deed is not signed, then your ex-spouse will have equal rights to your new home.
As a married couple, your spouse’s debts could also affect your ability to qualify for a government-backed mortgage. Lenders calculate your DTI using both your income and debts. If your ex is on the mortgage and has a high DTI, this could also raise your household DTI.
Evaluate your financials and determine whether this is a good time to purchase a home. While you may be able to qualify for a mortgage, it may be better to build your credit score and save money. Improving your credit score and making a larger down payment could make your monthly mortgage payment more affordable.
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What If You Decide to Stay in Your Old Home After the Divorce?
During a divorce, the easiest way to divide the house is to sell it and divide the proceeds. But what if you want to stay in your home?
If both names are on the title, then you both have equal rights to stay in the home after a divorce. However, equal distribution of assets is typically handled in court during a divorce. For example, a judge could award you a percentage of the property based on your income or how much of the mortgage you personally paid.
If both parties want the house, then a court will decide who gets it and at what cost. If you keep the home, you may have to buy out your spouse. However, the court also takes financial viability and children into consideration.
Can You Buy a House With a New Partner Before Your Divorce?
There is no law saying you cannot purchase a home with a new partner before your divorce, but you and your ex must cooperate so that your new home is not viewed as a marital asset.
A quitclaim deed will need to be signed to transfer any interest in the property, even in community property states. You should also be careful of what funds you use to purchase your new home, like the down payment, closing costs, and other fees. The court could decide those funds were community property, which may complicate the entire process.
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Simple living is great. Avoiding shopping malls in favor of clothing swaps, cooking meals at home with your spouse, holding a music jam with friends instead of shelling out big bucks for a concert — all these activities not only save you money, but they also connect you more deeply with what you love.
In a sense, they make you more alive. Which is what getting rich is ultimately about: not simply achieving material wealth, but living a rich life.
Pay now, save later Some things just shouldn’t be scrimped on, though. There are expenses that save you money down the line. Some also save you time and improve your quality of life. It might be tempting to cut corners on this stuff, but the truly frugal person knows that laying out cash up front will pay off in savings later.
Consider these expenses an investment in your life. You’ll reap material as well as personal rewards when you keep up with these areas of your life:
Your health. Preventative health care saves thousands on major medical costs every year. In addition to keeping up with your annual physical, be sure to get your teeth cleaned regularly. Dental insurance typically offers only partial coverage of major dental work, and those crowns can add up to huge dollar amounts in a hurry. Taking care of your health also means eating well and getting enough exercise. These things can be done relatively cheaply: You don’t have to spend a fortune at Whole Foods or join a trendy gym to keep fit. It’s worth putting some money into eating well and keeping your body moving, though. Look for bargains at your grocery store, but don’t eat Fruit Roll-Ups instead of fresh fruit just because you have a coupon. Over time, you’ll save money by staying healthy.
Your home. You don’t need to live in a mansion. A smaller, cheaper home can often bring you more joy because it comes with fewer financial headaches and less labor to keep it clean. Whatever roof you choose to lay your head under, you’ll need to maintain it. Unless you rent, or have a condo association managing it for you, it’s important to stay on top of upkeep on your property. Like your health, preventative maintenance can go a long way towards saving you money and guarding against real harm in the future. Fixing your leaky roof promptly, replacing your water heater as needed, and cleaning your heating system each year will cost you in maintenance fees. But it’s a small fraction of the cost you’ll pay if you let those things slide until they become emergencies.
Your marriage. Divorce isn’t just painful, it’s expensive. A divorce typically lowers each former spouse’s net worth by 70%. (But it sure boosts the net worth of the lawyers!) Putting some resources into keeping things strong between you and your partner is a great investment, in financial terms as well as emotional. Set money aside for time together, for small thoughtful gifts to let your beloved know you’re thinking of her. If you have kids, spring for a babysitter to create some much-needed time alone. If your marriage is in trouble, consider therapy. The therapist’s fee may seem steep, but it’s a fraction of the hourly rate a divorce attorney will charge, and the end result will likely be happier.
Your career. Typically, your career is your greatest source of money. But it also creates expenses. These range from having the right clothes for your office environment to taking graduate courses. There’s an art to knowing which expenses will pay off. Do you really need $200 shoes to fit in at work? Is that new laptop an essential business expense or a neat toy? While it’s easy to overspend on your career, especially if you’re self-employed, work is an area where some investment up front can bring you huge returns over time. If a graduate degree will help you step into a higher paying position, or even switch careers entirely, it’s probably worth the cost of tuition bills in the here and now.
Your happiness. You can’t live entirely in the future. While you save for your long-term goals, be sure to put some energy into being happy in the present. That doesn’t mean splurging on expensive whims to buy yourself a moment of happiness in a bleary day. Spending money you don’t have won’t make you happy. Debt is a major cause of stress and sadness in people’s lives. But as you take control of your finances, be sure to also tend to the joy in your life. That’s best done by fostering close relationships and engaging in activities you love. Unlike the other “life investments” I’ve talked about here, this one comes with a small price tag or none at all. A talk with a close friend, a trip to the library, or a free movie at your local university can all bring big doses of happiness for free.
Investing in these core areas pays off in a better quality of life and saves you money on emergencies. A healthier, happier life is also a cheaper one.
Budgeting for now and later To get the long-term financial and personal gains of this approach, you’ll need to do some careful budgeting. Make sure you leave room for “unexpected” expenses like home repairs and dental work. A review of your last few years’ spending records should give you a pretty clear idea of what your family typically spends on these periodic maintenance items. By budgeting for them, you’ll have the cash on hand when you need it.
You can also make your life easier by funding a three- to six-month emergency fund to tap into when life throws you a big curveball like a suddenly failed appliance You shouldn’t rely on your emergency fund to cover your new running shoes or evening computer classes, though. Budget for these “life investments” and they’ll fit more easily into your life.
As with any expense, it’s important to make these choices with care. Yes, you’re investing in your life. Keeping your health, your home, your marriage, and your career strong will bring you more happiness every day. But like any investment, take care not to overextend yourself. Sometimes last year’s running shoe is just as good as this year’s — and for half the price. Getting the most out of your money without shortchanging your quality of life is the truly frugal approach.
One of my jobs at The Motley Fool is to serve as the internal financial planner for Fool employees. Lately, however, I’ve been answering more questions my colleagues have about their parents — and it’s more likely about their mothers or mothers-in-law. The truth is, women face a more difficult task when it comes to retirement planning, for several reasons:
Women earn, and have, less. According to the Census Bureau, women earn just 77% of what men make. They are also more likely to interrupt their careers to raise children or take care of older relatives. According to the Social Security Administration, the typical woman spends 12 years out of the workforce. This results in lower retirement benefits and smaller portfolios. On average, a female’s 401(k) is 40% less than a male’s.
Women live longer. Generally, retirement begins when a person leaves the workplace and ends when life leaves the person. The longer someone lives, the longer retirement lasts — and the more assets will be needed. On average, gals live five years longer than guys, which means they tend to be retired longer. Add to this the fact that, with most couples, the wife is a few years younger than the husband, and you can see why most women should plan on spending their last few years on their own. Which leads us to…
Women are more likely to spend part of their lives single. Though my wife may not believe it, marriage enhances retirement security. According to a National Bureau of Economic Research study by Susann Rohwedder and Michael Hurd, 80% of married couples in the 66-69 age group are adequately prepared for retirement, whereas just 55% of single persons have enough resources. Unfortunately, more than twice as many older women are single than older men. According to the Census Bureau, 19% of men over the age of 65 live alone, compared to 40% of women in the same age group. More than two-thirds of 85-year-olds are women.
Women tend to retire earlier. According to the Center for Retirement Research at Boston College, the average retirement age for men is 64, whereas the typical woman retires at age 62. This is often because a wife will retire at the same time as her husband. It’s just another reason why women can be expected to fund a longer retirement than men.
Women often leave financial planning to their husbands. According to a survey from ING Direct and Dailyworth.com, 40% of married women leave retirement planning to their partners, and almost 30% say they don’t know what their main source of future retirement income will be. This leaves widows and divorcees vulnerable when they find themselves single again, and could contribute to a general lower knowledge about money matters. According to studies by Dr. Annamaria Lusardi, director of the Financial Literacy Center, women score 12 percentage points lower than men on tests about concepts such as inflation and diversification, as well as other measures of financial literacy.
What’s a Woman to Do? While all those statistics can be discouraging, the good news is that there are plenty of solutions. Here are the steps all women (and the men who love them) can take.
Become a money master. Regardless of whether you’re single, married, or living in a hippie commune where no one bathes but someone has to pay the bills, make sure you keep learning about financial planning and have a hand in the household finances. According to a study from Hartford Financial Service and the MIT AgeLab, couples who share the financial housework are more prepared than couples that rely on just one member to do all the financial lifting; the former group is more likely to have saved more and developed a plan for what will happen when one spouse passes away. This doesn’t mean that each spouse must do everything together, but it does mean that each spouse should know enough about what’s going on, and how to manage the family finances in the case the other spouse becomes ill or passes away.
Manage the couple’s benefits with the survivor in mind. The timing of when one spouse begins receiving Social Security and pension benefits (if any) can affect the financial security of the other spouse. The questions to ask are: 1) Will the primary beneficiary receive a larger benefit for delaying, and 2) how much of the benefit will go to a surviving spouse? In the case of Social Security, the benefit does increase for each year of delaying, which can be very important source of income for a retiree whose lifetime earnings record is not as high as her or his spouse’s, because that higher benefit will continue to the lower-earning spouse when the higher-earning spouse passes away.
Be ready to be on your own. The last time I covered this topic in a GRS post, a reader linked to a New York Times article, written by a woman who had once been an advocate for stay-at-home motherhood:
So I was predictably stunned and devastated when, on our 40th wedding anniversary, my husband presented me with a divorce. I knew our first anniversary would be paper, but never expected the 40th would be papers, 16 of them meticulously detailing my faults and flaws, the reason our marriage, according to him, was over….
The judge had awarded me alimony that was less than I was used to getting for household expenses, and now I had to use that money to pay bills I’d never seen before: mortgage, taxes, insurance and car payments. And that princely sum was awarded for only four years, the judge suggesting that I go for job training when I turned 67. Not only was I unprepared for divorce itself, I was utterly lacking in skills to deal with the brutal aftermath.
I hate to be so cynical as to suggest every person should be ready to become single at any moment, but I do think everyone should have a Plan B at the ready.
Delay retirement until everyone is ready. The decision to retire should not be based solely on whether both spouses have enough money to cover expenses, but also on whether a surviving spouse would be secure should the other spouse pass away. According to the Hartford study, the typical widow sees her income drop 50% when the husband passes away, yet expenses drop just 20%. To make sure they have enough in their later years, people should continue to work — and save — until they have enough to survive on their own, and not retire just because their spouse does.
Everyone should know the team. If you use any financial-services professionals — accountants, advisors, attorneys — both spouses should know at least enough to know what they do for you, and how to contact them. If you don’t use pros because one spouse does the work, you may want to begin assembling a team in your later years to smooth the transition in case that one spouse is no longer able to do the job. You can start with a fee-only financial planner, such as those who belong to the Garrett Planning Network or the National Association of Personal Financial Advisors.
The Times, They Are A-changin’ These kinds of posts can be tricky, since they’re based on generalizations that obviously don’t apply to every woman or couple, and can come off as sexist. To be sure, I know plenty of couples in which the wife is in charge of the household finances. These folks tend to be younger, which is why I think the difference in retirement prospects for women and men is partially a generational issue. It’s certainly my experience that women in their 70s — like my mother, who found herself divorced and re-entering the workforce in her 50s — are more comfortable leaving all the financial housekeeping to their husbands, and also less comfortable talking about money. Maybe that’s just my personal experience. But I do hope, as the income gap between men and women shrinks, and more men share in the child-raising responsibilities (for example, The Motley Fool offers paternity leave to new dads), that a post like this will be largely unnecessary several years from now.
LGBT couples face unique questions when shopping for a house. It is important to be happy with the community you’re in and the legal protections you’re granted.
Here are a few things to consider as you’re going through the process of finding a home:
Research legal protections: Lambda Legal is a helpful resource for learning legal protections that, in particular, affect LGBT people. Look at issues like: marriage status, adoption rights, workplace protections, hospital visitation rights, and school anti-bullying laws to get a holistic image of your rights
Read reviews: Do an internet search for LGBT community centers and businesses. Overall, search for the indicated LGBT population in order to get a sense of how accepting the community might be.
Interview school administrators: Meet with an administrator at prospective schools to assess the LGBT acceptance and safety climate of a local school. Be sure to ask questions like,
● How often do you have anti-LGBT related incidents?
● What are you doing to promote acceptance of nontraditional families?
● If a student bullied my child because of his/her family background, how would you handle it?
Legally define ownership: If something happens to you, who would be next to inherit this new property? Meet with a local attorney and make sure your partner is legally protected to stay in the home you’re purchasing, even if he or she isn’t the buyer.
We hope that these tips help you to find a state and neighborhood that work well for you and your family. Once you’ve found a neighborhood that works for you, call a CENTURY 21® Agent who can help you find your home!
Evelyn Arceo holds down a full-time job as a baker at Universal Studios Hollywood, earning $19 an hour. But even when she gets a few hours of overtime at the theme park, the single mother of four can barely afford the rent of her one-bedroom apartment in Panorama City.
On her salary, buying a home is out of the question.
Already, her monthly rent of $1,300 is “just too expensive at this point,” Arceo said, with late fees of $40 to $50 compounding her financial plight. “I don’t think I’ve ever been on time on my rent.”
Arceo’s situation is common in California, which is among the nation’s leaders in renter-occupied housing. In the Golden State, 45.5% of housing units were occupied by renters in 2020, a small increase from the 44% rate in 2010, according to newly released data by the U.S. Census Bureau.
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California was second only to New York, where 49.7% of the housing units are renter occupied. The District of Columbia was an outlier, at 61.7%.
Nationwide, the rate of renter-occupied housing units — 36.9% — is at its highest point since 1970.
“The growth of renter-occupied units continues to outpace the growth of owner-occupied units,” the Census Bureau said in a statement.
The states with the lowest renter rate — and therefore the highest owner-occupied rates — were West Virginia, at 27.4%, and Maine, at 28.9%.
Hans Johnson, a demographer at the Public Policy Institute of California, said the new data were “not shocking.” California’s high rate of renters can be attributed mostly to “the high cost of housing,” Johnson said.
The annual income needed to buy a home in Los Angeles rose last year beyond $220,000, according to a study by the residential real estate firm Redfin. With higher mortgage interest rates and inflation cutting into household incomes, the ability to own a home is increasingly out of reach for residents in Los Angeles, where the median annual household income in 2020 was just over $65,000.
High housing costs are also a factor in putting California near the bottom in another category: the rate of single-occupancy households.
New data from the Census Bureau show that more than a quarter of all households in America — 27.6% — had just one occupant in 2020. The rate of solo occupancy is more than three times the recorded level in 1940, 7.7%.
A Times analysis found that California ranked 49th of the 50 states in the rate of single-occupant dwellings, with 23% of households occupied by just one person — a rate that has remained steady for about 20 years. Only Utah had a lower rate, at 20%.
North Dakota had the highest rate of single occupancy, 32.8%. The District of Columbia’s rate was an astronomical 43.7%.
In states other than California, “where rents are much lower or the opportunity to buy a house is better, it’s not as difficult for a single worker” to live alone, Johnson said.
Another factor is California having a “larger immigrant population than in the rest of the U.S.,” according to Johnson. “It is more common for immigrant families to live in multigenerational households,” he said.
Utah has the lowest rate of single-occupant homes because the state has a high marriage rate and an uncommonly high number of children per household, Johnson said. He attributed those trends partially to Mormon residents, who make up well over half of the state’s population.
The increase in people living alone coincides with higher social isolation, a worrying trend outlined by U.S. Surgeon Gen. Dr. Vivek Murthy in a recent report.
“Our epidemic of loneliness and isolation has been an underappreciated public health crisis that has harmed individual and societal health. Our relationships are a source of healing and well-being hiding in plain sight — one that can help us live healthier, more fulfilled and more productive lives,” Murthy said.
Such isolation increases the risk of premature death by more than 60% and includes higher risks of heart disease, stroke and dementia, according to the report.
To counter the increased isolation, “communities must design environments that promote connection,” the report said, and “invest in institutions that bring people together.”
While more Americans are living alone, Arceo, 32, worries about providing her children a home where they can enjoy some space for themselves.
With a 14-year-old son in the throes of adolescence and a 12-year-old son entering that stage, “they need their privacy,” she said.
“It’s insane to say that I work for this company and can’t afford to give my kids a proper living,” Arceo said.
She has worked as a baker for the theme park for eight years, but Arceo notes that “I was homeless for the first year working at Universal,” when she was forced to live with her then-three children in hotels, friends’ homes, wherever they could.
With the bakery short-staffed, she has recently picked up “at least an hour of overtime a day,” but it hasn’t been enough, forcing her “to choose whether I pay my car insurance or my rent,” she said.
Johnson, the demographer, pointed to possible hope on the horizon. He noted that California has reported a steady decline in population since 2020 — starting at the beginning of the pandemic. The drop has coincided with the construction of more housing, primarily in the state’s suburbs and exurbs.
“If California continues to lose people and build housing, at some point it should make a dent in the housing deficit.”
A construction surge is not likely to make enough of a difference to change the conditions for low-wage workers like Arceo.
Looking to the future, she doesn’t see many options.
Closing a bank account and opening a new one can be tricky.
Banks like to keep customers, so they make the closing process complicated.
The “hassle factor,” or the million-and-one little things you have to do before a task is complete, is one of the biggest reasons people don’t switch banks. Another reason is that people don’t feel like they know enough about other account options.
Breaking the process down into steps can help. Overall, it’s easier than you think. And the savings, in money or convenience, will usually be worth it.
Follow the three steps and you’ll be able to switch banks with as little stress as possible.
What’s Ahead:
1. Find a new bank account first
Open the new account before closing the old one. That way your automatic transactions can continue smoothly without a gap in between.
If you haven’t already picked a new bank, do some research on different banks’ requirements, perks, and fees. Here’s what you want to look for:
Services the new bank offers that your old one doesn’t. These could be simple tweaks, like an easier-to-use mobile app, or major financial services like CDs and retirement accounts.
Interest rates. If you’re switching savings accounts, compare the interest rate you’re getting on your current account versus what you might get with a new account. Some banks offer interest-bearing checking accounts, too.
The convenience factor. Can you navigate the new bank’s website? How easy is it for you to find and use their ATMs? How quickly can you set up autopay or other day-to-day transactions?
Customer assistance options. Ideally, you’re looking for a bank or credit union that makes it easy to contact a representative if you need help, and gives you contact options you’ll actually use. If you hate talking on the phone, for instance, maybe the new bank has an email or live chat feature.
Other factors will vary from person to person, like:
Your future needs. If you’re hoping your new bank will give you a mortgage loan or help you set up investment accounts down the line, find a place that offers these services.
Your banking style. Some people love online-only banking. Others want to meet with an actual person at a brick-and-mortar branch for big transactions.
Your local options. Many people prefer joining a local credit union, which is customer-owned, over signing up for a national bank. Credit unions and smaller banks have other perks, too, like better interest rates on loans for members.
Another perk of switching banks is that banks will often reward new customers. This means you may be eligible for cash rewards, temporary interest rate reductions, or other bonuses when you open a new checking or savings account.
See our current picks for the best checking account promotions and savings account promotions.
Go into the bank in person if you can, rather than opening an account over the phone (unless your bank is online). You’re more likely to get all your questions answered and you can ask directly about those potential bonus opps.
Although requirements vary depending on the bank, you’ll want to bring:
An official photo ID like a driver’s license, state ID, or passport.
Your Social Security number (you may not need your Social Security card, unless the bank specifically asks for it).
Cash, check, or payment info (routing and account number) for the opening deposit.
The minimum you’ll need to deposit will depend both on the bank and the type of account you’re setting up.
If you’re looking for a low minimum amount, or no fee required to open an account, your best bet is an online checking or savings.
Read more: Online banking vs. traditional banking
2. List and reroute any automatic transactions from your old bank
Now that you have a new bank account, it’s time to transfer your regular deposits and withdrawals. Start as soon as possible: this part may take a while if you have a lot of automatic transactions. It’s a good chance to review which services you’re spending money on (like video streaming services or memberships you forgot you had).
Here’s where your old bank statements come in handy. Get a list of your statements from the past year. Statements should be available online at your bank’s website if you don’t have paper copies.
This is a two-step process.
Step 1: Look over the past 12 months of transactions
Some automated transactions may be annual, so you might miss them in less than a year’s worth of statements. Note when deposits show up in your account and when payments are automatically withdrawn.
Keep some cash in the old account until this step is complete. You want to avoid missing scheduled payments or getting hit with overdraft fees. If you’ve written checks recently or if payments are pending, keep the old account open and funded until those payments clear.
Step 2: Switch over your deposits and payments
Once you know which deposits and payments to transfer, you can start switching them over to your new account.
If you get direct deposit from your employer, submit your new bank info (via a canceled check or just a routing and account number).
Reroute any automatic payments to your new account as soon as you can, since the change may take a few days or weeks to finalize. Some billers require notice up to a month in advance for new payment info.
Read more: How to set up direct deposit
3. Close the old account for good
Read up on your bank’s procedures for closing an account first. Some banks will let you close an account by mail, online, or over the phone; some require you to show up in person.
This list collects info on how consumers successfully closed accounts at multiple American banks. But since procedures may change, your best bet is to ask the bank directly how it’s done.
Close the account in person, if possible
I recommend closing the account in person if time and convenience allow.
A bank visit makes it easier for you to get the transaction in writing. “Zombie accounts” sometimes come back from the dead — a closed account might get reactivated if you forgot to reroute an automatic payment or if there’s a billing error. To minimize the risk of a zombie account haunting you, ask for a letter from the bank stating you closed the account.
Even if you have no funds in the account, you still need to formally close it. You may be able to close an empty account online by following the instructions on the bank’s website.
Make sure you get all the money from your account
If you have funds in the account you’re closing, the bank will usually write you a check for the amount of the balance, or just transfer funds to your new account.
Your bank may require a formal written request (such as a notarized letter) to close an account with an open balance. You may also have to go to the bank in person to pick up the check. Give the money one to two business days to transfer. A wire transfer’s faster, but it costs more.
Make sure closing the account won’t affect your credit score!
If you owe money on the account you’re closing, you won’t be able to shut it down until you pay the balance and any fees.
The bank might close an account with a negative balance after a month or so, but don’t wait for this to happen — it will negatively impact your credit. You want a neat, clean closure.
When should you switch bank accounts?
You’re merging finances with a partner
In a committed relationship where you have decided to split expenses, a joint bank account can save you money and time (many people merge accounts after marriage or entering into a domestic partnership).
You might combine finances in a brand new account, or join your partner’s existing account if their bank has more of the services you need.
Read more: How to merge bank accounts after marriage
The fees are too high
With so many banks offering fee-free checking accounts and dropping fees from high-yield savings accounts, you don’t need to stick with a bank that piles on fees.
For example, if you keep getting hit with overdraft charges despite your best intentions, look for a bank with minimal (or zero!) overdraft fees (or one without minimum balance requirements). Similarly, if you use cash frequently, pick a bank with no ATM fees.
Read more: How to stop paying ATM fees
Another bank’s features work better for your needs
It’s normal for financial situations and priorities to change, and your banking needs might change with them.
Whether you want an account that connects to a budgeting app, offers a significantly higher interest rate over time, rewards you for better credit, works with poor credit, or lets you complete all your transactions online, there are plenty of options if your current account lacks features you need.
The bank isn’t FDIC-insured
Most banks and other financial institutions have insurance from the Federal Deposit Insurance Corporation (FDIC), which protects your money up to $250,000 in case the bank fails. (They’ll mention FDIC coverage somewhere on their website, or you can see which banks are covered here). A lack of FDIC coverage is a security red flag.
You’re relocating
If you’re moving and your current bank doesn’t have physical branches near your new location, it’s often more convenient to switch — either to a big-ticket bank with branches all over the world, a local community bank in your new area, or an online-only bank.
You don’t agree with your bank’s values
Social responsibility is a big deal to a lot of consumers, and if your bank supports a cause or makes a decision you don’t agree with, you may want to put your money where your values are.
I switched from a national to a local bank for this reason with no issues (it wasn’t even awkward when I told the teller at my former bank why I was switching).
Read more: What you should know about socially responsible banks
Pros and cons of switching bank accounts
Pros
Potential cost savings. Your new bank may offer a higher interest rate for a savings account, or lower fees than your old bank. After some time, you’ll start to see the savings add up.
Possible sign-up bonuses. You can take advantage of any one-time bonuses or financial rewards your new bank offers as a “thank you” to new customers.
A better fit for your needs. Maybe you finally made the switch to an all-online bank (no branch visits!) or a local bank near where you live (fewer out-of-network ATM fees!). In any case, a bank that fits your lifestyle and preferences is the best choice.
Cons
Transferring direct deposits and autopays. This part of changing bank accounts takes some time and energy, especially if you have lots of monthly bills on autopay.
Less familiarity. You know less about the new bank’s procedures, and they know less about you — like your credit history, for instance. This means the approval process might take longer if you want a loan or additional account at your new bank.
Finding fees in the fine print. Banks and credit unions should be upfront about any fees they charge. But when you open a new account or close an old one, you’re getting a lot of information at once. Info on fees could be easy to miss if you’re not looking out for it.
The bottom line
Closing your bank account and opening a new one can be a pain, but if you take the right steps and make sure you do everything correctly, it doesn’t have to be a huge hassle.
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For past generations, “growing up” meant getting married, buying a home and starting a family.
That’s not necessarily the typical path anymore.
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Nuclear families (those defined as a husband, wife and an average of 2.3 children) used to be the majority. These days, in many cities, living solo is common and may well be the new normal.
Read on to learn more about what it means to be in charge of your own apartment household of one!
Quickly-changing times In 1950, the majority of Americans who lived alone were male migrant workers, taking jobs in sparsely-populated rural areas like Alaska or the mid-West. For these workers, living alone represented a temporary situation — one that eventually made way for a typical married life.
Fast forward to 2011. The Census from that year showed that more than 30 million people live alone, compared to the 10 million living alone in 1950. Those 30 million people represent a whopping 28 percent of all United States households. These numbers show that traditional attitudes towards family life and its milestones are changing.
Should You Live Alone or with a Roommate?
The family of one According to Eric Klinenberg, a professor of sociology at New York University who has written a book on the solo living trend, the appeal of living alone will continue to grow in our tech-obsessed society. Klinenberg suggests that because our smartphones and computers connect us to one another on a 24/7 basis, many people crave alone time. Solitude provides the much-needed respite that many use to recharge their internal batteries.
Census data on marriages also suggests a reason for so many “family of one” households. According to a 2010 Pew Research study, Millennials (the name for the current generation of 18 to 29 year olds) just aren’t in a hurry to get married. Only 21 percent of them are married, in fact. By comparison, 42 percent of Baby Boomers were married by that age, and 29 percent of Gen Xers. It seems, for younger Americans, that living alone is the new definition of “grown up” — an important milestone to cross before moving on to the challenges of adult life, including – perhaps — marriage.
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Solo in the city The majority of people who choose to live by themselves find urban centers. In fact, New York City and Washington, D.C., are half-populated by single households. In cities, where resources are accessible and transportation is more communal, the stage is set for individuals to carry out their lives without the same need for at-home support that used to be almost a necessity. It’s arguable, also, that the rise of the Internet has connected people in a way that mediates the need to share a home. For some, the city becomes their home.
“Living alone” and “being alone” are definitely not the same thing. Klinenberg actually found that those who live alone are more likely to be actively social than their married counterparts. He notes that living alone tends to make people seek out more social interaction, shattering the stereotype of the “lonely single guy/girl” and reinforcing that living alone can actually be liberating.
I asked, as I sometimes do, what personal finance question my friends and Twitter followers had for me. It was a slow day on the internet and the responses flooded in.
My friend Neil asked, “what do you think about real estate?” A broad question, indeed, and I got him to clarify. “You know… should I buy a house? Why not just rent?”
Why not indeed.
The Dream of Home Ownership I too bit off and gulped down the dream of home ownership when just a small lass. When I graduated from college, I moved to a Southern U.S. city — Charlotte, North Carolina — and like any young professional often in the company of older, established professionals — saw immediately that they all owned houses. And that this was very good.
What they had, I wanted: the houses with the staircases and the pretty backyard decks and the grand old trees in the back and the guest bathrooms with bowls of little colored soaps. I wanted a kitchen, with wide countertops and an arching clamp-hose faucet over the deep sinks and big drawers for flour and pot lids and recycling bins. And art on the walls, and a king-sized bed, and a walk-in closet, and a master bath.
My dream was only made more intense while shopping for condos in New York City, then in Reston, Virginia, with my 20s-era boyfriend. When he went to sign his first title, I went too, and we went out to lunch afterward at a restaurant on 54th street; we spent $112 and when I ate the tiny plate of tiny after-lunch sweets (a little cheesecake, a little truffle, a little gelee), I felt I’d arrived.
Years later, after the boyfriend, I became pregnant and my now-husband and I shopped for homes. My stories of those searches are intense and full of longing and stress; but by my fourth month of pregnancy I was living in house all my own. I vowed to never move.
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Other People’s Dreams I am — I was — the classic case for home ownership. I live in a small city and, when I bought the house, prices were reasonable; my mortgage payment is now less than many pay for renting an apartment. I love working on the yard and painting walls and I even tiled my bathroom myself (with lots of structural help from my father and husband). My husband is handy, and can run wiring and solder plumbing and he built a whole room in the basement. We’re the home ownership success story (though admittedly we have a lot more work to do, and no walk-in closet, no master bath).
But for many people, home ownership should remain the stuff of other people’s dreams.
I think my friend Neil is a good example. His ex-wife longed to buy a home in Los Angeles, where they had made a home after Neil’s upbringing in New York City. The situation was probably even more intense for her than for me in Charlotte; their friends and colleagues owned expansive ranch-style show-homes and sweet artsy bungalows, in neighborhoods where the price-per-square foot probably neared four digits at the peak of the market. The mortgage on those homes would require all of one middle-class salary.
Even for the more economic choices, prices were high and there was no clear benefit to buying over renting; in fact, most mortgages would be more than the cost to rent a nice (and low-maintenance) apartment.
Neil wasn’t good with a hammer or a chop saw, nor did his wife have any desire to keep a fine vegetable garden. There was no dad around to rip out old bathroom floors or teach Neil to solder copper pipes. Neil had no dreams of living in his home forever with his growing family; to date, he has no children and he’s now divorced; he’s not sure if he’ll stay in LA for the rest of the year, let alone the decade. For him, home ownership is someone else’s dream.
Should I Buy a Home? For me, Neil’s question was easy. “No,” I said finally. “I don’t think you should buy a home.”
“But isn’t that the goal?” he asked me. “Isn’t that what you’re supposed to do?”
Well, maybe. But I’ve found my own definition of “getting rich slowly” is often made up of doing few things that one is “supposed” to do; for me, living a double income, office job lifestyle is one such “supposed to” I’ve discarded. For Neil, I prescribed letting go of that “supposed to” of buying a home.
How to Know When You’re Neil Are you Neil? That is to say, should you too avoid adopting the dream of home ownership? Here are a few signs you may be Neil:
You are still a transient. Of course, we know I don’t mean “homeless person.” I believe many of us today graduate college (or high school, if college wasn’t the path for you) as transients, expecting to live in one place for a few years before trying out another, and another, and another, until one feels like home (or until you fall in love with someone who’s rooted to a place, giving you a graft and rooting you, too). If you’re not sure yet if this place is going to be your home for more than the next few years, home ownership is not for you. With closing costs and the uncertainties of the real estate market, it’s very difficult to come out of a two-year home ownership transaction without losing money as compared to renting.
You have no desire to engage in home and garden upkeep. While some such people might hire gardeners and contractors to fill in the holes in their handy skills and passions, most of those who don’t care to pick weeds or fix fences or mow lawns or plant apple trees are better off with an apartment. Purchasing a condo might be an option, if you don’t say “yes” to any of the other items in the “are you Neil” list.
The market in your favorite neighborhood doesn’t make sense. If the cost of a monthly payment on a mortgage would be greatly higher than the price of a two-bedroom apartment or other rental suitable for your family’s needs — say, more than 25 or 30% higher — it’s probably not a good time to buy. While indeed mortgage interest deductions and home buyer credits and the time value of money might be squished around to make the comparative cost similar, do remember that life is uncertain and markets fluctuate and maybe you should wait a bit — or look around for a more sensible neighborhood — before buying something.
You’re not sure about your career or your job. Maybe you’re considering going back to school to become a sommelier. Maybe you’re pretty sure your boss wants to retire and sell the company. Maybe you just don’t love your job and you’re looking around for something new. If you’re not fairly confident your next few years won’t include a significant change in income, it’s probably not a good time to engage with the home ownership dream.
Your relationship with your partner is rocky. I’ve been watching several of my friends deal with the tough decision over what to do with the family home when a relationship is over. In one case that worked out for the best — the family made a nice profit from the sale. But that was a rarity. If you’re married, you might end up having to sell and take a significant loss, even if you’d rather stay in the house solo; if you’re not married, things could be even more wonky. One woman I know lost her grandmother’s home after a pre-marriage breakup (with someone who obviously turned out to be enough of a jerk to keep her grandmother’s home, though that analysis is one-sided and second-hand, so take it with salt). Be honest with yourself, and know that, much like puppies and babies, houses do not fix broken relationships.
You would have to cash in retirement or emergency savings to buy the house. A home buying fund should be separate from those savings for emergencies and retirement. You’ll have more emergencies, in all likelihood, with a home than without. And you know how we feel about retirement savings. If your dream is that intense, then you can use your intensity to fuel your frugality while you save up for the down payment.
It also makes sense to run the numbers through a rent vs. buy calculator to see if the results would influence your decision one way or another. Have you struggled with the decision to rent or buy? Where did you come out on the Neil/not Neil spectrum?
In life, you and your marriage partner may find yourselves facing many troubles and situations. While many of these are easier when together, that is not always going to be the case.
There are times when life is taken from a person quickly, leaving the partner without them. You never know what’s going to happen tomorrow.
You can’t predict the future, but you can prepare for the worst. Nobody wants to think about losing their spouse, but it’s a conversation that you should have
To soften the blow of this, insurance is often used to offer financial stability when the cost of the funeral, hospital stay, and bills are too much to handle alone. The cost of a funeral alone can easily add up to $10,000 or more. This can be a heavy bill to leave behind for your family to pay.
When the surviving partner dies, though, that same insurance might not be enough. For many, a survivorship life insurance policy is the go-to for coverage, security, and stability when it comes to dealing with everything left behind.
Common Use for Survivorship Life Insurance Policies
Most insurance policies work by providing money to a specific person after the one who was insured passes. This helps to ease the financial burden left behind by a death, which includes several expenses and more stressful bills that are without that extra paycheck.
With survivorship life insurance, though, two people are covered to pay for the costs associated with an estate. Unlike your ordinary life insurance, this only pays out when both parties have passed, as the name would suggest. It is mostly to cover the taxes and expenses with an estate so that the heir does not have to pay.
An estate comes with costs that could otherwise ruin its value, or at least drop it dramatically. When passing this to an heir, those costs could cause them to receive far less than promised.
Depending on the situation for which this person is receiving the estate that can be damaging. Not only that, but you would also not be giving the person as much as you had hoped. There is a reason they were chosen to receive your estate, obviously, and not giving them the full amount was probably never your plan. With this, you can ensure that they receive as much of the full amount as possible.
There are thousands of families members that find themselves with drastically less heritage than they assumed they would receive because of unpaid expenses, taxes, fees, and much more. If you want to leave your legacy with your children or loved ones, a survivorship insurance policy will protect your savings and allow your inheritance to reach its full potential.
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Estate Planning with Life Insurance
Having any type of final expense insurance is not difficult.
In fact, it is often easier than your average life insurance because it can be issued as a no medical exam life insurance policy. These policies are exactly what they sound like, you’ll be able to get the insurance coverage that you need, regardless of your health or any pre-existing medical conditions.
This can help you to insure your estate without issue so that whoever is receiving it is not stuck with massive bills that chip away at the overall amount. The ease of getting it also makes it easier on you, obviously. While other types of life insurance have stresses and because you to go through several steps to finally be insured, this makes it easier. When going for this type of insurance, it is possible to get it and get out without becoming stressed, worried, or bothered by what must be done.
With the importance of your estate, it is necessary to ensure it goes to your chosen heir in a complete amount. Having survivorship life insurance is the option to keep your estate at full value and help your heir get it without spending large sums of money.
It’s always best to meet with a trusted estate planning attorney to see if you are in need of a survivorship life insurance policy. There are a lot of different factors that you have to consider when deciding if you need a survivorship life insurance policy or a traditional plan. An estate planning attorney can help walk you through the process and make the best decision for you and your family.
Advantages and Disadvantages of Survivorship Life Insurance
Because there are so many different life insurance options, it’s important to understand the pros and cons of each option. Life insurance is one of the most vital purchases that you can make for you and your family, you should make well informed and educated decisions.
Not having the right type of policy, or not having a policy at all, is one of the worst mistakes that you can make. It could leave your loved ones with a mountain of debt and no way to pay for it. That’s not the inheritance that most people want to leave behind after they pass away.
One of the advantages to these survivorship life insurance policies is the standards that most companies used to issue them. If you go with a plan that uses medical underwriting, it’s going to be very different from a traditional term life insurance policy, because it’s based on the health of two people instead of just one.
This means that even if one person doesn’t have perfect health, you’ll still be able to get coverage as long as the other person is in good health. For anyone with any serious health complications or any pre-existing conditions, this can be extremely beneficial.
Another major advantage to these policies is the monthly premiums. In most cases, a survivorship life insurance policy is going to be cheaper than buying two separate policies for each person. These plans will give you life insurance coverage for less expensive monthly payments.
Just like other life insurance plans, there are disadvantages to these policies. The biggest disadvantage is obvious, you won’t receive any payment for the loss of your spouse.
When the first person dies, the surviving spouse will be left with all of the funeral expenses, medical bills, unpaid debts, and much more, but they won’t receive any funds from the life insurance policy. For a grieving spouse, it can be difficult to pay for all of these expenses.
This is where a traditional policy is an excellent tool. One alternative to the survivorship life insurance is purchasing a traditional term life insurance policy for both you and your spouse. These policies only cover one party instead of two.
In most cases, a term policy is much less expensive than most applicants think. Aside from how affordable they are, it’s also much more beneficial when your spouse dies, it will leave you with the money you need to pay off any debts or pay for any funeral expenses.
Just like with most other policies, you can always go with a no medical exam term life insurance plan. They are easy to apply for, and you can get insurance coverage quickly. In some cases, it can be as quick as a couple of days.
Getting Life Insurance
It’s easy to see why everyone should have a quality life insurance policy, but getting an affordable plan can be a long and stressful process. There are hundreds of companies that offer dozens of different insurance products.
Imagine for a moment that it’s morning and you’re about to wake up: Your alarm rings and you grab your smartphone from the bedside table. You’re still disoriented, but you decide to check your emails and something you see on the screen jolts you wide awake.
It’s a cheap flight alert to Japan from a subscription service you’d signed up for ages ago.
The deal looks too good to pass up, but there’s one problem: You don’t have a passport. So you wonder, “Can I book an international flight without a passport?”
Whether someone has never held a passport or they’re still waiting on a passport renewal, not everyone has a passport on them at all times.
So, can you book an international flight without a passport? Let’s take a closer look.
Do you need a passport to book an international flight?
Thankfully for daydreaming travelers, the answer is no.
In most cases, U.S. citizens don’t need a passport to book an international flight. However, you do need one to check in for your flight and get on a plane, and the document has to be valid. For instance, European countries that are in the Schengen area require at least six months of passport validity. Otherwise, you won’t be able to board a plane to countries in the region.
Other countries have different rules. For example, Mexico only requires your passport to be valid at the time of travel, so make sure to check the U.S. Department of State website for your destination’s requirements before traveling abroad.
Domestic trips within the United States don’t require a passport as long as you have a state ID or are enrolled in Clear.
How much does a U.S. passport cost?
The cost of a U.S. passport depends on whether you’re applying for the first time or renewing an expired passport.
First-time adult applicants will pay the following to get a new U.S. passport:
Passport book: $130.
Passport card: $30.
Passport book and card: $160.
Execution (acceptance) fee: $35.
The execution/acceptance fee must be paid for first-time applications, so all in: First-time passport book applicants can expect to pay around $165 total.
Applicants requesting to renew their passport will pay less because the acceptance fee doesn’t apply, so they’ll just pay the passport book or passport card cost listed above.
If you need a fast turnaround, expedited service costs an additional $60, and two-day delivery is listed for another $19.53.
How to apply for a U.S. passport
If you’re applying for a passport as a first-time applicant, follow the steps for an in-person application at a passport acceptance facility.
Fill out a form (new passport, renewal, data corrections, name changes).
Provide evidence of U.S. citizenship (with a photocopy).
Present ID (with a photocopy).
Provide a photo.
Calculate fees and provide a check or a money order payable to the U.S. Department of State (debit or credit cards aren’t accepted).
Submit all the documents to a passport acceptance facility.
Track your application status online.
Note that the acceptance fee will be charged separately. To locate a passport acceptance facility in your area, enter your ZIP code on this page.
In most cases, it’ll be a public library, a post office or a local government office.
Some states have passport agencies that can process your passport application within 14 days of international travel or within 28 days if you need to apply for a visa, but they’re open by appointment only.
How to renew a U.S. passport
Renewing a U.S. passport requires sending an application by mail. In fact, it’s not possible to renew a U.S. passport at a passport acceptance facility unless you don’t qualify for a mail-in renewal.
To be eligible for a renewal by mail, the following must be true:
You can submit your old passport with your application.
The passport isn’t damaged.
It’s never been reported lost or stolen.
It was issued in the last 15 years.
It was issued when you were 16 or older.
It was issued in your current name (unless you have a marriage certificate or a divorce decree to support a name change).
It wasn’t limited to fewer than 10 years because of multiple issues with passport theft, loss or damage.
Note that once you renew your passport, you’ll get a new passport number, so if you saved your passport number in a frequent flyer account, you’ll have to update the number and the expiration date before you can check in for an international flight.
The U.S. Department of State also has tested online renewals, but the service has been put on hold for now.
How long will you wait for a U.S. passport?
In 2023, the U.S. Department of State is on track to set the record for the number of passports processed. The department estimates 10 to 13 weeks for routine passport service and seven to nine weeks for expedited service.
It’s worth noting that mailing times aren’t included in the estimate, so you’ll have to account for that as well.
In short, you will need plenty of lead time to receive it before the travel date.
The bottom line
You don’t need a passport number to book an international flight. However, make sure to leave enough time for a passport renewal or a new application because it can take a while to process.
If you think you’re going to travel internationally, we recommend applying as soon as possible to have a passport ready. You don’t want to miss out on a great flight deal to Japan — or anywhere else — simply because you don’t have the required documents for international travel.
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