Virgin Voyages cruise line debuted its first ship, Scarlet Lady, in 2020. Founded by British entrepreneur and adventurer Richard Branson, this is not your typical cruise. To start, you must be at least 18 years old to sail on Virgin Voyages. And with plenty of restaurants, a food hall, a tattoo parlor and blush-inducing shows, Scarlet Lady has plenty to offer.
Following Scarlet Lady, Virgin Voyages added two other “lady ships” to its fleet — Valiant Lady and Resilient Lady. Here’s what you need to know when sailing aboard Virgin Voyages’ Scarlet Lady.
Scarlet Lady itinerary
Scarlet Lady really gets around. With a home port in Miami, the energy-efficient ship typically sails Caribbean itineraries, calling on ports in Mexico, Cuba, the Dominican Republic, the Bahamas and more.
The cruise line also has a private beach club in Bimini, with swimming pools, restaurants, a beach area and activities. All Virgin Voyages cruises with Caribbean itineraries make a stop here.
Seasonally, the ship makes a trans-Atlantic crossing, sailing around the Mediterranean and visiting several ports in the United Kingdom.
Scarlet Lady ship tour
These enormous ships are designed for adult vacations, providing plentiful recreation and activity options for every type of traveler. Scarlet Lady has 17 decks and capacity for around 2,800 passengers in its 1,400 cabins.
Cabins demonstrate Virgin’s trademark “cool” design, with mood lighting, minimalist furniture, a slightly nautical twist in the decor, and distinct red hammocks on the balconies.
The majority of cabins have balconies, which gives this ship an edge when courting travelers. The premium cabins are the RockStar and Mega RockStar Quarters, which come in various configurations and designs.
The most glamorous suites have whirlpools on the terrace, separate dining and living areas, and larger bathrooms — some even have an outdoor shower. All suites boast a record player. Even the stateroom attendants bear a unique title: Rock Star Coordinators.
Booking a premium cabin and suite gives guests access to Richard’s Rooftop, an alfresco lounge and patio with sitting areas, an open bar, whirlpools and live entertainment. Other perks include airport transfers, priority disembarkation and boarding in ports, access to the spa’s thermal suite, free laundry and clothes pressing, and comped minibars.
Other cabin types include those with bunk beds (ideal for friends traveling together) and solo cabins.
When out and about, there are plenty of shopping opportunities, including the chance to get inked at the onboard tattoo parlor (the first of its kind on a cruise ship).
As you meander the ship, you’ll discover everything from basketball courts, a boxing ring and gym equipment to a spa with a thermal area and relaxation nets that dangle over the sea.
Private deck cabanas at Mediterranean eatery The Dock feature day beds that look out toward the ocean, and ample lounge chairs ring the party-centric pool, where staffers circle with drinks.
In addition to a menu of spa services, there are also saunas, steam rooms, a salt room, a mud room, a beauty salon and plunge pools. Once the sun sets, a DJ sets up shop to create a party atmosphere in the same space.
One quick shake of your mobile device when using the onboard app summons an attendant with Champagne.
Scarlet Lady dining
Instead of one main dining room, there are individual restaurants and a food hall with dining options at all hours.
In the food hall, there are also takeaway bento boxes with snacks like sushi, fresh fruit, salads and sandwiches. Other options include a burger bar, a taco shack, a sushi station and a ramen shop. It’s all included in the cruise price, and everything is made fresh to order.
Among other dining options on the ship are a Korean barbecue eatery, a steak and seafood cafe, molecular fusion cuisine where dishes are served in opulent style with a scientific twist (think test tubes and beakers for some dishes), Italian, Mexican, a pizza bar and an all-vegan/vegetarian option.
There are several bars on board, including a tap room called the Draught Haus, which offers an array of beers on tap and by the bottle. Among the options in the Draught Haus and elsewhere on the ship is Virgin’s own bespoke beer, an English Pale Ale with a hint of red, brewed by Miami’s Wynwood Brewing Company.
Made-to-order barista coffee from Intelligentsia is available, and there’s a cold-pressed juice bar for those looking for a healthy refreshment.
Scarlet Lady bars, nightlife and shows
For entertainment, passengers can head to The Manor, a multi-bar nightclub with a ’70s punk vibe, which features a rotating line-up of comedy acts.
The party atmosphere lasts late into the night. As you wander the ship, keep an eye out for “Happenings,” the unscheduled improv acts and performances that the staff do to spice up things when you least expect it.
Other destinations for activities include a karaoke room, a casino, a private gaming area, a poker room, a cinema and a record store. The occasional fashion show also takes place on board.
One thing that Scarlet Lady does not offer is the typical stage show with singers and dancers performing to a prerecorded soundtrack. The onboard entertainers do, however, sing and dance by the pool, in the nightclub and on the stage.
There are no Broadway-style shows, either. Instead, look for solo performers in various bars and by the pool. The space is carefully curated so that no matter where you are, there is something to enliven the atmosphere (whether through art, design, music, or simply the view).
The bottom line
Sailing with Virgin Voyages is not your standard cruise experience. While the adult-themed onboard vibe is playful, this is not the jam-packed ship with waterslides and bingo cards some might imagine.
Step aboard with an open mind and some knowledge of Richard Branson’s Virgin Group brand track record, and you’ll be sure to enjoy a different type of cruise vacation.
(Top photo courtesy of Virgin Voyages)
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Picture this: you’re immersed in a world of pixels and virtual adventures, surrounded by the perfect blend of comfort and cutting-edge tech.
Creating the ultimate gaming space at home isn’t just about slapping a console on a coffee table; it’s about curating an experience, one that matches your passion and helps you level up your game, pun intended.
With the right setup and ambiance, you can transform any ordinary space into a gamer’s paradise. Whether you’re a casual gamer or a hardcore enthusiast, having your own gaming room — or even just a corner of the house dedicated to your hobby — can make your gaming sessions infinitely more fun.
If you’re looking to take your gaming experience to the next level, here are some easy home decorating tips for you to transform a corner of your home into the perfect gaming haven.
Choosing the right room for your gaming setup
When it comes to choosing the right spot for your gaming setup, there are a few factors to consider. First, assess the available space in your home. Write down all possible locations you have to work with, then evaluate them based on some crucial criteria.
Ideally, you want a room that is spacious enough to accommodate all your gaming equipment and accessories. It should also have good ventilation and lighting to create a comfortable gaming environment.
Next, consider the location of the room within your home.
If possible, choose a room or space that is away from high-traffic areas to minimize distractions. You don’t want people walking in and out of the room while you’re in the middle of an intense gaming session.
Additionally, consider the proximity to power outlets and internet connections to ensure easy setup and connectivity.
Lastly, think about the noise level in the room. Gaming can sometimes get loud (and even foul-mouthed), especially during intense moments or multiplayer sessions. If you live with others, you may want to choose a room that is away from bedrooms or common areas to avoid disturbing others.
And if you think your options are severely limited, take inspiration from other gamers who have found a way to fit their gaming setup into small spaces. Some have even turned their closets into dedicated gaming nooks.
Setting up your gaming PC or console
To create an epic gaming room, you’ll need the right equipment and accessories, of course. But those vary wildly from one person to the next.
Let’s start with the basics -– a high-quality gaming PC or console. Depending on your budget and preference, choose a system that can handle the latest games and provide smooth gameplay.
Next, consider your display setup. A large, high-resolution monitor or TV is essential for an immersive gaming experience.
Look for a display with a high refresh rate and low input lag for smooth and responsive gameplay. Consider mounting your display on a wall or using an adjustable monitor arm for optimal positioning.
Have some older computer screens collecting dust in the basement? Bring them up and use them to line your walls — they could be an excellent display for your Esports games that you can run in the background and cheer for your favorite team while playing your own game on a separate screen.
In addition to the essentials, there are a few accessories that can enhance your gaming experience. A gaming headset with surround sound capabilities allows you to fully immerse yourself in the game’s audio.
Gaming keyboards and mice with customizable RGB lighting not only add a touch of style to your setup but also provide additional functionality and customization options.
Comfort is key: You’ll need the right gaming chair
Can’t forget about the throne — the gaming chair.
Time to say goodbye to the stiff office chair; a proper gaming chair is an investment in your gaming endurance. Look for ergonomic designs that support your posture during extended sessions. Some even come with built-in speakers for that surround-sound feel.
The gamer in my household is a Secretlab fanatic, but there are countless gaming chair brands to choose from. From Corsair to Kaiser, NeueChair, or ThunderX3, and significantly more affordable dupes that you can get in big stores, there’s no shortage of options.
And while comfort is key when picking your gaming chair, you have to keep in mind that the chair’s design — and overall color scheme — will set the tone for your gaming space decor, so make sure to factor that in when making your purchase.
You might think the color scheme is just a small detail, but to achieve that cohesive look, paying attention to the colors used throughout is crucial. Especially since gaming chairs tend to have bright, colorful designs that may not work well with other decor elements — if you pick them before finding the right chair.
Mood lighting: Set the ambiance
The next step would be to transform your space from a boring corner into a playful battle scene with smart lighting.
You’ll want to have the option to dim the lights for a horror game, bathe the room in ethereal blue for a sci-fi adventure, or go full RGB disco mode — just because you can.
Smart lighting not only sets the mood but also minimizes eye strain during those marathon gaming sessions.
To take things one step further, consider installing some ambient LED strips or smart lighting systems to add a touch of ambiance to your gaming room. And it’d be silly not to.
LED light strips are the most affordable way to add a wow factor to your gaming room setup. You can always find them on sale, and even paying full price is a minor expense — with a big payoff.
With customizable colors and effects, you can create a lighting setup that matches the mood of your game and enhances the overall gaming experience.
Personalizing your gaming space with decor and themes
Make your gaming room truly yours by personalizing it with decor and themes that reflect your gaming style and preferences.
Consider creating a feature wall with gaming-themed wallpaper or artwork. Display your favorite gaming posters, figurines, or collector’s editions on shelves or wall-mounted display cases.
Incorporate your favorite gaming franchises or genres into the overall theme of your room. Whether it’s a futuristic sci-fi theme or a retro arcade-inspired design, let your creativity shine through. Add touches of color and personality with gaming-themed pillows, rugs, or curtains.
Are you into World of Warcraft? Throw in a metal Lich King poster on the wall or proudly display your Frostmourne Sword replica. More of a League of Legends fan? Or maybe Overwatch? Showcase your action figures prominently, this is the perfect space for them.
Incorporate other connected passions to personalize the space even more. Think race cars, LEGO collections, trophies, etc. Bring your other hobbies (photography, cinema, anime, you name it) into your fun space — I promise they’ll go nicely, even if they have nothing to do with gaming, and will only make the space more welcoming for you.
Many hardcore gamers take things a step further and even add old-school arcade games like Donkey Kong, Space Invaders, Pac-Man, or Street Fighter II. Others turn their gaming room into the real-life equivalent of a feature-laden online casino, with slot machines and a poker table. Whatever your other fun interests might be, they can find a place here.
Additionally, consider adding a gaming-inspired desk setup with RGB lighting, custom keycaps, or a gaming mousepad. These small details can make a big difference in creating a visually appealing and engaging gaming space.
Organizing cables and managing clutter
A cluttered and messy gaming room can hinder your gaming experience and make it difficult to maintain and upgrade your setup. Take the time to organize your cables and manage clutter effectively.
Start by using cable management solutions such as cable clips, cable sleeves, or cable trays to keep your cables neatly organized and out of sight. Label your cables or use color-coded cable ties to easily identify and manage them.
Invest in storage solutions such as shelves, cabinets, or storage boxes to keep your gaming accessories, controllers, and games organized. Use cable management solutions or Velcro straps to secure your controllers and prevent them from getting tangled.
Regularly clean and dust your gaming room to ensure optimal performance and longevity of your gaming equipment. A clean and well-maintained gaming room not only looks better but also provides a more enjoyable gaming experience.
Creating an epic gaming room at home is a surefire way to level up your gaming experience. By choosing the right room, investing in essential gaming equipment, optimizing lighting and sound, prioritizing ergonomics and comfort, personalizing your space, and managing clutter, you can transform any ordinary room into a gaming paradise.
Remember to consider your own preferences and gaming style when designing your gaming room. Let your creativity shine through and make it a space that reflects your passion for gaming. With the right setup and ambiance, your gaming room will become the envy of all your friends.
So, power up your space and embark on a gaming adventure like never before. Your epic gaming room awaits!
*Featured image credit: ELLA DON on Unsplash
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Hawaii, with its lush landscapes, volcanic terrains, and mesmerizing beaches, offers a unique backdrop for the real estate market. The home inspection process here isn’t just routine—it’s essential. For prospective buyers, a home inspection not only reveals a property’s interaction with the unique Hawaiian environment but also offers a comprehensive view of its overall condition and potential challenges. Sellers, on the other hand, find value in providing clarity about their property’s strengths and vulnerabilities.
So whether you’re buying a home in Honolulu or selling a home in Waipahu, this Redfin article has everything you need to know about getting a home inspection in Hawaii, along with insights from local home inspectors themselves. Let’s get started.
Why should you get a home inspection in Hawaii?
“A Home Inspection initiated by the seller will increase the confidence of the buyer, reduce the time on the market, and lower the unknown risks faced by the buyer,” shares Inspect Hawaii.”A good analogy is the game of poker versus chess. In poker, cards are hidden from both parties to enable bluffing and guessing as part of the game. In chess, all the chess pieces of both parties are on the chess board and there is full transparency of information. A seller’s inspection is like playing chess instead of the current process which is akin to playing poker.”
“Buying a home in Hawaii, which is one of the most expensive and competitive places to live, can be a very emotional and difficult process,” shares Building Specs Hawaii. “Hiring qualified professionals, like an experienced home inspector, can help to alleviate some of the stresses and uncertainties that often arise. A professional home inspection provides valuable insight into a home and its components allowing buyers to better understand their potential new home and to best determine if it is the right one for them.”
Are there any specialized inspections that Hawaii buyers should consider?
In Hawaii, the tropical paradise known for its diverse landscapes and unique ecosystems, home buyers should be aware of specialized inspections that cater to the islands’ distinct conditions. Given Hawaii’s proximity to the ocean, a salt mist assessment can be valuable, as salt-laden air can accelerate corrosion on properties, especially metal components. Homes located in areas prone to volcanic activity might benefit from a geothermal risk evaluation. Additionally, given the high humidity levels, checking for mold or moisture damage is vital, particularly in enclosed spaces like basements.
“A home inspection in Hawaii is of paramount importance due to the unique environmental factors that affect properties in this tropical paradise,”says Square One Home Inspections. “The state’s high humidity levels can lead to hidden issues like mold and mildew, which may go unnoticed by the untrained eye. It is highly recommended that a home buyer to also complete a proper mold inspection.”
The state’s tropical climate can lead to pests like termites, making a comprehensive pest inspection critical.
“Termites are insidious. They can infest a house for months without being detected. In Hawaii there are two types of termites, similar in appearance but completely different in how they become established, the type of damage they do, the extent of the damage and how quickly the damage occurs,” shares Entomologist, Jamie Neely.
“Indications of infestations that are in their infancy are subtle and it takes an experienced eye to notice. Some types of construction are much more prone to infestation. Some areas of the islands have greater levels of infestation. Some high-rise buildings are more susceptible to infestation based on the design.”
“Termites are insidious. They can infest a house for months without being detected. In Hawaii there are two types of termites, similar in appearance but completely different in how they become established, the type of damage they do, the extent of the damage and how quickly the damage occurs,” shares Entomologist, Jamie Neely.
“Indications of infestations that are in their infancy are subtle and it takes an experienced eye to notice. Some types of construction are much more prone to infestation. Some areas of the islands have greater levels of infestation. Some high-rise buildings are more susceptible to infestation based on the design.”
Are home inspections required in Hawaii?
“I have been Inspecting properties on Oahu for over 20 years and you wouldn’t believe the flaws I have come across. I highly recommend home buyers hire a Home Inspector before their purchase although Hawaii does not require it,” recommends Akamai Home Inspection.
How much does a home inspection cost in Hawaii?
The cost of a home inspection in Hawaii can vary depending on several factors, including the location, size, and age of the property, as well as the specific services included in the inspection. On average, home inspections in Hawaii typically range from $400 to $800 or more. It’s essential to obtain quotes from qualified home inspectors in your area to get a precise estimate tailored to your property’s unique characteristics and the level of inspection detail you require. Keep in mind that while the upfront cost may vary, a thorough home inspection is a valuable investment in ensuring the condition and safety of your prospective home.
Can you sell a house in Hawaii without an inspection?
“You can sell your home in Hawaii without having a home inspection, but should you? It depends on many factors but we would recommend having a pre listing inspection to reduce the anxiety that comes with not knowing the outcome during the contingency period,” shares Architect Inspection Systems, Inc.. “It also gives you the opportunity to stand out as a seller by handing the buyers a detailed report on the condition of the home upfront, showing the confidence you have in your offer for sale.”
Hawaii home inspection: the bottom line
In the unique environment of Hawaii, home inspections take on special significance. At the heart of it, a thorough home inspection in Hawaii is not just about ensuring a sound investment; it’s about understanding and respecting the delicate balance of nature and construction in this tropical haven.
A city that needs no introduction, Las Vegas is a glittering oasis in the heart of the Nevada desert. From its inception as a humble railroad stopover to becoming a global entertainment icon, Las Vegas has etched its name into the annals of history. Instantly recognizable for its neon-lit skyline, iconic resort casinos, and high energy, Las Vegas is where fantasy becomes reality. But what exactly is Las Vegas known for? Whether you’re looking to rent an apartment in Las Vegas or purchase a home in the area, prepare to uncover what makes this beautiful city what it is today.
World-class casinos
Las Vegas boasts several famous casinos that have become synonymous with luxury, excitement, and indulgence. From the Flamingo, the first major resort on the Strip, to the Bellagio with its famous dancing fountains, these casinos offer numerous gaming options, from slot machines and table games to poker rooms and sports betting. Each casino has its unique theme and atmosphere, transporting visitors to different corners of the world. Not to mention, the architecture, interior designs, and entertainment options, including live performances and celebrity chef restaurants, make Las Vegas casinos a haven for those seeking a one-of-a-kind entertainment experience.
Being a global entertainment epicenter
From residency shows featuring artists like Kelly Clarkson, Elton John, Adele, and Luke Bryan, to Cirque du Soleil productions such as “O” and “Mystère,” the city’s theaters and venues offer many different types of live entertainment. Beyond music and theater, Las Vegas has many attractions along or close to the strip, including the Bellagio Fountains, the High Roller observation wheel, and the Mirage Volcano. The city’s nightlife is equally renowned, with its vibrant nightclubs and bars drawing international DJs and partygoers.
Thrilling outdoor adventures
Las Vegas offers exhilarating outdoor adventures for those exploring the surrounding region. Within a short distance, visitors can go on desert excursions, such as off-roading adventures in rugged terrains, guided ATV tours through Red Rock Canyon’s stunning landscapes, or even dune buggy rides across the sand dunes of the Mojave Desert. For the more adventurous, opportunities for rock climbing, hiking, and rappelling in nearby canyons like the picturesque Valley of Fire provide a unique blend of adrenaline and breathtaking scenery. Additionally, the nearby Colorado River invites visitors to engage in activities like kayaking, paddleboarding, and even white-water rafting.
The Las Vegas Strip
The Las Vegas Strip is a world-famous thoroughfare stretching approximately 4.2 miles along Las Vegas Boulevard South. This iconic street features resort casinos, dazzling neon lights, and bustling crowds. Each resort along the Strip has its own unique theme, from the elegant Venetian with its intricate replica of Venice’s canals to the pyramid-shaped Luxor and the extravagant Paris Las Vegas. The Strip is not only a hub of gambling and gaming, but it also offers entertainment, from mesmerizing theatrical productions to world-class concerts by renowned artists.
Unique landmarks
Las Vegas has unique landmarks that contribute to its distinctive and iconic character. The famed Las Vegas Strip is a remarkable landmark, but there are many other attractions to check out. Some of which include the Neon Boneyard (which showcases a dazzling collection of vintage neon signs), the “Pawn Stars” Gold & Silver Pawn Shop, and the unconventional and artistic Container Park.
Fine dining
Las Vegas has established itself as a global culinary destination, offering an exquisite array of fine dining experiences. Renowned for celebrity chef restaurants, the city boasts a culinary landscape where innovation meets luxury. From the elegant and contemporary ambiance of Joël Robuchon at the MGM Grand to the sophisticated Italian cuisine of Carbone at ARIA, these establishments elevate dining to an art form. Notably, the Wynn and Encore resorts house a collection of fine dining gems, including SW Steakhouse and Wing Lei, the first Chinese restaurant in the U.S. to earn a Michelin star.
Fremont Street
Often referred to as the “original Las Vegas,” Fremont Street boasts a rich history dating back to the city’s early days, lined with vintage casinos, neon signs, and a distinctive retro charm. The renowned Fremont Street Experience, a massive canopy of LED lights, hosts dazzling light shows and concerts, immersing visitors in a visual display. The street is also home to some of Las Vegas’s oldest and most iconic casinos, including the Golden Nugget and Binion’s. Street performers and live music are common throughout all parts of the day.
Referred to as Knoll House, the most expensive home listing in Pasadena—a picturesque city 11 miles northeast of downtown L.A.—hopes to attract a lover of art or automobiles eager to showcase a collection.
That’s because the property—two structures totaling 32,644 square feet of living space—includes a 20,000-square-foot art gallery (with enough room to display cars), along with an 11,000-square-foot, 16-room home original to the estate. It sits on a 2.3-acre landscaped and gated lot.
In addition to seven bedrooms and 21 baths, the perk-packed property comes with a Tiki bar, home theater, and wine cellar. Plus, the outdoor area includes a pool, multiple living and dining areas, fireplaces, and a kitchen with a pizza oven and bar.
George Penner with deasypennerpodley real estate is handling the $38.5 million listing.
Historic home
The house was built in 1916 based on designs by architect Myron Hunt. It was initially known as the Samuel C. Fertig House.
Then, in 1973, the home underwent an expansion led by architect Gordon B. Kaufmann and renamed Knoll House by then-owner Virginia Steele Scott.
Art lover’s amenity
Scott left behind a grand statement to the art world.
“Scott [was] a prominent American art collector and donated her collection to the Huntington Library,” Penner says.
Before that, the artwork had its own place on the property.
“She had a gallery space built by Ladd & Kelsey, the same architectural firm that did the Norton Simon Museum in Pasadena.”
The 21,000-square-foot art gallery spans three levels, providing enough room to also showcase a car collection. Elevators and underground access from the main house seamlessly connect the two structures. There’s enough parking for guests thanks to a motor court and a five-car garage.
Another highlight of this property is a Tiki lounge. The sellers added the lounge after they picked up this property in 2013 for $7.5 million. The lounge decor and furnishings are included in the sale.
“Our client utilized the foremost Tiki-bar fabricator and all the furnishings and décor have been sourced from different Tiki bars or museums with artifacts,” Penner says.
From its inception, the building was designed to house more than just art. The art gallery building includes a 46-seat home theater, a poker room, two commercial elevators, and a conference center.
So, who will be in the market for this beautiful property?
“We’re specifically targeting that avid collector. They may be a collector of fine paintings or even a car collector,” Penner says. But someone with deep pockets who loves to entertain may also be tempted.
“The current owner utilizes that space as an event space for philanthropic events,” he adds. “It can host hundreds of people.”
This probably sounds strange coming from a guy who has been anti-budget all his life. Besides, haven’t I paid off all my debt? Don’t I have a positive cash-flow of over $1,000 per month? Yes, these things are true. But I’ve noticed something troubling: I’ve begun to experience that lifestyle inflation I’m always warning others about.
Lifestyle inflation is the natural tendency to increase our spending as our incomes increase. When we get a raise at work, we’re likely to spend more at home. A little lifestyle inflation is fine. But there’s a real danger of becoming too comfortable with increased spending. Once we become accustomed to a certain lifestyle, it’s difficult to cut back.
Cracks in the Foundation
On our flight home from Orlando, Kris and I talked about my spending. It has increased in recent months. Some of this is deliberate. I’ve made a conscious decision to allow myself to spend more money on Wants. I can afford it. The trouble is that I’ve begun to spend indiscriminately again, and I’m afraid that’s a slippery slope. I’ll buy random magazines at the grocery store, or pick up a game for the Wii that I’m only half interested in.
I’m certainly not spending beyond my means, but I’ve begun to make more impulse purchases. I want to correct this now — before it becomes a problem. In the past, I’ve used a spending plan to help me meet my goals, and more recently I’ve been following the broad outlines of Elizabeth Warren’s balanced money formula:
But sometimes broad outlines aren’t enough. In this case, Kris suggested that a budget might help curb my impulsiveness, and I think she’s right. With a budget, I can set specific goals. I can focus on the things I really want instead of just spending on random things that appeal to me in the moment.
So, I’ve decided to create a budget. Not a comprehensive budget — my Income, Needs, and Saving are all fine — but a budget for my Wants. I want to exercise discipline in this area so that I’m spending on things that are actually important to me instead of random stuff, stuff that ultimately turns into clutter.
Blueprint for Success
To start, I reviewed my discretionary spending from last year and compared it to the totals from the first four months of 2009. This is where tracking every penny you spend can prove valuable. By comparing my past spending to my present spending, I’m able to detect trends. It’s very clear, for example, that I am again spending too much on dining out. Time to cut back.
Next, I thought about my goals. What is it that I really want to do? Lately, travel appeals to me. Kris and I both would like to take a vacation to Europe in 2010. To make that happen, I need to save. This gives me a medium-term goal to save toward.
Finally, I allocated a specific amount of money toward my monthly Wants. Remember, because I’m self-employed, I have an irregular income that passes through my business account first. If I pull out $2500 per month (after taxes) to act as personal income, that gives me $750 to spend on my passions. That should be plenty.
Note:Based on my Income, Needs, and Saving, I can afford to allocate $750 for Wants. This might seem high to some GRS readers. It would have seemed high to me once, too. But because I’ve paid off my consumer debt, I have $750 per month to spend on the things that make me happy.
Building the Budget
After collecting the data and setting my goals, I made a first pass at a budget. This is what I’ll use for June and July:
Books: $50/month
Comic Books: $50/month
Entertainment: $50/month
Clothing: $50/month
Charity: $50/month
Dining Out: $200/month
Vacation 2010: $200/month (plus small windfalls)
Miscellaneous: $100/month
Obviously, you might make different choices. I know that many GRS readers are avid contributors to charity, for example, and I suspect few of you budget for comic books! These are the allocations that seem to make sense for me and my situation. I’m sure that I’ll make changes to this budget as I work with it in the real world.
Actually, I have a lot of questions about how a budget should work in the real world. Because I’m a budgeting novice, I could use some help. I’m hoping that you experienced budgeters can answer some of my questions:
How often do you re-evaluate your budget? Do you make monthly adjustments? Quarterly? Yearly?
If you go over budget for a month, what do you do? Do you make immediate adjustments? Or do you simply try to correct things the following month?
What if I go under budget in a category? Does that mean I get to carry that money into the next month? Can I use it for a different Want category? (Perhaps sweep anything extra into the Vacation fund?) Or does does that money go to Saving instead? Or should I donate it to charity?
How do you track your spending against the budget? If I used the envelope system, I’d allocate the actual cash to each account before-hand. But what if I don’t want to have that much cash around the house? Is there a good way to keep track of current spending in each category? Should I carry a notecard with my monthly spending on it? (That seems to be what Bargain Babe recommends.)
Do you try to further reduce spending on these categories? For example, should I try to drop my budget for Dining Out even more?
This is a strange new world for me. Over the past year, I’ve been pursuing more and more advanced personal finance subjects and concepts. Yet here I am, in better financial shape than ever, about to implement a basic skill I’ve never mastered before. That’s okay. I believe it’s important to continue focusing on the fundamentals even as we tackle more advanced topics.
My Discretionary Spending: Bits and Pieces
I want to talk about a couple of my spending habits. One is a worrisome trend, and one is a thing I’m doing right.
Food for Thought
Long-time readers know that Kris and I love to dine out. It’s one of those things we’re willing to spend on. We cut corners in other areas of our lives so that we can afford to make this happen. Still, I’ve been concerned about my restaurant spending for the past couple of years. It seems a tad excessive.
How’d I do last year? Well, my grocery spending dropped, but my restaurant spending went up again — a lot. Here’s a look at five years of data:
In 2005, we spent $1423.39 to dine out 100 times, for an average cost of $14.23 per meal.
In 2006, we spent $1869.58 to dine out 108 times, for an average cost of $17.31 per meal.
In 2007, we spent $2051.93 to dine out 84 times, for an average cost of $24.43 per meal.
In 2008, we spent $2628.08 to dine out 77 times, for an average cost of $34.14 per meal.
In 2009, we spent $3443.61 to dine out 69 times, for an average cost of $49.91 per meal.
Holy cats! Will you look at those numbers? We’re only dining out about half two-thirds as often as we were in 2006, but we’re spending nearly three times as much per meal. At the current rate of spending growth, we’ll be spending $300 per meal in 2015! Since I can afford our current spending — I’m not living beyond my means — the real question is: Am I getting my money’s worth? I’m not sure that I am.
If I’m honest, I have to admit that I don’t like the idea that we’re paying $50 per meal. I’d much rather return to our former habit: Dining out more often, but spending less each time. To that end, I’ve been brainstorming ways we can work to cut costs:
We could do a better job of looking for discounts. We have an Entertainment book, and the local paper often features specials at local restaurants. We should take advantage of both of these. We used to do this, but have fallen out of the habit (primarily because we’ve become so used to eating at the same places again and again).
We need to find more cheap places to eat. Half the fun of going out is just going out. Sure, we love the fancy restaurants, but we used to be happy with Dairy Queen. (This is lifestyle inflation in action!) The real problem is that the cheap places I know and love (Cha Cha Cha and Imperial Garden) aren’t Kris’ favorites. We need to find cheap places we both like.
When we do eat in the same old haunts, we need to make an effort to reduce our spending. It’s okay to have an appetizer, entree, dessert, and drink all in the same meal now and then, but we could save money by cutting one or two of these from the mix each time we dine out.
Finally, we should invite friends to our home for dinner more often. As soon as the book is done (getting close!), I’m going to make a habit of inviting one family to dine with us every couple of weeks. We used to do this a lot, but have fallen out of the habit. It’s fun and frugal to have folks over for dinner.
So, that’s one part of my financial life that still needs work. Next, let’s look at something I’m doing right.
Tangent: Portlanders, help me out. What are your favorite cheap places to eat around town? Bonus points for inner southeast, West of 39th from Hawthorne south to Oregon City.
A Waning of Want
Here’s something that amazes me: We’re twelve days into the year and I haven’t spent anything yet on personal expenses. I haven’t even felt the urge. I’ve bought gas for the Mini and groceries for home, and Kris and I went out to lunch last Friday, but I haven’t spent a dime on gadgets or books or games or toys or magazines.
“Big deal,” you might say. “That’s how it should be.” You’re right. But for me, this is a big deal. All my life, I’ve had the uncontrollable urge to buy Stuff. It used to be that I couldn’t go more than a day or two without buying something. Even while writing this blog, that’s been the case. (I’ve just learned to channel my desires into smaller, cheaper things.) Now, as last, I seem to have licked it.
I still want things — no question! — but I’ve become very good at ignoring the wants and moving on. How?
Sometimes, I just put down the thing I want, turn off my brain, and walk away. I force myself to stop thinking about it. (Usually by thinking about something else — like our upcoming trip to Europe, and how I need to save for that instead.)
If I still want the thing when I get home, I put it on my Amazon wish-list. For whatever reason, that’s often enough to satisfy the strange inner workings of my mind. I feel comforted knowing I’ve let myself put it on a list where I won’t forget it.
I’m very good about using the 30-day rule to control my impulse spending. My Amazon wish-list plays a role in that, but so does my mountain of index cards. (My life wouldn’t be complete without index cards.) I have a handful of cards on my desk filled with notes about the things I want. It’s amazing how many times I sort through this stack and end up throwing cards away because I no longer want the item I’ve written down.
These techniques help me deal with desire. They don’t quell it completely — nor would I want them to — but they do keep it in check. That last rule is probably the most effective. By delaying purchases 30 days, I don’t feel like I’m denying myself. I can still buy what I want if I want it 30 days later, but I’m not just giving in to impulse spending. (When 30 days rolls around and I do still want something, it actually feels pretty good to be able to buy it.)
My current spending moratorium isn’t permanent, and I know that. In fact, the new Dick Tracy anthology comes out tomorrow, so if nothing else, I’ll be shelling over $25 for that.
Remember: there’s nothing inherently wrong with spending money on things that bring you joy. Problems arise when you finance these purchases with debt. If you’re meeting your other financial goals and have money left over, it’s good to indulge your interests and passions. Just make sure you’re getting value for the dollars you spend.
A Look Back to Previous Years
I believe there are two components to building wealth:
Reducing costs
Boosting income
Doing one or the other can help you meet your goals, but to really succeed, you must do both. My goal has been to create a significant positive monthly cash flow. I’ve managed to do this. But as my income increases, so does the temptation to spend more. Have I been able to fight the urge? It’s time for the annual review of my largest sources of discretionary spending:
Although I use comics as a prop for laughs at Get Rich Slowly, I’ve genuinely struggled with my spending on them in the past. Not this year. I made vast improvements in 2008, actually spending less on comics than I had planned. There are two reasons for this. First, I’ve narrowed my focus, collecting only those titles I most desire. I’m also making an effort to read all of the books I’ve bought but never finished. These two changes have helped me to spend less on this hobby.
At one time, I spent over $200 a month on books. Now I spend less than $40. I’m content with this number, especially since many of these are for our monthly book group. One reason my inclination to buy books has decreased is that I’m able to purchase personal-finance books through Get Rich Slowly, the business. (Plus authors and publishers send them to me for free.) This gives me a never-ending source of reading material, and makes me less inclined to spend time in a bookstore. And again, I’m trying to read books I own but have never finished.
Entertainment (2005: $478.81, 2006: $543.55, 2007: $1094.83, 2008: $897.91)
This number isn’t as bad as it seems. It includes two Decemberists concerts for me and Kris, and it also includes some of our television viewing. (Remember that Kris and I cut back to basic cable, and now we watch TV through Netflix and through the iTunes Music Store.) There’s also a one-time $236 event here that ought to have been a business expense. I’m not unhappy with my spending on Entertainment.
Many personal finance writers view pets as an unnecessary expense. To me, $35 a month to keep four cats is a bargain. It only costs me about a quarter a day for each animal, and they bring much more joy to my life than that. If Kris would let me, I’d be the “crazy cat lady” on the block. (Are there “crazy cat gentlemen”?) Note that our actual pet expenses are greater. Kris pays for their food, and that’s not reflected in these numbers
This includes wine, liquor, pipe tobacco, poker nights, etc. I don’t smoke regularly, but I do smoke a pipe maybe a dozen times a year. Most of this expense is for alcohol at dinner parties and social gatherings. My alcohol consumption did increase during 2008, which is a concern, but that’s not the reason for the increased spending. For the first time ever, we bought a couple of cases of wine. This will actually reduce the “wages of sin” in the long run, but it bumped the number for 2008.
Although this report is interesting, there are problems with my methodology. For example, I’ve included my grocery spending above (although it’s not really discretionary), but have not included spending on exercise equipment (which is discretionary). Also, Kris pays for much of our grocery shopping. Because we keep separate accounts, her share of that expense isn’t reflected in these numbers.
In order to be consistent from year-to-year, however, I’ve elected to continue reporting the same expenses in the same ways. You’ll have to take my word that the figures here are representative of my spending as a whole. This annual report is sort of like tracking a stock market index, I guess. It doesn’t reveal nuances, but it’s still a useful indicator of the Big Picture.
So despite cutting back on the areas that are really important to me — books and comics — my spending increased. And most of that increase came from dining out.
How did you do on your spending goals last year? Are there areas where you wish you spent less? If so, what strategies do you use to keep yourself in check?
Inside: Looking for fun things to do with friends? Look no further! This guide has 101 fun activities for you and your friends to enjoy. From painting parties to bowling nights, there’s something for everyone.
Do you ever feel like you’re in a rut, doing the same things with your friends all the time?
If you’re looking for some new ideas for fun things to do with friends, look no further!
We’ve compiled a list of fun activities for friends to do so you can find something that fits your mood.
Whether you want to get active and try something new, or stay in and relax together, we’ve got you covered.
So round up your besties and get ready for some fun!
Why spending time with friends is important
Spending time with friends is an essential aspect of human life. It provides us with an opportunity to bond, socialize, and create lasting memories.
The benefits of spending time with friends are numerous, and they range from improving our social skills to reducing stress levels.
By participating in activities that allow us to spend quality time with our friends, we will have better overall mental health.
What should friends do for fun?
There is no one answer to this question, as friends can have different interests and preferences.
However, some fun activities that friends could do together include going to the movies, playing sports, going out to eat, or attending a concert.
That is why we will cover so many various ideas for you and your friends!
The fun things to Do with Friends
We all know the importance of having friends in our lives. They are the people we rely on and confide in. They make us laugh, help us when we’re down, and are always there for us.
If you are wondering what should I do today, then we have you covered.
So, it’s important to have plenty of fun things to do with friends as well.
1. Go on a Scavenger Hunt
Scavenger hunts are a popular group activity that can be enjoyed by friends of all ages.
Planning and executing a scavenger hunt with friends can be a fun and engaging way to spend time together.
To get started, choose a location that offers a variety of interesting sights and sounds.
Next, create a list of items to find, such as a red bicycle or a funny sign.
Divide into teams and set a time limit for the hunt.
Use a special hashtag and have each team post a pic every time an item is found.
Nowadays, you can even buy a scavenger hunt kit to make it easier!
2. Play Board Games
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Board games are a great way for friends to have fun and connect with each other.
Some popular board games include Scrabble, Chess, and Monopoly, but there are many other options to choose from. Card games like poker and blackjack are also great choices. Party games like Charades and Apples to Apples can bring a lot of laughter and enjoyment.
Board games provide an opportunity for friends to engage in friendly competition, improve their strategic thinking and social skills, and have a great time together.
So, gather your friends, choose one of the best-selling board games, and let the fun begin!
3. Explore street food
Exploring street food with friends is an exciting way to satisfy your taste buds while spending quality time with your loved ones. From food trucks to pop-up stands, there are plenty of options to choose from.
Here are three street food examples that are worth finding:
Tacos: Bite into the crispy shell and savor the juicy meat, fresh salsa, and creamy guacamole. Tacos are the perfect combination of flavors and textures that will leave you craving more.
Gyros: Sink your teeth into the warm pita bread and taste the tender slices of meat, crunchy vegetables, and tangy tzatziki sauce. Gyros are a delicious Greek dish that will transport you to the Mediterranean with every bite.
Bao buns: Savor the fluffy steamed bun filled with savory meat, pickled vegetables, and sweet sauce. Bao buns are a popular street food item in Asia that will tantalize your taste buds with their unique flavors and textures.
Exploring street food with friends is an adventure that will take you on a gastronomic journey around the world. You can try new dishes, share your opinions, and bond over your love of food.
The joy of exploring street food with friends lies in discovering hidden gems, trying something new, and creating memories that will last a lifetime.
4. Get Messy with a Color Run
Participating in a color run is a unique and exciting way to stay fit while having fun with your friends.
This 5K run involves getting covered in colored powder while running through different stations. It’s a great way to stay active and create some memorable photos with your friends.
Plus, you get to support a good cause since many color runs are organized as charity events.
5. Watch a Movie Marathon
A movie marathon with friends is a fun way to bond and enjoy each other’s company. They provide a fun and relaxing environment to enjoy each other’s company and appreciate great films.
To plan and execute a successful movie marathon, follow these steps:
Choose a theme or movie series: Decide on a theme or movie series that everyone will enjoy. This could be a specific genre, actor, or movie franchise like “Harry Potter” or “Star Wars.” Or just pick a variety of old classics and new favorites.
Prepare snacks and refreshments: Popcorn, pizza, and soda are classic movie snacks, but feel free to get creative with your choices. You could even have a potluck and have everyone bring their favorite snack to share.
Arrange the viewing space: Make sure the viewing space is comfortable and has enough seating for everyone. Consider using blankets and pillows to create a cozy atmosphere.
So, grab some popcorn and gather your friends for a movie marathon that you’ll never forget!
The best movies can be found on Paramount Plus!
6. See What Festivals Are in Town
Attending festivals with friends can be a fun and unique activity to break up your routine. There are many different types of festivals to choose from, including food, music, art, and film festivals.
Additionally, there are usually free local events like food festivals, music festivals, farmers’ markets, and intercultural events.
Planning ahead and checking the festival schedule is important to ensure that all friends can attend. So why not gather your friends and try attending a festival together?
7. Hike
Hiking is a fantastic way to stay active and enjoy the great outdoors with friends.
Not only does it provide a great workout, but it also offers the opportunity to bond with your crew while surrounded by natural beauty.
You can even plan on these fantastic hiking trails for beginners or more experienced hikers:
In California, Big Basin Redwoods State Park offers a variety of trails ranging from easy to challenging, with the highlight being the 11-mile Skyline to the Sea Trail.
In Colorado, the Mount Falcon Park Trail offers stunning views of the Rocky Mountains and is a moderate 3.6-mile hike.
For those on the East Coast, the Franconia Ridge Trail in New Hampshire is a challenging yet rewarding 8.9-mile hike with breathtaking views of the White Mountains.
Remember to dress appropriately for the weather and terrain, wear sturdy hiking boots, carry plenty of water, and pack snacks to keep your energy levels up.
8. Go for a short road trip
Planning a road trip with friends can be a bonding experience, from working together on a collaborative Spotify playlist or burning some old-fashioned mixtapes to listen to on the road to stocking up on snacks and booking an Airbnb.
Going for a short road trip with friends is an excellent way to take a break from the daily grind and explore new places. It is also a reason to escape life’s hustles and bustles.
A spontaneous road trip might turn out to be a trip to remember as you explore unknown routes, stop at scenic spots, and try the local cuisine.
9. Host a Vision Board Party
A vision board is a visual representation of your goals and aspirations for the future.
Making a dream board with friends can be a fun and inspiring activity that promotes deeper social connections while helping you achieve your dreams.
It’s a crafting and manifesting activity that can help you visualize your dreams and work towards them with the support of your friends.
Learn how to host a successful vision board party.
10. Make Smoothies Together
Making smoothies with friends is a fun and healthy activity that promotes bonding and trying out new recipes.
You will need fresh or frozen fruits, such as bananas, strawberries, or blueberries, a liquid base like almond milk or coconut water, and optional add-ins like spinach, chia seeds, or protein powder to make smoothies.
Personally, I have found the Vitamix to blend the perfect smoothie!
11. Have a Karaoke Night
Karaoke is a great way to build confidence and create lasting memories with friends, so don’t be afraid to let loose and have a good time!
To host a successful karaoke night, start by choosing a venue such as a karaoke bar or setting up a karaoke machine at home.
Provide drinks and snacks to keep energy levels high and make sure to take plenty of photos and videos to capture the fun.
12. Have a Potluck Dinner
Having a potluck dinner with friends is a fun and affordable way to spend time together while enjoying delicious food.
To organize a successful potluck, consider the following tips:
Set a date and theme: Choose a date that works for everyone and select a theme to make the potluck more exciting. Some ideas for themes include Italian food, comfort food, or secret family recipes.
Assign dishes: Encourage everyone to bring a dish to share, and assign specific types of dishes to avoid duplicates. For example, one person can bring an appetizer, another a main course, and another a dessert.
Communicate and coordinate: Make sure everyone knows what they’re bringing and communicate any dietary restrictions or allergies. Coordinate with each other to ensure a good variety of dishes and avoid too many of the same thing.
A potluck is a great way to try new foods and bond over shared experiences. It’s also a money-saver and takes the pressure off one single host.
13. Skateboard/Roller-skate
Skateboarding and roller-skating are not only fun but also great ways to build friendships and community.
There are numerous activities that can be done while skateboarding or roller-skating with friends like:
Trying out tricks and stunts with friends can be a great way to learn and improve your skills.
Racing with friends can add an element of competition and excitement to the activity.
Obstacle courses can also be set up to test your agility and coordination.
Freestyle sessions can allow for creativity and self-expression.
Doing these activities with friends can provide support, encouragement, and a sense of camaraderie.
14. Have a DIY spa day
Spa days with friends are a fantastic way to bond, relax and practice self-care. It offers a break from the stress of daily life and provides opportunities for quality time together.
Moreover, hosting a spa day at home is a more affordable alternative to going to an actual spa.
You can confer with your BFF and figure out what kind of spa treatments both of you are in the mood for. For example, you can apply face masks, give each other manicures, or soak your feet in bath salts.
If you have the funds, you could even book a couple of treatments at a real spa and make it a real spa day! Regardless of where you have it, having a spa day with friends is an excellent way to relax, rejuvenate, and bond with friends.
15. Have a Craft Night
You don’t have to be crafty to enjoy craft night!
To have a successful craft night, start by choosing a craft that everyone is interested in and gather all the necessary supplies. A few craft ideas that are perfect for a craft night include making jewelry, painting, scrapbooking, or even DIY home decor.
Once you have everything set up, encourage everyone to let their creativity flow and enjoy the process of making something together.
Make sure to create a comfortable atmosphere by providing plenty of space to work and snacks to munch on.
16. Blow Bubbles
Roll by the time calendar and remember how much fun blowing bubbles was!
Blowing bubbles is a great way to spend a lazy afternoon or unwind after a long day.
You can go with the classic way of blowing bubbles or look into a bubble machine!
So, grab some bubble solution and wands and get ready for a fun and bubbly time with your friends!
17. Have a Water Balloon Fight
Water balloon fights are a fun activity to indulge in during the scorching heat of summer.
To make the water balloon fight even more enjoyable, you can incorporate team play or set up a tournament bracket. This will add a competitive element to the game and make it more exciting.
Regardless, having a water balloon fight with friends is a great way to beat the heat and have fun.
18. Plant a Garden
Gardening with friends is a rewarding activity that allows you to connect with nature and each other.
Plus it can also provide a sense of accomplishment and a source of fresh produce.
You can choose to plant a garden in someone’s backyard or join a local CSA.
Also, this is a continuous way to get together!
19. Spend Time in Nature
Spending time in nature with friends is a great way to relax, recharge and create lasting memories.
There are a variety of activities that friends can engage in while spending time in nature such as hiking, camping, picnicking, rock climbing, paddleboarding, and gardening.
Personally, know that spending time in nature with friends can be a refreshing and rewarding experience that allows friends to bond and enjoy the great outdoors together.
20. Sign up for a Recreational Sport
Signing up for a recreational sport is a great way to spend time with friends while staying active. There are many sports that are suitable for recreational leagues and can be played with friends, such as soccer, basketball, volleyball, and ultimate frisbee.
Playing team sports has many benefits, including building camaraderie, improving communication, and developing a sense of teamwork.
Costs associated with joining a league can vary, but many leagues have affordable fees.
21. Go Kayaking
Kayaking is a fantastic outdoor activity that is gaining popularity among friends who want to bond and have fun at the same time. It provides a great opportunity to explore new waterways, race each other, play games, fish, and take breaks to swim.
While kayaking, you and your friends can discover new places and enjoy the serenity of nature, which will help you to relax and forget about your daily worries.
Also, you have to work on your communication with each other while kayaking.
22. Cook Together
Cooking with friends can be a fun and rewarding activity that helps build strong bonds.
This is one of my favorite ways to spend time with friends. You can spend hours and never actually make anything edible and it doesn’t matter! Or you can create something absolutely delicious!
23. Join a Club
Joining a club with friends is a great way to try new things and meet new people.
There are many different types of clubs to choose from, including:
Book clubs
Hiking clubs
Cooking clubs
Bunco groups, and more.
Joining a club with friends not only provides an opportunity for shared experiences and new adventures but can also strengthen relationships by creating a common interest. Plus you meet on a regular schedule for spending time together.
24. Have a Painting Party
Painting artwork with friends can be a fun and fulfilling activity. Even better, plan to host a painting party with friends!
You hire someone with experience to help you out or you can watch a video on YouTube.
The best part is being able to exchange ideas and inspiration with each other to spark creativity!
25. Play Laser Tag
Playing laser tag with friends is a thrilling and exciting activity that is sure to get your adrenaline pumping.
This is always a must-do for most teens!
Playing laser tag with friends not only provides a fun and memorable experience, but it also helps build teamwork skills, promotes physical activity, and fosters friendly competition.
26. Go Birdwatching
Birdwatching is a relaxing and enjoyable activity that can be done with friends to appreciate the beauty of nature and learn about different bird species.
All you need to go birdwatching with friends is a simple guide to birds in your area, a pair of binoculars, bird seed, and a park or garden.
Birdwatching can enhance the bond between friends as they learn to identify different bird species and discover a new hobby together. It is a great opportunity to explore new trails, take pictures, and enjoy the scenic location.
27. Have a Marshmallow Fight
Marshmallow fights with friends are a fun and exciting activity that can help you forget your worries and bond with your friends.
You need a good laugh, right? This is exactly what you should participate in.
It’s a great way to relieve stress and enjoy some friendly competition with your friends.
So, grab some marshmallows, find a safe spot, and get ready for an unforgettable marshmallow fight with your friends!
Make sure to grab this indoor s’more kit!
28. Do Yoga
Yoga is a great way to improve flexibility, reduce stress, and promote overall well-being. Doing yoga in a class with friends or in a park can make the experience even more enjoyable and motivating.
Attending a yoga class with friends can be a fun and social way to exercise. You can encourage each other to push yourselves further and hold each other accountable for attendance. Additionally, practicing yoga in a group setting can help to create a sense of community and support, which can be beneficial for mental health.
Alternatively, practicing yoga in a park can be a great way to connect with nature and enjoy the fresh air and sunlight. You can bring your own mat or towel and find a quiet spot to practice. Practicing yoga outdoors can be a refreshing change of pace from the usual indoor studio setting.
29. Plan a Trip
Planning a trip with friends can be an exciting and bonding experience. It provides an opportunity to create unforgettable memories and explore new places with your closest friends.
However, it can also be expensive, so use this 100 envelope challenge to save for the trip.
Another way to save money is to be flexible with your travel dates.
Research your destination, create a budget, and be flexible with your travel dates to save money. With some dedication and effort, you and your friends can have the trip of a lifetime. Remember, the journey is just as important as the destination.
30. Explore a New Town
Exploring a new town with friends is an adventure that offers new opportunities to learn more about each other’s interests and create lasting memories. It allows you to discover new places, try local cuisine, and learn about the history and culture of the area.
When exploring a new town with friends, you can visit local landmarks such as museums, botanical gardens, and historical sites. You can also attend local events such as festivals, concerts, and fairs.
Don’t forget to try the local cuisine at restaurants and cafes.
31. Paint Pottery
Pottery painting is a popular activity to do with friends that allows you to unleash your creativity.
Thankfully, you can go to a business that provides all of the necessary supplies or you can purchase online.
Painting pottery can also be a relaxing and therapeutic activity that helps to reduce stress and anxiety.
32. Try a New Food
Let’s be honest… If it wasn’t for good friends, you may be missing out on different types of foods and cuisines.
Trying new foods with friends is an excellent way to break up your eating routine and have some fun while discovering new flavors.
So step out of your comfort zone and try something new – you never know what delicious dishes you might discover!
33. Visit a Farmer’s Market
Visiting a farmer’s market with friends is a fun and exciting way to spend a day outdoors. Not only does it support local businesses, but it also provides an opportunity to stock up on fresh fruits and vegetables.
Did you know the Palisade Farmer’s Market is one of the best in the country? I can attest to that; it was wonderful, especially during peach season.
There are many activities to enjoy at a farmer’s market with friends, here are my favorites:
Shopping for fresh produce: One of the main reasons to visit the farmer’s market is to stock up on fresh fruits and vegetables. You can compare prices, sample different varieties, and even learn new recipes from the vendors.
Trying free samples: Many vendors offer free samples of their products, from homemade jams to artisanal cheeses. This is a great way to taste new flavors and support local businesses.
Exploring local crafts: Along with food, many farmer’s markets also feature handmade crafts and artisanal products. You can browse jewelry, pottery, candles, and other unique items.
Eating street food: If you’re hungry, there are often food trucks and stalls selling everything from tacos to crepes. You can grab a bite to eat and enjoy it at one of the picnic tables or benches.
So why not gather your friends and head to a farmer’s market? You won’t regret it!
34. Compete with Minute-to-Win-It Games
This one is popular! Competing with Minute-to-Win-It games is a fun and easy way to spend time with friends while challenging each other’s skills.
To get started, gather a few household items and set a timer for one minute.
These games are not only a great way to have fun with friends, but they also improve hand-eye coordination and quick-thinking skills.
Plus this is a low-cost and entertaining way to bond with friends. Give them a try and see who comes out on top!
35. Host a DIY Escape Room
If you are looking for a cost-effective way to enjoy an escape room challenge with friends, setting up your own escape room at home is a great idea.
You can find free missions at Escape Team, and additional missions only cost a few dollars each.
Hosting a DIY escape room for your friends is an excellent way to challenge their problem-solving and teamwork skills in a fun and engaging way.
36. Join a Flash Mob
Joining a flash mob can be an exciting and memorable thing to do with your friends. Flash mobs are spontaneous gatherings of people who come together to perform a predetermined action, often in a public place.
Typically, flash mobs can range from dance performances to singing events and can involve people of all ages and backgrounds.
Participating in a flash mob can be a unique and fun experience that you and your friends can cross off your bucket list.
You can find local flash mob announcements by searching on Google or checking out websites that list flash mobs in your area.
37. Create a Time Capsule
Creating a time capsule with friends is an exciting and unique way to capture memories and special moments together. It allows you to reminisce about the past and look forward to opening the capsule in the future.
To create a time capsule, start by finding a sturdy waterproof container.
Next, gather items that are important to each of you, such as letters to your future self, photos, ticket stubs, and other mementos.
Add these items to the capsule and bury the capsule in a safe place, such as a backyard or a park.
Make a pact to open it up in a few years, say five or ten years or twenty years.
Cherishing memories with friends is important, and creating a time capsule is a fun and meaningful way to do just that.
38. Head to the Beach
Visiting the beach with friends is a great way to spend quality time together while enjoying the beauty of nature. There are many activities you can do with your friends at the beach, such as lounging under an umbrella, playing beach volleyball, building sandcastles, or having a picnic.
If you’re feeling more adventurous, you can go surfing, snorkeling, or take a walk along the shore. The possibilities are endless, and the memories you create with your friends will last a lifetime.
Whether you want to relax and unwind or have an action-packed day, the beach offers something for everyone.
39. Try an Art Class
Trying an art class with friends is a fun and fulfilling way to explore your creative side.
There are many places you can try painting or pottery! by going with a friend, it cuts out the scary risk of doing a creative project alone.
Don’t miss out on this opportunity to create something beautiful with your friends! This is a great experience gift idea, too!
40. Go Bowling
Bowling is a fun and engaging activity to do with friends.
Not only is it a great way to get some exercise, but it also offers a variety of fun things to do while playing. From trying trick shots to competing for the highest score, bowling is a great way to bond with friends.
Bowling is a fun and engaging activity that everyone can enjoy, regardless of their skill level.
41. Use Guest Passes
Typically, when you belong to a gym, museum, or any other membership-based activity. They will offer free guest passes.
This is a great way to hang out with your friends while enjoying a new activity. Or showing your friend one of your hobbies.
42. Go Snowshoeing
Snowshoeing is a winter activity that involves walking on snow with specialized footwear. It is a fun and unique way to explore the outdoors with friends while enjoying the beauty of nature.
There are many snowshoeing trails and locations that friends can explore together.
Snowshoeing provides an opportunity to get exercise, enjoy the peacefulness of nature, and bond with friends.
43. Get Creative With Sidewalk Chalk
Regardless of age, sidewalk chalk is a fun activity to do with friends that can ignite your creativity and bring out your inner artist.
There are a variety of ways to get creative with sidewalk chalk.
You can draw a hopscotch board and challenge each other to see who can jump the longest.
Create a masterpiece by working together on a huge drawing and experimenting with different styles and themes.
Play a game of tic-tac-toe and enjoy some friendly competition.
You can even use sidewalk chalk to write positive messages or quotes to inspire each other.
Spending quality time with friends is important, and simple activities like using sidewalk chalk can create lasting memories.
44. Have a Cocktail Party
Overall, the goal of a cocktail party with friends is to have fun and create shared experiences that will be remembered for years to come.
The best cocktail parties are based on a theme that will set the tone for the evening. Then, select a variety of easy-to-make and crowd-pleasing cocktails that will impress your guests.
Dress up smartly, put on some music, and decorate your space to match the theme. Provide snacks such as finger foods, cheese platters, and charcuterie boards to accompany the drinks.
During the party, encourage guests to mingle and try each other’s cocktails, while sharing conversation and laughter.
45. Go to a Drive-in Movie
Drive-in movies are a unique and fun experience that makes for a great activity to do with friends.
However, drive-in movie theaters are harder and harder to find. So, you may have to plan ahead for a local showing.
Once you arrive, park your car and settle in for the movie, chatting and joking around with your friends as you watch.
46. Meditate
Meditating with friends can be a powerful way to connect and improve your mental and emotional well-being.
To get started, find a quiet spot in nature, set up a blanket, and close your eyes. Take in the natural sounds as you sit in silence together.
Alternatively, you can attend a group meditation or breathwork session or hold a moon circle.
The benefits of meditating with friends include reducing stress and anxiety, improving focus and concentration, and deepening your connection with others.
47. Have an Insta Photoshoot
One of the best things about having a photoshoot with friends is that it offers you the opportunity to create memories together.
You can make funny faces, strike silly poses, and capture the moment in a photograph. You can also dress up in costumes and enact your favorite movie scenes together, which is bound to create some beautiful memories.
Whether you are looking to be goofy or play model, a photoshoot is an excellent way to express yourself and have some fun. You don’t necessarily have to photograph people either! You can experiment with still-life photography, food photoshoots, or even take pictures of landscapes.
P.S. You will always see teens taking photoshoots around town.
48. Play charades or Pictionary
Playing charades or Pictionary with friends is indeed a fun way to build excitement and laughter within the group while also improving communication skills and teamwork.
These guessing games are perfect for group activities and can elicit lots of shouting and laughter as people try to guess the correct word or movie.
You can even form teams and start a tournament to make it more interesting. Alternatively, card games such as poker, blackjack, spoons, and rummy are also fun and cost nothing to play if you already have a deck of cards.
All of these games can help improve your strategic thinking and social skills while having a great time with friends.
49. Make videos together
Indeed, making videos with friends can be a fun and exciting activity that creates lasting memories. There are many different types of videos that can be made with friends, such as music videos, vlogs, or short films.
The research suggests that enacting favorite movie scenes with friends can uplift the atmosphere as well. Dressing the part, rehearsing together, and video shooting the entire set can create fun moments that are bound to create some beautiful memories.
Making videos with friends can strengthen friendships and develop new skills such as video production and editing. The key is to have fun with your best friends and enjoy the time spent together.
50. Start a Band
If you and your friends have instruments, getting together and making music can be a fantastic way to bond and express yourselves while also encouraging collaboration and teamwork.
Creating music together is an excellent opportunity to learn new skills and experiment with different musical styles.
Plus, it helps create unforgettable memories and offers new opportunities to learn.
51. Create a Photo Album
In our digital age, putting together a photo album is another fabulous activity that you can do with friends.
Asking each friend to contribute a few photos and putting them in a friendship photo album is an excellent way to keep your memories close and spend an afternoon with your best friends.
Plus you are creating something you can enjoy for years to come!
52. Have a pillow fight
Having a pillow fight with friends can be a hilarious bonding experience that will make you forget all your worries.
To get started, find a spacious room or outdoor area where you can safely swing your pillows without breaking anything. Before starting the fight, agree on some basic rules to ensure everyone’s safety, such as no hitting in the face or aiming for sensitive areas.
Once you’re ready, grab your pillow and let the feathers fly! Don’t forget to laugh, scream, and dodge as you try to land a hit on your friends.
53. Attend park concerts
Attending park concerts is one of the best fun things to do with friends.
Not only are they affordable or free of charge, but they also offer a great opportunity to relax and unwind with friends.
This is something to enjoy after long work weeks!
54. Start a Business
Starting a business with friends can be a great way to combine your passions and skills while also earning extra income.
However, before jumping into any business venture with friends, it’s important to consider the potential risks and challenges. It’s crucial to have a clear agreement and plan in place to avoid conflicts and misunderstandings in the future.
Another option is to research side hustles as a great way to earn extra income. There are numerous side hustle ideas that can be done with friends such as dog walking, pet sitting, house cleaning, and tutoring.
Learning how to make money online for beginners is a hot topic.
55. Play Tourist in Your Own Town
Playing tourist in your own town can be a great way to spend time with friends while discovering new sights and experiences. There’s no need to travel far when there are plenty of activities to do in your hometown.
To start, visit local landmarks such as museums, historical sites, or city parks. These places offer a glimpse into the history and culture of your town.
Try out new restaurants and cafes that you haven’t been to before. It’s a great opportunity to sample local cuisine and support small businesses.
Attending local events such as concerts, festivals, or farmer’s markets can also be a fun way to experience your town.
Exploring the outdoors by taking a hike, bike ride, or even a picnic in a nearby park can be a refreshing change of pace.
Playing tourist in your own town not only allows you to discover new places but also strengthens friendships by creating shared memories and experiences.
56. Play games via video call
Playing games with friends remotely is indeed a great way to stay connected despite the distance.
There are various options available for playing games online with friends, such as board games, card games, and online games like Fortnite or Minecraft. Additionally, apps like Words with Friends or Yahtzee with Buddies can also be used to play games with friends remotely.
If you prefer non-digital games, you could play games like “Would You Rather?” or “Truth or Dare?” on a video call.
Playing games with friends online is an excellent way to spend time together and maintain a strong connection, even when you can’t be together physically.
57. Go to a bonfire
Going to a bonfire with friends is a fun and memorable activity that allows for bonding through storytelling, laughter, and shared experiences. Honestly, I forgot how fun a bonfire was until I went last weekend!
A bonfire is an outdoor gathering around a fire, typically held on a crisp fall evening.
With the hot temperatures and risk of fires, I would plan to attend a bonfire put on by an organization with fire trucks readily available.
Ensure there are snacks and drinks, and follow safety precautions. Overall, a bonfire with friends is a great way to escape the monotony of life and create lasting memories.
58. Bake something delicious together
Baking with friends is indeed a fun and exciting activity that can bring people closer together. It provides an opportunity to bond and share a sweet treat afterward.
One can choose a recipe they would like to try, whether it’s an old standby or something brand new. A cake, a sweet fruit pie, or a few batches of favorite cookies are some of the options that one can bake and decorate.
Alternatively, holding a friendly bake-off is a good way to bond competitively with friends.
So, next time you’re looking for something fun to do with your friends, why not try baking together?
59. Go camping together
Camping with friends is an excellent way to bond and enjoy the outdoors while disconnecting from technology. It is a cheap and fun hobby that offers numerous benefits, including strengthening friendships.
Whether you choose to camp in a nearby park or your backyard, sharing stories around a campfire, cooking meals together, and exploring nature can be a healthy move for everyone to unwind.
Camping provides an opportunity to enjoy the serenity of nature away from the disruptions of city life. You can hitch a tent, make a bonfire, roast some marshmallows, and play games, which is sure to be an adventure away from the hustle and bustle of the city.
It is important to plan ahead, bring necessary supplies, and follow safety precautions to ensure a fun and safe camping experience.
60. Go Geocaching
One of our personal favorite activities.
Geocaching is a fun and exciting activity that involves using GPS to find hidden containers or “caches” outdoors. It’s like a real-life treasure hunt that can be enjoyed with friends.
To get started, one can download the official Geocaching app for free.
Geocaching can be a great way to explore new places in your local area with friends while having fun. With GPS coordinates, you can search for hidden treasures that are waiting to be discovered.
61. Go to A Local Coffee Shop
Going to a local coffee shop is a great way to spend quality time with friends. Aside from being a cliche, it is an easy thing to do and offers a comfortable environment to catch up with your friends.
You can order your favorite beverage and indulge in a little slice of cake while chatting about everything you have missed since you last spoke.
A coffee shop offers a cozy and relaxed atmosphere, which makes it a perfect spot to hang out with friends.
Going to a local coffee shop also supports small businesses in your community. It is also a great way to discover new cafes and coffee shops in your area, which can become your new favorite hangout spot.
62. Volunteer
Volunteering with friends is a great way to give back to the community while having fun with your pals.
There are various ways friends can volunteer together, such as helping out at a local animal shelter, sprucing up city landscaping, or serving meals at a soup kitchen.
Volunteering with friends strengthens relationships, gives back to the community, and is a fun way to do good.
These are the best ways to capture your bucket list and find ideas!
FAQ
There are a number of things you can do right now with friends. You can go for coffee, take a walk, or visit a museum. You could also consider doing something more active, such as going for a run or playing a sport.
Whatever you choose to do, make sure you enjoy it and spend time with your friends.
The important thing is to find something that you both enjoy so that you can have fun together.
You can watch a movie, play video games, go for a walk, listen to music, or even just sit and talk.
What Fun Places to Go with Friends Will You Choose?
These unique activities are just a few examples of the many fun things you can do with your friends.
Don’t be afraid to try something new and get creative! Who knows, you might just discover a new favorite activity.
A little short on cash? Don’t worry… here are 101 things to do with no money.
So, gather your friends and start planning your next adventure together.
And if you have any unique ideas of your own, be sure to share them in the comments below!
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A den is an additional room in an apartment that you can use as a multi-purpose space.
Apartments have different floor plans, rent prices and amenities. Depending on what you are looking for, you can pretty much find it when apartment hunting these days. Want a pool or an on-site gym? That’s an option!
One perk that is rising in popularity is the den. Everyone wants more space and dens are a unique way to get it. So, what is a den exactly and how might you use it? We will walk you through the 10 benefits of an apartment with this room and why you might want to rent one.
What is a den?
A den is defined as an extra room, usually without windows or closets. Dens can be found in both one and two-bedroom apartments. They are not considered additional bedrooms as they don’t have that designated closet space that a true bedroom features.
Does a room without windows sound dreary to you? Well, before you confuse a den with a dungeon, let us show you all the ways that an apartment with a den could be used. Essentially, a den is a bonus room where you can do anything you want.
10 benefits of renting an apartment with a den
What would you do with an extra room in your apartment? A den can be just that; it’s an extra room, albeit smaller than a bedroom, to do whatever you want! Here are some of Rent.’s suggestions on what to do with an apartment dent.
1. Built-in home theater
To be considered a den, the room cannot have any windows. This makes dens a cozy, dark space perfect for binging your favorite TV show or streaming the most recent Hollywood hit. With endless streaming platforms at your disposal these days, having a built-in theater room is an awesome perk of apartment living. If you’re a movie lover or Netflix and chill kind of person, an apartment with a den is a must-have. You can invite all your friends over for movies in your dedicated home theater.
2. Optional work-out room
Do you like to work out but don’t have a gym membership or on-site gym? Get some free weights, a Pelaton and a yoga mat and you’ve got yourself a small, personal workout room in the den. It’ll also be cool as there won’t be hot sunlight streaming in from any windows, so you can turn up that music and crank out a quick burn session.
3. WFH spare office
In a world where remote work is more common, you may need a dedicated office space. While some people use their bedroom or living room as a makeshift option, a den is the perfect extra room to transform into a focused work zone. In the den, you have a specific space to go to work and then at the end of the day go back to your main living room without feeling like you never left home that day. You can WFH and live at home without feeling burnt out when you have a den.
4. Meditation or wellness room
We could all use more R&R in a stressful world. If you rent an apartment with a den, you can transform it into a Zen meditation or wellness room. Get a comfortable couch or yoga mat, light a nice candle or essential oils and settle into some dedicated meditation time in your new den wellness room.
5. Private “man den,” “she cave,” or “theysment” space
Bears hibernate in dens, and honestly, that can sound kind of nice. So, why don’t you turn your den into a private space? Do you like to paint? Make your cave a painting studio. Do you like to play poker or chess around some drinks? No matter how you use it, a den is the perfect extra room to make it anything you want it to be.
6. Secondary living space
Are you simply feeling crowded in your apartment and needing more space? Then a den is a great option for additional living space. You can have your bedrooms, kitchen and dining areas and living room plus a den. Extra space in an apartment is always a pro. But, keep in mind you’ll likely pay more in rent for the extra square footage.
7. Peaceful reading room
Escape to a fictitious land by reading or listening to a book. When you turn your den into a peaceful reading room and library, you can go anywhere you want when you escape through the pages of your book. This dedicated reading space can be charming and like your own small bookstore. Get some cozy couches and plush pillows and your den is now your escape.
8. Game room
Do you enjoy game nights with friends? Well, turn your den into the go-to game room. Depending on the size, you could add a pool table or ping pong table here. Or, get a cool table and lots of board games for any sort of competitive gaming setup. Dens are ideal for game rooms.
9. Additional guest room
While it’s not technically a bedroom, a den can double as a spare bedroom for short stays. Get a futon so your guest can have a couch and bed to stay in. This additional room will enable you to host guests without giving up your precious bedroom space or main living room area.
10. More storage space
You probably have too much stuff, as we all do, so extra storage space is never a bad thing. Because apartments are smaller and often have fewer storage options, a den can double as a storage unit. Free up those closets and put your seasonal clothes in the den. Or, fill it with holiday decorations or food storage. Really, you can use it however you like because it’s extra space.
How to find apartments with dens
Does an apartment with a den sound appealing to you? Then it’s time to start the apartment hunt! You can search for apartments in your desired area, within your price range and with the desired amenities — like a den!
Maybe you’ve heard of these apps that actually pay you to play games and take surveys. And you’re thinking: What’s the catch?
Surely, there’s not just some billionaire on a boat somewhere paying Gen Zs to play Solitaire on the metro. So what’s in it for the app developers?
Moreover, do these things even pay out like they’re supposed to? Or are they total scams, designed to waste your time and steal your personal data?
Well, the answer falls somewhere in the middle.
So let’s investigate: are paid gaming apps legit?
What’s Ahead:
What are paid gaming apps?
“Paid gaming apps” is the term I and many others use to describe apps that actually pay you for playing games and taking surveys.
Take Coin Pop, for example. You download the app, generate an account, and it gives you a selection of simple games to play to make cash.
As you’ll start to notice, some of these games are surprisingly recognizable, like Angry Birds or Poker. But most of them are cheap knockoff flash games, such as “Family Farm Seaside.”
Anyways, you choose a game, and here’s where things get interesting.
How do paid gaming apps work?
Paid gaming apps don’t pay cash directly. Instead, you generate “coins,” which can be redeemed for gift cards, PayPal, or other cash equivalents. Some paid gaming apps let you cash out your coins in increments as small as $5, while others have pushed the goalpost farther and farther to $30+ (more on that in a bit).
Anyways, you can typically generate coins in one of five ways:
Automatically, by simply spending time playing games (i.e., 100 coins/hour)
By completing certain missions or objectives within games
By sharing the game or the app on social media
By completing surveys
By referring friends
Take Cashyy, for example. Cashyy is more mission- than time-focused, meaning each game will have specific goals or milestones to reach to receive a bundle of coins all at once.
Before discussing how much you can reasonably earn, it’s important to understand where the money is coming from. Who the heck is paying you to play obscure flash games, and why?
Why do apps pay you to play games or take surveys?
These paid gaming apps generate revenue in a few ways.
Some, like Mistplay, charge the developers a fee to have their game featured. In effect, players like you and me are “testing” these games for the developers and Mistplay is kicking back valuable data like what demographics are playing, who’s getting stuck on what missions, etc.
Others go the more traditional route of simply pummeling you with mobile ads between surveys and gaming sessions.
Finally, and I’m just speculating here, but my experience so far would suggest that many of these apps are simply harvesting your data. Not to the benefit of any game developers, but to sell to a third party in a way you probably wouldn’t approve of.
Heck, one of these apps wanted my facial ID while another required my SSN… to play Angry Birds.
When a paid gaming app wants access to your front camera
You may fall in love with a home based upon it’s online listing but don’t forget to visit it in person before you make the commitment. Visiting an open house is a great way to get a feel for the property and see if it will work for you and your family.
Keep these things in mind during the open house to ensure that you get the most out of your visit.
1. Keep a poker face: Don’t be overly enthusiastic. It is best to remain calm, cool, and collected. Dull your emotions, whether good or bad, so you don’t compromise your position as a buyer. (Boston.com)
2. Pay close attention: Pay attention to everything. Keep a look out for cracks in walls and ceilings, damages to the floors, and the windows. Watch the other attendee’s reactions to certain things. If you see people abruptly leaving, there may be something wrong with the home. If people are mingling and taking their time it may be a sign that it will be a home with a lot of offers. (AOL)
3. Ask before taking photos: While looking at homes, it’s helpful to take photos to help you remember specific features of the home. During an open house, or any showing, it’s best to ask the homeowner before you start snapping pictures. (Frontdoor)
4. Look but don’t snoop: Storage can be a deal breaker when it comes to buying a home. If there isn’t enough room in closets and cabinets, it may sway your opinion. Look through storage spaces but don’t go rummaging through people’s belongings. Respect their home and their space. (Frontdoor)
5. Don’t bad mouth the home: If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say it at the open house. You may walk into a house and dislike it, but try to keep harsh opinions to yourself. Wait until you leave the open house to voice your opinion. You never know who may be listening and how it could work against you in the future. (Frontdoor)
6. Ask questions: Ask the owner, your real estate agent, and the listing real estate agent any question you might have.
Use these tips at every open house to help increase the efficiency and effectiveness of your home buying experience.