As the crisp air becomes infused with the spirit of the holidays, our homes undergo a remarkable transformation into havens of warmth and joy. Beyond the festivity of decorations and the joyous gatherings that mark the season, the holidays possess a unique ability to craft indelible memories. Whether it’s the delightful scent of freshly baked treats wafting through the air or the enchanting glow of twinkling lights in every corner, each tradition contributes to the magical ambiance that defines this special time of year.
In the heart of our homes, our small entryways emerge as a canvas for expression, setting the tone for the celebrations within. It becomes a space where the magic of the season is unveiled to everyone who crosses its threshold. Adorning the entryway isn’t just a decorative pursuit; it’s a proclamation of the joy and festivity that awaits within. As we embark on the enchanting journey of holiday decor, let our entryways evolve into portals, calling loved ones with open arms.
Elevate your entryway: Transform your space with the best small entryway ideas
Embracing the holiday spirit involves reimagining your entryway with a touch of magic. From ingenious organizational solutions to heartwarming personal touches, the following ideas are thoughtfully crafted to make your home’s entrance a delightful prelude to the season’s joy.
Wall hooks for organization and style
Wall hooks serve as more than functional fixtures in a small entryway—they seamlessly combine functionality with style. Opt for damage-free hooks for a renter-friendly solution, ensuring your wall space remains pristine. Use these hooks to hang purses, backpacks, keys and coats, transforming the space into an impeccably organized and clutter-free zone.
A gallery wall of family photos for personalized warmth
Expressing your unique personality is effortlessly achieved with a gallery wall next to the front door. Arrange an assortment of pictures featuring cherished moments with loved ones. This straightforward decor idea not only adds visual warmth but also serves as a captivating accent wall, sparking joy and conversation with its personalized touch.
Holiday-themed entryway tree or greenery for a touch of festive elegance
Consider introducing small indoor holiday trees for a touch of greenery and festive cheer. Position them next to a charming wooden bench to enhance the inviting atmosphere. These miniature arboreal displays bring nature indoors, creating a warm ambiance that resonates with the holiday spirit. The scent of evergreen further heightens the sensory experience, especially in a smaller space.
Statement mirror for the illusion of space
A statement mirror in the entryway serves more than a functional purpose; it imparts a sense of spaciousness to the area. Opt for a full-length mirror to achieve a sleek design while maximizing the reflection of natural light. This seemingly minimalistic decor idea transforms the space, creating an illusion of grandeur with minimal effort.
Antique table for functionality and style
Infuse character into your small entryway with conversation-starter pieces, such as antique furniture. These timeless pieces, traditionally made of dark wood, not only add style but also offer functionality. Use the furniture as a display surface for trinkets or a practical spot for stacking your favorite books, elevating the decor to new heights. Antique tables, with their rich history, become more than decor — they are pieces that tell a story and make a big impression.
Menorah display for holiday traditions
Showcasing your unique holiday traditions involves placing a menorah on a floating shelf or a small table. This elegant display adds a touch of cultural significance to your entryway, sharing a glimpse of the meaningful traditions practiced within your home. It becomes a beacon of tradition, sparking conversations and bridging cultural connections.
Twin table lamps or sconces for warm lighting
Brightening up the often dim entryway with the soft glow of table lamps, twin lamps, or strategically placed wall sconces goes beyond mere illumination. These lighting options create an inviting atmosphere, welcoming friends, family and guests with a warm embrace. The play of light and shadows adds a layer of sophistication to the entryway, setting the stage for a cozy welcome.
Elevate your entryway and embrace the season’s greetings
Incorporating these thoughtfully curated small entryway ideas will not only leave a lasting impression but also provide a warm and inviting welcome to guests and loved ones. Whether you opt for a minimalist approach with a statement mirror or indulge in a more elaborate decor featuring antique furniture and gallery walls, seize the opportunity to transform your small space into a memorable entrance, setting the stage for creating cherished holiday memories.
If you’re still in search of the perfect rental to bring your festive vision to life, explore and find your ideal apartment or home for rent here first. A space thoughtfully adorned with the spirit of the season becomes more than a home; it becomes a haven of joy and celebration, embracing the essence of the holidays throughout the year.
Wesley is a Charlotte-based writer with a degree in Mass Communication from the University of South Carolina. Her background includes 6 years in non-profit communication and 4 years in editorial writing. She’s passionate about traveling, volunteering, cooking and drinking her morning iced coffee. When she’s not writing, you can find her relaxing with family or exploring Charlotte with her friends.
As the festive season approaches, many are eager to infuse their homes with the enchantment of Christmas. Transforming your living space into a winter wonderland is a delightful way to celebrate the holiday spirit and spread cheer. From twinkling lights to festive decor, here’s how to craft a magical Christmas haven within your home.
Deck the Halls with Festive Decor
Start by adorning your abode with classic Christmas decorations. Brighten up the interiors with a lush, fragrant Christmas tree, adorned with shimmering ornaments and twinkling lights. Incorporate garlands, wreaths, and stockings to add a festive touch to bedrooms, staircases, and doorways.
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Light Up the Ambience
Warm, soft lighting enhances the cosy ambience. Use fairy lights, candles, and lanterns strategically throughout your home to create a warm and inviting atmosphere. Opt for LED candles for a safer and longer-lasting glow.
Festive Textiles
Introduce seasonal textiles like plaid or velvet cushions, cosy blankets, and holiday-themed linens. Layering textures and patterns can instantly evoke a snug and inviting feeling.
Create a Winter Wonderland Outdoors
Extend the Christmas magic outdoors by decorating your porch or garden. Hang fairy lights, set up lighted reindeer or snowmen, and adorn your front door with a festive garland to welcome guests with holiday cheer.
DIY Crafts and Personal Touches
Engage in DIY projects to personalise your decorations. Create handmade ornaments or make garlands using natural elements like pinecones and holly. Adding personal touches can make your decorations more meaningful and unique.
Festive Scents and Music
Infuse your home with the scents of the season. Use scented candles or essential oil diffusers with fragrances like pine, cinnamon, or peppermint. Play classic Christmas tunes or create a playlist of holiday favourites to set the mood.
Involve the Family
Make decorating a family affair. Gather loved ones to participate in crafting decorations or trimming the tree. It’s an excellent opportunity to create lasting memories and bond over the holiday spirit.
Transforming your home into a magical Christmas haven is about embracing the joy and spirit of the season. Whether it’s through traditional decor, cosy elements, or personal touches, the goal is to create a warm and welcoming space where cherished memories are made during this festive time of year.
To the native Wintu people it was Bohem Puyuik, the “Big Rise,” and no wonder. Mt. Shasta towered above everything else, her loins delivering the natural springs and snowmelt that birthed a great river.
The Sacramento River provided such an abundance of food that the Wintu and many neighboring tribes — the Pit River, Yana, Nomlaki and others — had little to fight over. They thrived in pre-colonial times, on waters that ran silver with salmon, forests thick with game and oaks heavy with acorns.
But centuries of disease, virtual enslavement and murder wrought by European and American invaders scrambled the harmony that once reigned along the Upper Sacramento River.
Today, three tribes here are locked in a bloodless war. At issue is a proposal by one Indigenous group to expand and relocate its casino and whether the flashy new gambling hall, hotel and entertainment center would honor — or desecrate — the past.
The casino envisioned by the Redding Rancheria and its 422 members would rise nine stories on 232 acresalong Interstate 5. The rancheria — home to descendants from three historic tribes — began planning the development nearly two decades ago, envisioning a regional magnet for tourists and gamblers.
But the proposal has been buffeted by influential opponents, including the city of Redding, neighborhood groups and the billionaire next door — who happens to be the largest private landowner in America. The naysayers list a cavalcade of complaints against the new Win-River casino complex, saying it would despoil prime farmland, exacerbate traffic, increase police and fire protection costs and threaten native fish in the Sacramento River.
Those complaints have helped stall, but not kill, the project, whose fate rests almost solely in the hands of the Bureau of Indian Affairs in Washington, D.C. And now the BIA’s obscure bureaucrats have been confronted with an explosive new charge from two neighboring tribes: that construction of the casino would desecrate what the tribes say should be hallowed ground — the site of an 1846 rampage by the U.S. Cavalry that historians say probably killed hundreds of Native people.
The Sacramento River massacre has not received the attention of other atrocities of America’s westward expansion, such as the one in 1890 at Wounded Knee, S.D., where U.S. troops killed as many as 300 Lakota people. Estimates of the carnage, recorded over the decades from witness accounts and oral tradition, range from 150 to 1,000 men, women and children slaughtered along the banks of the Sacramento River.
If the higher estimates of the death toll are correct, it would rank as one of the largest single mass killings of Indigenous people in American history.
“In my heart, I find it hard to believe that there are Wintu people that are willing to build a casino on … the blood-soaked dirt of the massacre site,” Gary Rickard, chair of the Wintu Tribe of Northern California, told a state Assembly committee in August. “There are dozens of other places along the I-5 corridor and the Sacramento River.”
Redding Rancheria Chair Jack Potter Jr., himself part Wintu, called the claim that his tribe would build its casino on the massacre grounds “a slander that will not be easily forgotten.” He told state lawmakers that the real massacre site is miles away. Rancheria leaders said their opponents have manufactured the controversy for a less honorable reason: to block what would be a sparkling new competitor.
“Gaming in Indian country can be a tide that raises all of our canoes,” insisted Potter, who appeared at times to fight back tears as he spoke at the Sacramento hearing. “We should not battle against one another, in that spirit.”
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Friendships that go back decades and tribal ties of a century or more have been imperiled by the casino furor. Native people normally aligned against a hostile or indifferent U.S. government — “We’re all the children of genocide,” as one elder put it — have watched sadly as their conflicts turn inward.
It’s a dynamic that has played out before. Robbed of their ancestral lands, tribes now sometimes fight when one tries to claim new territory, often as a base for a lucrative modern endeavor: gambling.
The friction is exacerbated by the peculiar history of the Redding Rancheria — and by opponents’ eleventh-hour invocation of the Sacramento River massacre, 19 years after the rancheria began to assemble parcels for the project.
The Redding Rancheria refers to a nearly 31-acre stretch of land near the south end of Redding that the federal government bought in 1922 for “homeless Indians” who came to the area as seasonal workers for ranches and orchards. The rancheria sits in a relatively obscure location compared with the interstate-adjacent site of the proposed casino, more than three miles by car to the northeast.
In 1939, the Wintu, Pit River, Yana and other Indigenous peoples formed a rancheria government. It was recognized by the United States. But in 1958, an act of Congress “terminated” recognition of multiple California groups, including the Redding Rancheria, in an attempt to force Indians to disperse into the general population. It took a landmark 1983 court settlement to formally restore recognition of 17 rancherias, including the one in Redding.
The result is that there are Redding Rancheria members with Wintu blood, like Potter, 52, who firmly support the casino, while other Wintu descendants who are not descended from the original rancheria families, like Rickard, 78, adamantly oppose it. Rickard grew up with Jack Potter Sr. and has known his son since he was a boy.
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Cordiality prevails, at least outwardly, when Rickard and Potter meet today. But the bad blood between their groups has become fierce, exacerbated by the yawning wealth disparity between the rancheria and the Northern Wintu.
Rancheria members have thrived largely because of the success of their existing Win-River Resort & Casino, which operates 550 slot machines, a dozen table games, an 84-room hotel and an RV park.
The complex is the biggest income producer for the rancheria, which also owns a Hilton Garden Inn and a marijuana dispensary in Shasta County. Sources familiar with the tribe said each enrolled member receives a monthly “per capita” payment of at least $4,000 and perhaps as high as $6,000.
The rancheria’s chief executive, Pitt River descendant Tracy Edwards, 54, declined to discuss the amount of the payments.
That income, along with health clinics and other benefits, makes the Redding Rancheria members the envy of Indigenous groups with comparatively paltry assets. Rickard’s Northern Wintu claims roughly 560 certified members, but like many groups across America, the tribe has been laboring for years and still has not received formal recognition from the U.S. government. That means the tribe can’t put land into trust, a prerequisite to casino development and also a shield against federal, state and local taxes.
“We don’t have the resources in order to obtain the things we need,” said Shawna Garcia, the Northern Wintu’s cultural resources administrator. “We don’t have the revenue to assist our members with things like college, housing and other assistance.”
Historians and ethnographers say the Wintu were the predominant tribe around the site proposed for the casino complex, an expanse of meadow and scrubland that locals dub the Strawberry Fields because of its agricultural history. And Rickard questioned why the “pure-blood Wintu people” he represents have been left to struggle, while the rancheria — representing an amalgamation of tribal groups — stands poised to create an even bigger cash cow with its new casino.
Rancheria leaders like Edwards, a UC Davis-trained lawyer, have emphasized how the tribal group has supported Native and non-Native people, both as one of the largest employers in Shasta County and through its charitable foundation.
In just one year, 2018, the rancheria said it gave more than $1.2 million to community organizations, helping serve the homeless and victims of the Carr fire. During the early phase of the COVID-19 pandemic, the rancheria donated $5,000 each to 60 businesses struggling to stay afloat.
At a cost of $150 million, the rancheria’s new casino would feature 1,200 slot machines — more than double the number at its current casino — and with 250 rooms, the new casino hotel would be more than triple the size of the existing hotel. The tribal group has pledged to close its current Win-River casino when the new one opens.
The rancheria’s outsized community presence has created substantial goodwill around Redding, but a portion of residents have stepped forward — via petitions and ballot measures — to express disdain for large developments they feel could harm the rural character of their community.
Among the more powerful opponents is Archie Aldis “Red” Emmerson, president of logging giant Sierra Pacific Industries, whose sprawling estate looms along the Sacramento River, just south of the casino site.
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In 2020, an Emmerson-allied company purchased property from the city of Redding that included a portion of a road that would be the north entry to the casino site and created an easement that would have barred access to the rancheria land for all but agricultural purposes. The easement effectively would have thwarted the casino by blocking vehicle access to the development.
But in 2022, a Shasta County Superior Court judge voided the deal, saying that in selling the land (for just $3,000 to the billionaire) the city had violated its “own processes, procedures and the relevant law.” The ruling nullified the easement, preserving the rancheria’s unrestricted access to the property.
The Redding City Council and neighboring homeowners have maintained their opposition to the project for years, while a new conservative majority on the Shasta County Board of Supervisors recently reversed the county’s earlier objections. The supervisors supported the casino, despite admonitions from the sheriff, fire chief and county counsel that the agreement with the rancheria did not provide sufficient compensation to cover the increased costs of serving the big development.
The rancheria agreed to make one-time payments totaling $3.6 million to support Shasta County, the Sheriff’s Department and fire and emergency services. That initial infusion would be supplemented by recurring payments: $1,000 for each police service call and $10,000 for each fire/emergency service call.
No issue has unsettled intra-tribal relations, though, like the debate flowing out of the terrible events along the Sacramento River 177 years ago.
Oral histories of the Wintu and neighboring tribes recall how Native families and elders had gathered along the river known as the Big Water each year in early April for the spring salmon run. Traditionally, the season signaled rebirth.
But Capt. John C. Fremont had other ideas.
Fremont diverted his men from their ordered assignment: completing land surveys in the Rocky Mountains. The Americans instead went adventuring to California, where, in the spring of 1846, they responded to sketchy claims from settlers that they were endangered.
About 70 buckskin-clad white men set upon the Native people, the locals far outgunned by the invaders, each toting a Hawken rifle, two pistols and a butcher knife, according to UCLA historian Benjamin Madley‘s detailed account of the massacre.
The horsemen completed their grisly work with such evident pride that legendary frontiersman Kit Carson later bragged that the coordinated assault had been “a perfect butchery.”
The massacre marked the beginning of “a transitional period between the Hispanic tradition of assimilating and exploiting Indigenous peoples and the Anglo-American pattern of killing or removing them,” according to Madley’s “An American Genocide: The United States and the California Indian Catastrophe.”
Fremont (later a U.S. senator from California and a Republican presidential candidate) would say that his party attacked the natives because of reports of an “imminent attack” upon settlers. But the “battle” was one-sided, with the federal troops suffering no known casualties. Afterward, according to Madley’s account, Fremont’s men feasted on the Native people’s larder of fresh salmon.
In the nearly two centuries since, the tragedy would be more forgotten than remembered. There is no historical marker around Redding noting the event.
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The Wintu people believed to have been the principal victims have preserved memories of the mass killing in their oral history. But no ceremony marks the atrocity. And at the Wintu cultural resource center in Shasta Lake City, a wall-size timeline of the group’s history makes no mention of the 1846 bloodshed.
There’s also the now-pressing question — pushed to the fore by the casino feud — about precisely where the massacre occurred. The Northern Wintu and another outspoken opponent, the Paskenta Band of Nomlaki Indians, insist that the Strawberry Fields property was a key location in the atrocity.
The Paskenta commissioned a study by a retired anthropologist from Cal State Sacramento that drew on research from the late 1800s by a linguist from the Smithsonian Institution who, in turn, got much of his information from a Wintu elder who survived the massacre. The report, by Dorothea Theodoratus and a colleague, said that the “center” of the massacre was “opposite the mouth of Clear Creek” in the Sacramento River, a point roughly two miles south of the proposed casino location.
But other accounts from participants and witnesses said Fremont’s soldiers chased down victims after the initial assault, leaving the exact range of the bloodshed unknown. The Theodoratus report says that six villages, including two on the proposed casino property, were so thoroughly intermingled that all “would have had some direct involvement with that massacre.”
Andrew Alejandre, chair of the Paskenta Band, told the Assembly Governmental Organization Committee in August that his tribe is seeking to have the state and federal governments designate the Strawberry Fields a sacred site, off-limits to development. Alejandre, 35, said his tribe vehemently opposes building a casino “on top of men, women, children and elders. The spirit of these ancestors … Let them rest!”
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In rebuttal, Potter and rancheria CEO Edwards note that during the many years that they and others have pursued developments in the region, the rival tribes never mentioned the massacre. Divisive fights over a proposed auto mall and a sports complex (both scrapped) came and went without any discussion about desecration of a mass grave site.
“I would never disrespect the remains of my ancestors,” Potter said.
Fifty miles south of Redding in rural Corning, the 288-member Paskenta Band opened the Rolling Hills Casino and Resort two decades ago. The luxe gaming hall is just one part of an economic surge by the tribe, which has also opened an equestrian complex, an 18–hole golf course, a 1,400-acre gun and hunting center and a 3,000-person amphitheater, where Snoop Dogg performed in May.
Potter charged that the fight over the historic massacre is really a ploy by the flourishing Paskenta to squelch the Redding Rancheria’s hopes for a shimmering destination casino “because of the mistaken belief that it … will cut into the profits of their gaming facilities.”
Paskenta’s Alejandre, a designer who once ran a clothing company, denied that is the case.
While representatives for the Paskenta and Northern Wintu tribes bashed the casino proposal at the August hearing, representatives of at least eightother California tribes argued in support of the Redding Rancheria. One said the Redding group had proved itself a good steward of cultural resources.
Another speaker at the hearing was Miranda Edwards, the 28-year-old daughter of the rancheria CEO. The Stanford-educated Edwards and her mother spoke about the importance of moving the tribal group forward for the “Seventh Generation,” future descendants whose livelihoods must be planned for today.
“We work hard every day to provide for this rural community and make it the best that we can for everyone that lives there,” Miranda Edwards told legislators. “It’s disheartening to hear from those that choose not to see that. But it will not stop our work.”
Potter, the rancheria’s chairman, had a sardonic take on the dispute.
“We always talk about crabs in a pot,” Potter said. “We are like all these crabs, stuck in a pot. When one tries to get out of the pot, all the others reach up and pull him back in.”
Will arguments about the Sacramento River massacre sway the final outcome of the Redding Rancheria’s casino quest? A BIA spokesman said only that “these issues are under review.” Nearly two centuries after representatives of the U.S. military decimated a civilization here, the federal government still retains ultimate authority over the fate of Native people.
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Every family has their own reasons for choosing the type of Christmas tree that graces their home each December, but for me, nothing equals the smell of a live tree. Once a live tree is in the home, the unmistakable smell of pine, spruce or fir envelopes the room and our olfactory senses trigger fond memories of family Christmases from years ago.
Christmas tree growers would tell you that there are other reasons to choose a live Christmas tree over an artificial one, including the fact that live trees are more environmentally friendly. Christmas trees are planted specifically for harvest and subsequent replanting and an acre of Christmas trees produces enough oxygen to support 18 people each day, according to Ohio State University Extension research. Each Christmas tree will remove up to one ton of carbon dioxide from the atmosphere during its lifetime. And live Christmas trees can be recycled through chipping or composting.
Choosing a live tree
You can be assured of getting a fresh tree if you cut your own tree from a local Christmas tree farm. While this is a cherished family tradition for many, the convenience of purchasing a pre-cut tree is more desirable for others.
To check a pre-cut tree for freshness, look for flexible needles that remain firmly attached when you tug on them. All needled evergreens shed their oldest needles each year, so there is no need for concern when brown needles fall from the interior of the tree when you knock the base of the tree on the ground. Just be sure that these brown needles are thoroughly shaken off the tree before taking it indoors. If the outermost green needles pull out easily, or if they appear a dull, lifeless green, the tree may be past its prime.
Maintaining freshness and aroma
Plan to place your live tree in a stand with a basin that holds at least a gallon of water. A cut tree will absorb a surprising amount of water, particularly during the first week it is placed indoors, so replenish water daily. Avoid whittling down the sides of the trunk of the tree to fit into a stand. The outer layers of wood are the most efficient in taking up water and should not be removed. If the tree is to be stored for more than a couple of days before it is set up indoors, its trunk should be placed in water and it should be stored in a cool, shaded, and protected area such as an unheated garage.
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If the tree has been cut within 12 hours of set up indoors, it will not be necessary to recut the trunk. If it has been longer than 12 hours since harvest, the trunk should be re-cut to improve water uptake. Cut a ¼-inch-thick slice from the base of the trunk and be sure to make the cut perpendicular to the stem axis. Don’t cut the trunk at an angle or into a v-shape, as this will make it difficult to hold the tree in the stand and reduce the amount of water the tree will uptake.
How to plant paperwhites for the holiday season
Just in case the ground freezes before you have a chance to plant your living tree outdoors in January, its best to dig the planting hole now where you wish to plant the tree. Be sure to dig the planting hole two or three times wider than the container or root ball of the tree you plan to purchase. The hole should be dug to the same depth as the as the container or root ball. Soil dug from the hole can be stored in the garage in a wheelbarrow or in large containers to avoid freezing.
Mike Hogan is Extension Educator for Agriculture and Natural Resources and associate professor with Ohio State University Extension. [email protected]
‘Tis the season for holiday decor. Getting your home prepped and ready for the festivities is a joy and really, as will any home decor, there’s no right or wrong way to go about it. That being said, if you want your Christmas decor to look beautiful and reflect your personal style and traditions, there are loose rules to be abided. Meaning there are also mistakes to be made.
We asked designers what common Christmas decor mistakes we should all be avoiding this year. From going OOT with new decorations to not sticking to a cohesive theme, here are the holiday decor faux pas best to avoid if you want to create a chic and timeless display.
5 Christmas decorating mistakes
Christmas trends. Just like with interior design trends, you want to be inspired by these styles but don’t let them overcome the looks you really love and that have meaning to you no matter how kitsch they may be. Luckily nostalgia is a designer-approved trend this year anyways.
‘In any given year, my biggest piece of advice is not to feel pressured to do any decorating you don’t love!’ says designer Kathy Kuo. ‘The holiday season can be stressful and the decor aspect is supposed to be fun – if a so-called ‘Christmas decor trend’ is adding to your stress, just say no! If you love simple white twinkle lights in the windows and a few vases of greenery instead of a humongous tree, go for it!’
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‘Going over the top with colorful lights can also lead to visual clutter rather than creating a warm, inviting aesthetic that compliments your existing décor. Buying everything new and matching can look contrived or sterile and doesn’t honor the meaning and traditions of the holiday.’
‘Instead, consider taking a trip down memory lane this Christmas. Bring out your grandmother’s china and napkins that have been carefully stored away in the attic. Mix ornaments from your relatives, or things you’ve collected over time or DIY Christmas decorations. Not only does this approach help to honor the past and keep the memories alive, it is also a sustainable choice, utilizing what we already have instead of purchasing new items. This can evoke a sense of nostalgia and create a warm and homey atmosphere that truly embodies the spirit of Christmas.’
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maximalist holiday decor, there should still be something that ties it all together like a color scheme or a reoccurring pattern.
‘A significant Christmas decorating mistake is deviating from a theme or failing to follow a cohesive decorating plan. Without a guiding theme or plan, decorations might clash or lack a unified vision, resulting in a hodgepodge of styles that just looks messy.’ explains designer Jennifer Davis.
‘Sticking to a specific theme or design scheme helps tie everything together, ensuring a polished and inviting holiday setting that resonates with a consistent style and charm throughout the space.’
4. Not blending faux and real folliage
While there are now so many incredibly realistic faux Christmas garlands, wreaths, and greenery, you can really elevate them by adding in real foliage or dried fruits. This will make and faux greenery look fuller and more convincing. You could ditch the fake evergreen all together and have a go a making your own garland.
Designer Bethany Adams believes it’s going real with your evergreen that ensures the most effective Christmas decor; ‘The wrong faux greenery can be a major faux pas. Instead, reach for dried, real evergreen boughs for your mantle or wreaths. The look is far more luxe, and just as reusable.’
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5. Creating too much visual clutter
The whole point in Christmas decor is for it to add something beautiful and visual and creative to your home. But bringing in all this extra decor and Christmas lighting and a full-sized Christmas tree can risk looking cluttered, so to avoid this just ensure you have focal points within your rooms. Nothing should be competing.
So for example in a room where you have the tree, keep the rest of the decor minimal – candles on the mantle, lights at the window but no large pieces of decor that will distract from the main event, and ensure to include some negative space.
‘When diving into Christmas decorating, it’s essential to consider the aspect of proportion, especially concerning height. Neglecting to do this can lead to an unbalanced display where items of varying heights compete for attention. A smart approach involves creating visual interest by varying the heights of decorations while maintaining a sense of cohesion and harmony.’ advises Jennifer Davis.
Avoiding these holiday decor mistakes, while also still following your own traditions and style, will ensure your Christmas decor feels both chic and characterful. Just remember to go with your tried and tested formulas, have something cohesive flowing through the scheme, and don’t go over the top with bringing a load of new decor into your home and really crowding your room. And of course, have fun with it, potentially the biggest mistake you can make is getting so carried away with aesthetics that the once-a-year activity of decorating your home for the holidays becomes a stress, rather than a joy.
The next best thing to binge-watching home decor shows is swooning over the pages of home decor books by your favorite designers. Shea McGee, Kelly Wearstler, Jeremiah Brent, Bobby Berk and more are inspiring us with new books about how to live beautifully, colorfully, elegantly, and even on a budget. Gift them to the interior design lovers in your life, use them as a coffee table books, and prepare to be inspired to create a home that inspires joy, creativity, and comfort. Something we can all use these days, right? Enjoy!
The Art of Home: A Designer Guide To Creating An Elevated Yet Approachable Home
We couldn’t wait to get our hands on Shea McGee’s beautiful new decor book, where she shares the details behind her design process, inspires us with swoon-worthy design photos, and takes us through every room of the house to help us transform how we live every day. We love that you can take these ideas and make them your own with vintage or more affordable pieces from her Target collection.
Old Brand New: Colorful Homes for Maximal Living
Dabito is a master at mixing colors and making max living seem effortless and refined (but still totally fun). Here, he gives us all the tricks of his trade on layering bold colors, incorporating vintage, and sprucing up your space for a new year. Expect to find projects you can whip up in a weekend (styling a bookcase, hanging a gallery wall, designing an outdoor space) for your home or rental, and learn about his immigrant experience in his thoughtful and inspiring way.
Right at Home: How Good Design Is Good for the Mind
Queer Eye host Bobby Berk shows you how to make the most of your home to inspire self care, wellness, and inspire happiness in every room. Bobby helps anyone, from studio dwellers to first home buyers, figure out how to define what makes you happy so you can create an authentic design to you (vs. what is popular on IG). He helps with function, comfort and so much style, all in an effort to boost your mood at home.
Kelly Wearstler: Synchronicity
Kelly Wearstler fans unite — this book is chock-full of Wearstler’s unique and mold-breaking designs. She masters pairing luxe materials with fresh colors and forms and mixes styles to perfection. Her bold approach shines through so you can take cues on how to incorporate her wildly elegant ideas at home.
The Space That Keeps You: When Home Becomes a Love Story
Moving from one beautiful home to the next with partner Nate Berkus and their two children, Jeremiah Brent wanted to explore what makes a home a space that keeps you grounded. He guides us through homes around the world — from Mexico to Montecito — that hold memories, emotions, and personal stories. His gorgeous designs are the backdrop to a powerful story of what shapes a home. This book comes out next February, but you can pre-order now!
Star Style: Interiors of Martyn Lawrence Bullard
Martyn Lawrence Bullard’s A-list clients include the Kardashians, Blake Shelton and Gwen Stefani, and Ellen Pompeo. Get a peek inside the homes of Hollywood elite, from Kylie Jenner’s Hidden Hills hideaway to Cher’s Malibu mansion, and refresh your space with a little glamour.
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The housing market may have its ups and downs, but one thing never changes: Families need a place to call home, a place where memories can be made every day. The Bank of the Pacific home loans team does more than just crunch numbers or sift through the many paperwork-heavy steps of pre-qualification, purchase and closing. They strive to build lasting relationships that extend generations.
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Bank of the Pacific works with families from Lynden, Washington, in the north to Salem, Oregon, down south. They know many factors drive home purchases and that, like families, no two are the same. When we’re just starting out, we often look for simple, family-friendly properties in welcoming neighborhoods with sidewalks and parks. As we get a little older, it’s time to either downsize into something manageable during retirement or invest in a multigenerational property everyone can share. Some look for real estate bargains to restore and flip, others for investment properties to provide extra income. Whatever your needs, Bank of the Pacific is happy to help.
Michael Lombardo is Bank of the Pacific’s Director of Residential Lending. Though he’s only been with their team for the past two and a half years, he’s been in the industry for more than three decades. Lombardo has a background in lending, real estate, securitizations, loan portfolio management, and culture change management. This experience and expertise mean your unique journey is in good hands.
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Lombardo says that what sets Bank of the Pacific apart in a crowded financial field is their caring, knowledgeable staff and scope of services provided. “We are not transactionally focused,” says Lombardo, “we are community bankers that believe we are building relationships for the long term. Repeat business and referrals are a primary source of business, therefore, we strive to be trusted partners and hire people who believe in that mission.”
Their specialists are always ready to talk you through home purchases, refinancing options, new home construction or home equity loans. You can get started online or call, visit, text or email a team member to begin the process. “We always want to meet people,” says Lombardo, “and the most important thing is that our customers know a real person is working for and with them the entire way.”
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The past few years have been a housing market whirlwind. Prices and interest rates fluctuate daily, and a shortage of available homes means new listings are snapped up within hours. Lombardo acknowledges that “as much as the government has tried to curb inflation by raising interest rates, it hasn’t had the desired effect on real estate in our markets. Affordability is an ongoing challenge for people seeking home ownership and market volatility and uncertainty forces lenders like us to work to find creative loan programs that help credit-worthy buyers get into a home.”
He advises hopefuls to be prepared, save paystubs and files — ideally as PDF documents for ease of attaching to an email — and plan 12 to 24 months in advance. “Pre-qualifying is the same as applying for a loan,” says Lombardo, “and it can feel overwhelming with lots of paperwork and document requests. Stay organized so you can react quickly when rates begin to decline, set goals for yourself, talk to a mortgage lender and ask a million questions. A good lender will always take the time to help you.”
At Bank of the Pacific, you can begin the application online and one of their home loan specialists will get back to you within 72 hours. Otherwise, find the specialist in a branch location nearest you and reach out directly with questions or to make an in-person appointment.
If you’re new to Bank of the Pacific’s many services, take a moment to investigate their competitive checking and savings accounts, investment options, merchant services for small businesses, commercial lending or real estate and helpful financial calculators.
Home buying is still one of the largest purchases most people ever make. But though it may seem out of reach, don’t be daunted. At Bank of the Pacific, lenders like Lombardo will make sure you’re comfortably prepared well in advance and ready to act when the right property comes along. Because when it does, you can start the next phase of life with a celebratory welcome mat and dreams for the future.
Have you ever heard a song that, no matter how many times you listen to it, always takes you back to the same emotion? It’s like music is some kind of magical time machine; from the very first note, it melts all your worries away and transports you right into the depths of whatever feeling it stirs up in your heart. Whether it be sadness or joy, nostalgia or anticipation, we’ve all experienced times when certain songs can bring us right back to a powerful emotional moment with just a few chords. Below are the top 18 songs that never fail to make our hearts ache with sweet sorrow each and every time they play.
1. Songs by John Denver
One Redditor posted, “A lot of John Denver songs. They take me back to the days when I had a cassette deck in my car, driving through mountains with my mountain girl. Feels like a long time ago, a lot of amazing memories.”
2. “You’re Gonna Go Far” Noah Kahan
“‘You’re Gonna Go Far’—Noah Kahan,” one user posted.
3. Songs by Coldplay
One Redditor shared, “Any Coldplay as it was the last music my husband and I listened to right before he suddenly passed away.”
4. “Silent All These Years” Tori Amos
One online user shared, “‘Silent All These Years’, Tori Amos.”
Another user confirmed, “Yes! Always fierce, and always goosebumps, with that minor key thrown in! I hear my voice … and it’s been …”
5. “In the Aeroplane Over the Sea” by Neutral Milk Hotel
One Redditor shared, “The song “In the Aeroplane Over the Sea” by Neutral Milk Hotel makes me cry by the time it gets to the last verse.
“It’s corny to like that album by this point because it’s been so overplayed, but that song just sounds like the realization that you’re happy and that you made it. It sounds like the feeling of watching fireworks with the love of your life on a warm night, surrounded by happy people and children playing, feeling like if it all ended here, you’d be good with that. Such a nice timeless song.”
6. “Broadripple Is Burning” by Margot and the Nuclear So and So’s
An online Redditor shared, “‘Broadripple is Burning’ by Margot and the Nuclear so and so’s.”
7. “18 and Life” by Skid Row
One user posted, “Skid Row’s ’18 And Life’. It was my sister’s favorite song. She passed away in 2010.”
8. “Only Time” by Enyas
One user shared his story, “Since my son-in-law’s 2005 suicide, Enya’s ‘Only Time,’ but it actually works for all sudden deaths.”
9. “Smother” by Daughter
“‘Smother’ by Daughter.
“When I first listened to this track and, subsequently, the album, I was in a very dark place. Listening to it now just brings everything back with crystal clarity. Sometimes they are happy tears of being proud of where I am now, but more often than not, they are sad tears,” one user shared.
10. “Remember to Forget Me” by Blink-182
One user shared, “Remember to forget me by Blink-182. Hits hard.”
11. “The A Team”
One user posted, “Ed Sheeran. ‘The A Team’. My daughter died of a drug overdose.”
Another user replied, “I’m so sorry. ❤️🩹”
12. “Break You Open”, Airplay Version
“Break You Open (Airplay version). Who knows, knows,” another user posted.
13. “Long Long Time” by Linda Ronstadt
One user added, “Linda Ronstadt ‘Long Long Time’.”
Another user responded, “I had to add this one to my list after watching Nick Offerman sing it to his partner on The Last of Us! … “
14. “I Believe In You” by Amanda Marshall
One Redditor shared, “When I see the music video for ‘I Believe in You’ by Amanda Marshall. It’s so bittersweet and encouraging. I have to stop thinking of it now, or I’ll end up in the middle of Reddit.”
15. “Dance With My Father” by Luther Vandross
Another Redditor commented, “‘Dance With My Father’—Luther Vandross.”
16. “Mama’s Arms” by Joshua Kadison
“‘Mama’s Arms’ by Joshua Kadison. I was a little bit older than the boy in the song (19, to be exact), but the feeling was 100% the same. Starting to cry just typing that, and it happened 20 years ago.
“‘Going back to a tender age So full of confusion and rage Daddy says ‘Boys, your mama’s gone’…” one user quoted.
17. “End of a Day” by Jonghyun
One user shared, “‘End of a Day’—Jonghyun.
“This artist took his life in 2017, and the lyrics have some similarities to the note he left. Parts where he wanted to be told he did good and tried his best. The song absolutely breaks my heart every time it comes on.”
18. “Toire No Kamisama” by Kana Uemura
“Toire no Kamisama by Kana Uemura. The title (The god in the Toilet) sounds funny/strange when you first hear it, but it’s a really sweet and heartbreaking story of a girl and her grandmother. AFAIK, it’s based on the singer’s real experience,” posted one user.
Have you heard some of the songs listed above? Share your thoughts in the comments!
Source: Reddit.
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Have you ever rented a movie on a whim, expecting it to be just okay—only to find yourself surprisingly transfixed? We’ve all experienced this kind of pleasant surprise at least once or twice, but why is it that the most unsuspected films can sometimes leave us completely entranced? Below are some unearthing 20 movies you don’t expect to love—but absolutely should.
1. My Cousin Vinny
“When My Cousin Vinny came out, I thought this was going to be stupid. I laughed and laughed,” one user shared.
Another user agreed and commented, “One of the all-time greats! The whole ‘imagine yo’ a deer’ speech makes my day. Every single time! Marisa Tomei is the best part of that whole movie, hands down.”
2. Star Wars
One user shared, “(I’m old) In 1977, my friends and I were supposed to go see Rocky or something, but it was sold out. Instead, we went to a movie I had never heard of called Star Wars. Wow!”
Another user shared her story and stated, “My mom told me about my dad taking my brother to see Star Wars in theatres when it first came out. There was no pomp and circumstance. No long lines of people waiting to see it. There wasn’t today’s hype like it was just another movie release.
“It was hard to imagine.”
3. The Lego Movie
One Redditor commented, “Lego Movie!!! What I thought would be a complete cash grab with no substance (looking at you, Emoji Movie), I left feeling like I got a big hug with the writing, the plot and the talent!!”
One replied, “Absolutely. For being basically a 2-hour long corporate ad, it was very funny, touching, and provocative. Lego Movie is awesome! ‘Hi, you don’t know me, but I’m on TV so that you can trust me!’”
4. The Mummy (1999)
One Redditor shared, “Brendan Fraser’s Mummy movie.”
Another user replied, “Yes! This was the first movie I’d ever seen in a real theatre. We had no idea what the movie was about, but my God, that was an epic film for little kids to see!”
5. October Sky
“October Sky with Jake Gyllenhaal and Chris Carter. Great story about a 1950s coal mining town and a teenager wanting to get out and go to college to be a NASA engineer,” one Redditor shared.
Another user replied, “It’s based on a true story. So good.”
6. Edge of Tomorrow
One Redditor posted, “Edge of Tomorrow. Didn’t know much about it outside. It wasn’t doing great in the box office, and no one knew what it was about.”
Another confirmed and posted, “Yesh, this one was better than I expected. It’s one of the few movies I enjoy re-watching.”
7. Up
Another user commented, “Up (the Pixar movie). It was so beautiful and emotional. I’ve seen it many times since. Wonderful movie!”
One user replied, “I was not expecting nor was I prepared for that absolute gut punch in the beginning.”
8. Puss in Boots: The Last Wish
“Puss in Boots: The Last Wish! It was so cute and funny but, at the same time, kind of had a deeper theme than I’d expect from a kid’s movie (Puss the Cat has now died eight times and is down to his last life and is realizing that he is going to die one day),” one user posted.
Another user replied, “This movie was much better than it had any right to be. Dreamworks’ top 3 for me.”
9. Clue
One user shared, “Clue. Not what I expected. Amazing movie.”
Another user jokingly added, “I guess you can say you had no Clue what you expected … I’ll see myself out.”
10. Little Miss Sunshine
One Redditor posted, “Little Miss Sunshine. I can’t remember what I expected going into the theatre, but it certainly wasn’t what it turned out to be. I absolutely loved the movie.”
One user also replied, “The gag of Steve Carrell’s character losing both his boyfriend and his title as the foremost Proust scholar to the same dude is f- hilarious. Kind of thing that makes you go, “‘Who the f- wrote this?’”
11. Stardust
Another online user posted, “Stardust. And I know I’m going to get s- for this, but to me, it’s on a level with the princess bride. It’s intelligent, funny, … all while staying family friendly with a great story and a great lesson.”
One agreed and exclaimed, “WHAT a good movie! It’s one of the rare movies that is (IMHO) better than the book.”
12. Cabin in the Woods
“Cabin in the Woods. I thought it was going to be a s- horror cliche movie; it ended up being one of my favourite movies!” posted one user.
Another Redditor commented, “I watched it because I’m trying to watch all ‘1001 movies you must see before you die’ and thought it was strange a seemingly basic horror movie cut. It was super fun to be surprised by how entertaining and clever that movie turned out to be; I really really enjoyed it and didn’t think I would.”
13. Kingsman: The Secret Service
One Redditor shared, “Kingsman: The Secret Service. It came out with no real advertising, the trailer looked average, and when I saw its opening day, the theatre was almost empty.
“Holy crap, though, the movie blew me away. I compare it to John Wick, where there was no hype or expectation, then it blew people’s socks clean off.”
One user replied, “I enjoyed the Kingsman films.”
14. Spiderman: Into the Spiderverse
“Spiderman: Into the Spiderverse … I watched it on a date, expecting not even to want to pay attention. Now it’s my favorite superhero movie,” shared one user.
15. Terminator 2
One user posted, “Terminator 2. I was dragged into seeing it. I’m not a fan of sci-fi/fantasy, but that is one fun movie.”
Another user replied, “All-time favorite film. I’m a huge Arnold fan, tho.”
16. District 9
One user shared, “District 9.”
Another user replied, “Amen. I walked into the theatre wholly blind and barely heard about it. Me and some friends just walked past a poster and agreed it looked interesting. One of my best cinema experiences.”
17. Lord of the Rings
“My mum took me to see Lord of the Rings when it first showed. I had no idea what it was. She told me it was adapted from books she’d thought I’d like. Hands down my favourite movies of all time, and great memories :),” one Redditor shared.
18. Dredd
One online user added to the thread, “Dredd. Absolutely loved the dark turn the new movie had.”
Another person then asked and commented, “‘Are you ready?’ The second time is really a great callback.”
One user also responded, “Thanks. I have it on one of my queues ‘just because.’ I had no real intention of watching it, but now I will.”
19. Eurotrip
“Eurotrip. My brother and I went in expecting it to be funny. We’ve been quoting it ever since.”, one Redditor posted.
One user also replied, “‘Oh, mi scuzi!’ Same dude, same.”
20. Galaxy Quest
One user shared, “Galaxy Quest. I thought it would be a bad comedy, but I really enjoyed it.”
Another Redditor quoted, “‘Never give up, never surrender!’”
What do you think of the movies listed above?
Share your thoughts down in the comments!
Source: Reddit.
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All of us have done some foolish things when we were just little kids. Most of those are only for fun and are seemingly safe. However, it’s not always the case; some of the things we do as children can have a greater impact on our childhood—or worse, they’re affecting us in still as adults. Here are 12 things people did innocently as children that affected their childhood. Let us know in the comments if you resonate with some of the things listed here!
1. Messenger Bags and Side-Bangs
Do you like wearing messenger bags? Having bangs when you’re a kid?
Well, one Reddit user shared, “I used to wear messenger bags in the 6th grade to be trendy, and wore my bangs to cover my left eye. Now I have borderline severe scoliosis from the weight of the bag being on one side, and my left eye is lazy.”
2. Playing Music Too Loud
One commenter said, “Wear headphones and play the music as loud as my walkman/discman would go. Now I have tinnitus.”
Another one replied, “Oof it’s rough! I have a particular day and time that I know I screwed my hearing up, and I’ve had tinnitus ever since.”
One Redditor added, “It’s literally what happened to me. I always used to get it would last like 30 seconds and go away. It would suck, but I always knew it would stop. And then… one night, I was sleeping, and it woke me up out of my sleep. It never went away. I’ve had it for 8 years now. Some days are bad, and some days I barely notice it. It’s always noticeable when I’m going to sleep. Just gotta learn to live with it, sadly.”
3. Not Brushing Your Teeth
Were you also lazy about brushing your teeth? Well it doesn’t take long for you to start having dental problems.
“Was too lazy to brush my teeth. My parents didn’t seem to notice if I did it or not. I’d probably only do it for like 30 seconds every other day. And only ever once a day. I’m now facing lots of expensive treatment and having to go to private because getting an NHS is nigh on impossible,” one user shared.
“Same. Spent over £3k sorting my teeth in my 20’s, from years of neglect. 12 fillings, two root canals and 3 years of braces. Decent enough teeth now thankfully, but could have [saved] much pain if I’d [brushed] and [gone to the dentist],” someone replied.
4. Lying on One Side Too Much
One Reddit user shared, “I used to use my laptop lying down on one side with my arm propping up my head, for hours and hours. I have permanent back alignment issues.”
Another user replied, “I still do this when I’m tired, and it always ends up with a first rib subluxation. I’m used to doing it, though, it’s a tough habit to break.”
Another one added, “I have always leaned on my right side, and now I have tendinitis in my rotator cuff, and I’m only reminded not to lean if it starts hurting shortly after I start leaning that way.”
5. Finding Safe Places
Some of us have had a terrible childhood, and sadly, most of those memories and defense mechanisms we’ve come to use as children will still greatly affect us in adulthood.
One person stated, “Hide in small spaces to get away from my abusive parents. Now whenever I’m panicking, I try to look for small spaces to hide in and will panic more if I can’t find one.”
The second person replied, “The feeling of despair I get when I realize there’s nowhere for me to hide is terrible. It’s like being stuck in the middle of the ocean. I’m sorry you experienced the same thing.”
6. Being Antisocial
While you may have enjoyed your own company as a child by playing video games all day, it may ultimately significantly impact your adulthood.
One Redditor stated, “Being an introvert and staying home playing video games all the time, now that I’m 28 don’t have any friends, the loneliness is getting worse.”
Another one replied, “Oof I feel this. I never really learned how to be social and make lasting friends. At least I found a husband who also avoided everyone and played video games lol.”
One commenter said, “I kinda feel this, but I don’t regret the gaming. It was fun. And I still made lots of friends when I went to college, who I still hang out and play games with. Maybe I’m just lucky, but you might find some luck too if you manage to find people who share your interests.”
7. Wearing Bad Shoes
“Wore nothing but chucks and flats from age 12 to my late twenties and now my feet are messed up,” someone shared.
“Really? How is that harmful?” another user asked.
“No arch support,” someone replied.
A fourth commenter added, “No. Humans were never made to need arch support. Muscles in the foot should be strengthened by use (barefoot walking). Now we need arch supports because we smash our feet so dang narrow and reshape the foot with modern footwear our feet are literally deformed. Hence the need for supports, cushioning, toe spring, shoes with heel drop, etc.”
8. Not Showing Emotions
One person shared, “Hid my emotions because I was trying to be ‘manly.’ Now I have psychological issues from trying to be someone other than myself, not to mention high blood pressure, back and neck pain, hair loss, and a number of other ailments.”
Then the second person replied, “I’m sad that the older generations were taught that men shouldn’t ‘have emotions’, I’m glad it’s being realized that everyone has emotions, we’re not robots after all! I hope you find peace.”
9. Eating Your Feelings
Do you binge eat when things get too complicated and too much to handle? While it can help you a bit when dealing with stress, it actually does more harm than good.
“I have a weird relationship with food from binge eating so much and my dad basically getting us McDonald’s on the daily. I’m not overweight, but I’m definitely unhealthy and steadily gaining more weight than I’m comfortable with. Cooking somewhat healthy meals at home is easy for a week, then I fall back into my old ways.”
“Put a stop to it now seriously i was raised on McDonald’s and Burger King. I’m 32 and literally… I’m the fattest I’ve ever been. Just got a trainer, and his reaction to my soda intake was an eye opener,” someone replied.
10. Staring at the Sun
Do you remember staring at the sun when you were a kid? Well, you’re not the only one.
“I don’t know why, but I stared at the sun wearing 3d glasses for a minute or two. Now, when I close my left eye, the white walls are very slightly reddish. When I close my right eye, the white walls are very slightly bluish. Definitely damaged some cones in my eyes,” shared one person.
11. Bullying Others
One person stated, “I was a bully. A horrible bully. And I live with shame every day of my life because of it.”
The second person replied, “You can’t undo your past, but you can work on doing some ‘good’—help the underprivileged, something for the environment, kids, animals… Lots of ways to give back to society and feel better. Make it happen!”
A third commenter added, “Think of it this way: the fact that you feel bad about it now means that you have grown as a person. You know how bad you were before and have the knowledge of how to be good now. A lot of people don’t come to this realization in their whole lives, so you did something special.”
Do you have similar experiences you’d like to share? Let us know in the comments.
Source: Reddit.
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