Save more, spend smarter, and make your money go further
’Tis the season to think green! So let’s do as the leprechauns do and celebrate a goal shared by real and imaginary creatures alike: protecting one’s stash.
Whether you’ve got an overflowing pot of gold or a more modest balance sheet, here are four principles for protecting your wealth.
Insure Your Stash
The biggest threat to your wealth is unforeseen expenses, especially medical bills; home and car repair; liability; and lost income due to death or disability. Failing to carry insurance against catastrophic losses isn’t thrifty; it’s shortsighted. The good news is that more Americans have access to affordable medical insurance than ever before, and shopping for car and home insurance has gotten cheaper and more convenient thanks to online marketplaces.
Plan for Emergencies
Your emergency fund (aka auxiliary pot of gold) works along with insurance. The emergency fund protects you against small losses; insurance protects you against big ones. Personal finance experts will argue endlessly about how big your emergency fund should be ($1000? Three months of expenses? Six months?), but we all agree on this: any emergency fund is better than none. Keep it in an FDIC-insured savings account; an online account that pays a little interest is a good choice.
Invest Your Gold Wisely
Most of us will have to fund a substantial portion of our retirement from our own savings. That makes it critical to invest well. Luckily, this doesn’t require supernatural abilities. Choose low-cost funds (such as index funds), don’t take more risk than you can handle (always own both stocks and bonds), save aggressively, and don’t be impulsive. Make a plan and stick to it regardless of what your cousin warns you about on Facebook. Great investing may be boring: it means thinking long-term, using unexciting mutual funds, and not making any sudden moves.
Create Your Own Pot of Gold
When we’re trying to save more money, we obsess over restaurant meals, entertainment, and travel—that is, we start by trying to cut out the most enjoyable, stress-relieving parts of our lives, even though they probably add up to a small part of our monthly spending. Instead, consider what you could save on housing or transportation. Voluntarily downsizing or giving up one car in favor of public transit, cycling, or car sharing can save hundreds per month, and there’s no evidence that it will make you any less happy. (Unless you reduce your commute time or get some cardio in on the way to work, in which case it’ll make you more happy.)
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30 Under 30 Honoree Kail Walker has seen incredible success since his start in real estate back in 2019. On today’s podcast, Kail shares several of the strategies that helped him win business as a young Realtor. In addition to social media, he covers networking events and brand building. Kail also discusses what it’s like working with his mom, the mistakes he made as a new real estate agent, and more.
Listen to today’s show and learn:
What it’s like working with your mom on a real estate team [3:36]
Why Kail applied for NAR’s 30 Under 30 program [5:40]
Creating fun networking events for potential clients [7:07]
Kail’s sales stats and growth over the last few years [14:07]
The business benefits of a large social media presence [15:10]
Tips on building a big social media following [16:53]
Advice on winning a spot in NAR’s 30 Under 30 [21:08]
Mistakes Kail has learned from in his real estate career [22:39]
The Omaha, Nebraska real estate market [24:32]
How to prepare for the next major market shift [26:15]
Kail’s real estate goals [28:42]
How to win listings at a higher price point [30:36]
Kail’s plans for his real estate events [33:50]
Final thoughts: work through the challenges [35:59]
Kail Walker
Raised in Omaha, Nebraska, his passion for real estate stemmed from growing up around the business from his mother, who has been an agent in the Omaha area for over 20 years. Kail’s background in leadership, management, sales, and customer service has provided him with the tools necessary to better serve the community of Omaha and surrounding areas to help people with their real estate needs.
You can count on Kail to be passionate, honest, patient, and focused throughout the process of buying or selling your home. His natural love to help people drives him to listen and learn about the people he encounters on a daily basis. Kail will go above and beyond to make sure that your need are met with exceptional care.
When he’s not working, you can find Kail at the gym, eating at his favorite local Omaha restaurants, or spending quality time with friends and family!
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If you are looking to buy a house, I have a bunch of home buying tips that will help you sort through all of your options, understand the real cost of a home (and help you save money), and make the right choice.
Buying a house is a huge purchase.
In fact, it is usually the largest purchase a person will ever make.
The median U.S. home value is $226,800 and the median price of homes currently listed is $291,900, according to Zillow. And, there are some areas that have much higher average home prices, like four to five times more.
Purchasing a house is a huge commitment, and it’s easy to get excited and forget to think about some very important things before plunking down a huge amount of money. There are just so many factors to think about, and not everyone will have the same concerns.
To help you through the home buying process, today’s post is going to be like a mini first time home buyer guide. I’m going to cover some of my best home buying tips, like:
Whether or not you should rent instead of buy
How to set a budget (one of the most important steps to buying a house for the first time)
Deciding what you want in a home
How to research the true cost of a house
Thinking about how long you’ll live in an area (recouping your costs)
How to avoid feeling rushed
Do you really need the house you’re about to buy
Whether you are a first time home buyer or if this is your second house or more, these are all things you should be thinking about.
Actually, these are the exact same things me and Wes have thought about before buying our sailboat and RV. They might not be “normal” homes, but they are what we live in. Plus, they are still very large purchases that need to be carefully thought out.
The home buying tips that I’m about to give you are to help you analyze what’s best for your situation – whether that’s a 5000 sq. ft. house, a 500 sq. ft. tiny home, an RV, a condo, etc.
I’ve said it already, but buying a house is a large purchase! And, everyone has felt that dreadful feeling that comes after making a large purchase and realizing that you have made a mistake. Perhaps you don’t realize for months or years later, but you eventually understand that you should have thought out your purchase a little bit more.
No one wants to feel this way after buying a house!
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Here are my best home buying tips.
Should you rent instead?
Before we started RVing, we sold our house and rented one for a little while. This raised quite a few eyebrows and led to questions about renting vs. buying from nearly everyone.
I even had several people tell me that I was making a stupid mistake.
I wasn’t surprised, though. Many people believe the myth that if you are renting a home you don’t know how to manage your money and that buying is always better, no matter what.
That couldn’t be further from the truth.
Sometimes buying can be the better decision, but there are times when renting can fit a person’s situation much better.
Buying a house can have a lot of positives, but that doesn’t mean it’s the right step for everyone.
To determine if renting is better for you, you’ll want to think about things such as:
How long you think you’ll live in the area.
Whether or not you’re ready to purchase a house, financially and/or responsibility wise.
Buying a home sometimes may be cheaper than renting, and the other way around.
Nearly everyone says that a house is a good investment. Many people will even go as far to say that doing anything other than owning a house would be a complete waste of money.
However, I don’t agree with that at all.
Buying a house isn’t for everyone. You shouldn’t just jump at the opportunity to buy a house, especially any ol’ house. And, you should think about all of the factors before deciding that buying a house over renting one is the best and only decision for you.
For home more renting vs. home buying tips, please read My Opinion Of The Great Renting vs Buying Debate for more information.
Set a budget before you look at homes.
“What’s the smartest way to buy a house?”
The smartest way to buy a house is to first think about your budget.
One of the first things you will want to do is to set a budget – you can’t go very far in the home buying process without one. It’s how you will know what you want to be pre-approved for, and a realtor will need that information to really help you shop for homes.
You will want to set yourself a budget when it comes to the home as well as all of the other expenses that go along with owning a home.
You will want to look at your overall financial situation and analyze:
The income you earn.
The stability of your job.
The amount of money you have saved for the down payment, other home expenses, etc.
Your credit history and credit score.
The total monthly amount you feel comfortable paying for a home. Make sure you look at all the costs involved!
Your total amount of debt.
When buying a house, it takes realizing all of these factors to understand what you can truly afford and be comfortable with.
However, many people justify buying a house that is over their budget, but that is a bad plan.
See, banks often pre-approve people for a mortgage payment that is higher than what they can afford to pay. You pre-approval number is not a good gauge of what you can afford because it doesn’t factor in the total cost of the house.
What you can afford takes that above list into consideration, not just the number a bank gives you. Because of that, it can be a very bad idea to go over the number the bank pre-approves you for. You should always stick to an amount that you can afford.
When determining what you can afford, you will want to think about ALL of the costs that come with buying a house and living in it. This means that your research should not end with the purchase price of the house – it actually goes way past that, as discussed in a later section of my home buying tips.
Think about what you want in a home.
If you are like most people, you’ve spent years thinking about what you want in a home.
Now is the time to make a list of those things. This is an important step when it comes to home buying for beginners.
Buying a house can lead to a crazy amount of new feelings – happiness, stress, excitement, and more. This can sometimes make every house you look at seem like the perfect one, and that’s because they all seem so new and exciting. This even happens with houses that don’t have everything you need. And, it definitely happens with ones that have more than you need.
Before you put an offer on a house, you should think about the reasons for why you want a specific house. This is one of the first steps to finding a house that’s right for you, as this can make sure you are getting exactly what you want and need, rather than just being happy with any home.
I recommend creating a wish list that includes all of the things you want in a home. Your wish list could include things like:
The square footage of the home
Size of yard
If you want a fenced in yard
How many bedrooms and bathrooms you desire
The age of the home
The quality of the schools
The parking situation and whether or not there is a garage
The size of the kitchen
Pool or no pool
Style of home
Whether you want to be in the country or the city
Your budget, and this one is extremely important!
And, you’ll also want to create a list of things that you want to stay away from, such as if you don’t want a place with a pool, a home with a lot of yard maintenance, a home that is a fixer upper, and so on.
By having this wish list on hand, you’ll know exactly what you should be looking at, and what you should avoid.
Research all of the expenses.
Like you just read, the listing price of a home is not all that you should look at.
When you find a home that you think is right for you, you need to make sure that you can afford all of the costs that come with that home.
Just because you can pay the monthly mortgage payment doesn’t mean that you can afford everything else that goes with it. There are ongoing costs when buying a house, which is something that many homebuyers forget about.
In fact, U.S. homeowners, on average, spend more than $9,400 per year in hidden homeownership costs, and maintenance expenses cost homeowners an average of $6,300 per year in unavoidable hidden costs, according to MarketWatch. These include things like homeowners insurance, property taxes, and utilities. So, this is one of the best home buying tips to help you stay out of a bad financial situation.
Before making a home purchase, you should think about how much the home will cost you in the long run. There are many ways to think of this, such as:
Property taxes. These vary widely from town to town. You may find yourself looking at two similar houses with similar price tags, but the property taxes may vary by thousands of dollars annually. That is a LOT of money. While it may seem small when compared to the actual home purchase price, remember that you have to pay property taxes annually, and a difference of just $3,600 a year is $300 a month.
Gas. Many homes use gas to run the hot water heater, the stove, and so on.
Electricity. Generally, the bigger your home, the higher your electricity bill.
Sewer. This isn’t super expensive, but it is generally around $30-$50 a month.
Trash. This isn’t super expensive either, but it does cost money.
Water (and possibly irrigation). Depending on how you use water and where you live, water bills can vary widely. I know many who live in areas where the average water bill is a few hundred dollars each month.
Home insurance. Home insurance can be cheap in some areas but crazy expensive in others. Don’t forget to look into the cost of earthquake, flood, and hurricane insurance, and know that it can add up quickly depending on where you live.
Maintenance and repairs. No matter how old your home is (even brand new homes), repair and maintenance costs will eventually come into play. In fact, U.S. homeowners pay an average of $3,435 per year in annual optional costs, including house cleaning, yard care, gutter cleaning, carpet cleaning, and pressure washing. But, don’t forget about things like needing a new roof or other repairs that may come up! Those are big expenses that you will need to be able to save up for.
Homeowners association fees. This can also vary widely. You should always see if the house you are interested in is part of an HOA. Often, the fees are high and involve rules you may not like.
Home furnishings. Furnishing your home can be done cheaply, but I know some who buy huge homes and can’t afford to put anything in them, such as a table, a bed, and so on. Why own a $500,000 house if you don’t have any furniture?
Always remember to add up the total cost when deciding to buy a house!
Estimate how long you will live in the area.
This is one of the home buying tips you might not think of because you are so anxious to be moving. How could you possibly think about moving again already?!
One of the best tips before buying a house is to think about how long you will live there.
Here’s why this is important to think about – it usually takes around five years to recoup the costs you paid to purchase a house. If you only live in a house for one or two years, then you may lose money on closing costs, due to the volatility of the real estate market, and more. Plus, it usually takes some time and legwork to buy a house, so you may not want to do it again so soon.
This is why you’ll want to think about how long you’ll be living in the area before you purchase your home.
You’ll want to make sure that the house will be suitable for you for at least five years, so you’ll want to think about things such as:
Are you happy with the area?
How are the schools?
Is the house big enough if you plan on starting a family?
Do you plan on working in the area for at least 5 years?
And so on.
You really need to think about your future when deciding to buy a house.
Don’t feel rushed.
“How long should you give yourself to buy a house?”
This is one of the home buying tips that is hard during a seller’s market, which is what’s happening in many areas right now. Knowing that homes are selling very quickly, you may feel rushed to find a house and put an offer in.
It’s also tempting to jump on a house the minute you find something you like, but if the purchase can wait 24 hours, then you may want to delay it. This will allow you more time to think about the purchase, go over your budget again, let any butterflies you have about the home purchase go away, and so on.
You will be able to make a much more rational decision if you think about your decision for at least 24 hours.
Plus, for all you know, you may even realize that you don’t want the house at all!
Do you really need or want that home?
“How do you make sure you get the house you want?”
Finally, the last of my home buying tips is to think about whether or not you actually need the house you are about to buy. It sounds easy enough, but many people do not even think about asking this question. When in fact, it is one of the most important questions to ask when buying a house (or any large purchase for that matter).
Really dig deep and ask yourself this simple question. Sure, you might think you want the house, but have you also been able to spend time thinking about the rest of my tips?
Do you know the full cost of the house? Are you okay spending that much? Does the house have everything you need?
Purchasing a home is a huge investment, and it deserves a lot of time and thought for you to make the best decision.
Have you bought a home recently? What other home buying tips should people think about?
Today, I have a great debt payoff story. I’ve known Lauren for years – pretty much ever since I started Making Sense of Cents years ago! She was one of the first blogs I read actually.
Lauren Mochizuki is an ER nurse, wife, and mother. She and her husband paid off $266,329.01 in 33 months. They also purchased their fixer-upper dream home, and renovated it without going into debt. Enjoy her story below!
The Background
Female, age 25, nurse, recently married, living her life with no regard to finances. Frequently dines out, goes to concerts, travels to foreign countries, never volunteers to work any extra shifts, lives beyond her means. Purchased a brand new Subaru Forester, husband also purchased a brand new car, lives in an 1,100 square foot condo.
Total debt owed: $266,329.01.
My Story
My name is Lauren, I’m a registered nurse, wife, mother, blogger at www.casamochi.com, and firm believer that you can live an amazing life within your means! I didn’t have a clue what budgeting actually meant.
When my husband first brought up the idea of budgeting, I was incredibly resistant. I thought that budgets were boring, restrictive, and I didn’t want to compromise my spending habits. I couldn’t have been more wrong about my ideas surrounding budgeting.
Looking back eight years ago, I realized that change is difficult, but the outcome was worthwhile. We are now debt free!
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Inspiration to Become Debt-Free
Eight years ago, we had some friends that were doing radical things to become debt free. We thought they had lost their minds. They were working lots of overtime, and paying down their debt. At the time, it sounded very extreme, and obscure.
Then one day, after reading Dave Ramsey’s “Total Money Makeover” and having a long discussion with our aspiring debt-free friends, he said “I want us to become totally debt-free too.”
I was ready to give my husband a swift karate chop when I heard that. It never occurred to me that we had money problems. Our bills were being paid on time, we put aside some money in savings, but most of all, we were having so much fun with our money!
Our debt breakdown was:
Credit card bills: $1,871.31,
The balance owed for two new cars: $31,211.10,
Mortgage balance for our condo: $233,346.60.
Total Debt $266,329.01.
Figuring out my “Why”
My husband kept pitching the idea of “Financial Freedom” to me, and that sounded pretty amazing, and at the same time daunting. I wanted to support my husband, and if becoming debt-free was something that was important to him, and in reality important for US, then I decided that I should give it a try.
I went from 0-60 very quickly. I not only took on this journey of debt-freedom; I lived it, breathed it, and became incredibly passionate about it. I also read “Total Money Makeover”, which fired me up even more. It was an easy read, for a “free-spirit” like me.
Accountability Partner
My husband and I became budget accountability partners. He is the President of the Budget, and I’m the Vice-President.
Together, we make decisions about how our money is spent, our work schedules, family schedules, and our future. Having an accountability partner is something that is helpful for being successful on a budget. Whether it’s a friend, sibling, or coworker, find someone you trust, and respect, and most importantly hold you accountable for your decisions.
Establishing our Monthly “Budget” Meeting
At the end of each month, my husband and I decide how we are going to spend our money for the following month. We call it our monthly budget meeting.
For example, if we made $5,000 one month, we would assign each dollar to a budget category (examples: utilities, mortgage, toiletries, work expenses, groceries, savings, etc.) for the following month.
I am the social events planner for our family. During our budget meetings, I always have our monthly calendar open. This step is key to having a successful budget meeting. We check the following month events for birthdays, showers, events, or weddings so that we can budget appropriately. This helps to avoid any budget surprises.
We would also plan out all of the extra shifts we would be working during this time to cover these expenses.
It took us nearly 6 months to really get the hang of budgeting and tackling any issues that would arise. It felt like the first several months, we kept discovering new budget categories that needed to be added.
We also started planning for big expenses all year long such as: yearly memberships, property taxes, car and house insurance. We were also mindful of bills where a discount was given for yearly payments instead of monthly payments.
Special holidays such as Christmas, is a budget category that we allocate money to all year long. This allows us the freedom to enjoy the holiday without wondering how we are going to pay for it.
Establish Rainy Day Savings
Unexpected costs had occurred, and we weren’t prepared. Thankfully we had some money saved, but we realized it wasn’t easily accessible if we needed it for an emergency!
We quickly transferred that money into a different account (from a whole life insurance plan into a regular savings account) where it could be readily available to us. It’s a good idea to have 3-6 months in your emergency fund.
Reducing our Expenses
After reviewing our monthly mortgage payment, we decided to refinance. We changed our mortgage from a 30-year-fixed mortgage to a 20-year-fixed mortgage. This single-handedly saved us thousands of dollars in interest.
Next, we checked every single utility bill and figured out how to bring down the monthly costs. We were very successful with this process, by shopping around for utility providers, to decreasing our consumer habits (figuring out ways to use less water, electricity, etc), we managed to decrease most of our monthly utility bills.
Two other areas we changed to save additional money: meal planning and thorough review for big purchases. I started weekly meal planning, and I try to only grocery shop on a full stomach. Don’t allow yourself to waste food and money if there isn’t a specific meal plan in place.
If there were big purchases that my husband and I would want to make that were over $50, we would have a conversation with each other, and sleep on it. If we still wanted the item after a few days, and if there was money in the budget, then the purchase was justified.
We inadvertently had lots of no spend weekends. A really frugal, and fun weekend for us would include time spent with friends and family at the beach. Bonfire, barbeque or dutch oven meals would help reduce weekend spending, and they were delicious (my favorite are the dutch oven nachos)! A major discovery in this whole process was that time is one of our most precious assets, and spending time with others is priceless, and doesn’t require additional money.
Increasing our Income
In order to achieve our goal, we HAD to increase our income.
We were both incredibly thankful to have the opportunity to work extra shifts at our jobs. I acquired a second job as an emergency room nurse, and my husband and I worked as if our lives, our future, and dreams depended on it.
I’m talking: multiple 16 hour shifts a week for myself, and 60-120 hour work weeks for both myself and my husband (we were intentional to make sure that our mental and physical states were not in jeopardy). We were on fire for this “financial freedom” that we were working towards. As Ramsey would say, we were “gazelle intense.”
We attended money conferences (we saw Dave Ramsey speak several times), listened to financial podcasts (You Need a Budget), and read blogs (Making Sense of Cents, Mr. Money Mustache), and books (The Millionaire Next Door, Start, The Go-Getter) that would encourage, and inspire us to keep working towards a debt-free life.
Selling items also became a means to make more money. We had garage sales, and sold things on eBay, and craigslist. We wanted to be good stewards of our resources, and therefore sold items we no longer needed. For several months, we were living off of 30% of our household income.
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The Visual Aid and Celebrating Milestones
My husband and my mother-in-law pulled their creative resources together, and created a visual aid! It was a picture made of felt material, of a mound of dirt, broken into many pieces that sat beneath the ground and a beach scene (our happy place).
We kept the visual aid in our bedroom. It would be one of the first things I saw every morning when I woke up, and one of the last things I saw before I went to sleep. It was a great reminder of our debt-free journey.
My husband and I created many different milestones to celebrate along our journey.
We celebrated every time we paid off $5,000, and we would remove a piece of dirt from our visual aid.
We printed out our mortgage amortization schedule, and celebrated every time we turned a page in our mortgage amortization schedule, and every time we saved another $5,000 of interest on our mortgage.
When the principal became greater than our interest on our mortgage payments, we celebrated. It felt like we were constantly achieving a different victory!
Every month after a budget meeting, my husband and I would take a picture with our visual aid, we would write down the month, and if we celebrated any milestones that month!
Our “celebrations” would include apple cider or champagne toasts, making a nice dinner at home, or simply reflecting on our goals accomplished that month.
After thirty three months, when we finished paying off all of our debt, I put all of the pictures together and made them into a photo album for my husband! It’s so rewarding to look back and reflect on all the sacrifices, and all that we accomplished together! I still get teary-eyed when I look at it, and enjoy sharing this book with our children.
This journey was one of the most challenging, and meaningful things we have ever done together.
Keep your eyes on the prize
Don’t play the comparison game. I was the most successful when I kept my focus on our own progress. It was very distracting when I looked around at what everyone else was doing. I kept reminding myself that I didn’t want to be like everyone else, I wanted to be debt-free!
This whole process was difficult, challenging, life changing, and incredibly rewarding! There were times when I felt like giving up, and just burnt out. When I felt like giving up, my husband would continue to encourage me to keep going. He reminded me what we were working towards, and that we were positively changing our financial trajectory forever.
Work Hard, and Stay the Course
Thirty-three months can seem like an eternity when you are in the thick of it. If you are living radically, any time spent during this season can seem like a long time.
We had a few months where life’s challenges happened, and things would get in the way of our goals. We didn’t let that deter us, instead, it gave us more motivation to continue on.
After a laborious thirty-three months, we became totally debt-free! We were also expecting our first child. I still remember the day we went to the bank to pay our final mortgage payment, and the day we called in to the Dave Ramsey radio show and did our “debt-free” scream.
One year later, we purchased our fixer-upper dream home in Orange County, California. We paid half of the total price of the home as our down payment. Three years after that, we completely renovated the home without going into debt. We have a mortgage now, but it is very reasonable, and it’s the only debt that we have. I no longer have to work full-time, but work per diem as a nurse, and my husband rarely picks up any overtime shifts.
We now enjoy spending lots of time together as a family.
Plant Seeds of Joy and Generosity
Maya Angelou once said “When we give cheerfully, and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.”
I would highly encourage being generous with your resources because it’s good for the soul, whether it’s writing someone a kind note, buying someone’s coffee behind you, or giving to a non-profit organization or church.
During our entire debt-free journey, we donated 10% of our income, and it was always the first thing we budgeted. This may not be for everyone, but we discovered that there is lots of joy to be had when things are given from a grateful heart.
We were first inspired to become debt free because of our friend’s story. We now share our story in the hopes of inspiring others, and that it is possible if you are willing to work for it. The timeframe for becoming debt-free might be long, and difficult, but it will definitely be worth it.
If you are thinking of becoming debt-free, find your passion, and don’t let anything stop you! As Colin Powell once said “A dream doesn’t become reality through magic; it takes sweat, determination, and hard work.” You can do this!
Author bio: Lauren Mochizuki is an ER nurse, wife, and mother. She and her husband paid off $266,329.01 in 33 months. They also purchased their fixer-upper dream home, and renovated it without going into debt. On her blog www.casamochi.com, she is sharing her home renovation story, encouraging others to become debt-free, and that one can live a great life while being on a budget.
When you first enter the workforce you have many decisions to make in regards to how you will fund your retirement years.
After years of earning an income, soon-to-be retirees also have some major decisions to make regarding how their retirement funds will be distributed once they are no longer in the workforce.
For individuals who have a pension plan in place, the decision of how they will take their pension is an important one with significant consequences.
Lately, I have met with several clients who are faced with a very important question,
“Should I roll my pension into an IRA or take the lifetime payments?”
See, pension plans can be distributed in one of two ways;
Through regular installment payments received throughout your retirement years or
Through one lump sum payment (which can be rolled into an IRA)
There are benefits and drawbacks to each option, therefore it is important to weigh each option carefully before making your final decision. Here we evaluate the pros and cons whether you should or should not take the lump sum option on your pension.
Control of the Pension Distribution
One of the potential benefits of opting for the lump sum is the additional control you have over pension funds. This can be beneficial in that most pension plans do not account for inflation when establishing what your monthly annuity payment will be in the years to come. When you choose the lump sum option, you have control over your pension funds and can invest them as you see fit, which can result in additional growth throughout your retirement years.
Control is the largest driving force that have led to most of my clients choosing to roll their pension money over. Most recently, I had a client that said, “I’ve worked for the company 31 years on their terms, now I want to take my money on mine.” Could not have said it better myself.
When you roll it over, you decide when you want your money on your terms. If you want a little extra to spoil your grand-kids on a trip to Disney World, you have the power to do it.
Having control does come with its risks.
You have to be careful to not go on a spending spree and run the risk of spending down your retirement too soon. By choosing the annuity method, you have a guaranteed paycheck for the rest of your life and possibly your spouse if your pension plan allows for it. For some that have a harder time managing money, not being able to have access to the principal may be a good thing.
I have had cases where the client opted to take the lump sum option thinking they could control their spending. Alas, they could not and blew through their entire savings in a short amount of time. Now they have little savings and only Social Security to depend on during retirement.
Security of the Pension
Choosing to get your pension in one lump sum payment, eliminates the security of receiving a monthly check for the remainder of your life, however you do know exactly how much money you are getting. Consider for example, if the company funding your pension annuity payments finds themselves in financial trouble, this may result in problems with your pension payments. There is a Federal agency; the Pension Benefit Guaranty Corp) that may make up for companies that file for bankruptcy, however there are limits to how much money you will receive.
As of 2009, the PBGC has insured pensions up to $54,000 for those that retire at the age of 65. If you’re pension is for more than that and your company goes bankrupt, you might be regretting that you hadn’t taken the lump sum.
As I mentioned above, security of having all your money up front can be reassuring, but; if you mismanage it, you can go through it quickly leaving you with no security in retirement. It’s important to do a self assessment of yourself and your spending habits to make sure you don’t make this mistake.
Estate planning: Don’t Forget the Kids
Annuity payments will cease once you and your spouse have departed. By choosing to receive your pension in a lump sum payment, you can plan your estate to include beneficiaries of retirement funds that are unused during the lifetime of you or your spouse.
In essence that means that if you unexpectedly passed away and your spouse wasn’t too far behind you, all the money that you had paid into your pension goes back to the company.
Another Example of When You Don’t Take the Lump Sum
As mentioned in the first point, it can be attractive to have control of your money when you want it. I had a client meeting years ago that with a gentleman who was a state employee. He was nearing retirement, but still had a few years left. In an effort to entice some of the employees to retire early, the state was offering early buyouts to those that would retire immediately. In his case, the offer was in the neighborhood of $180,000.
At the time, he was dealing with credit card debt and some medical bills, so the offer was enticing. I reminded him that he takes the check, that he would be giving up his guaranteed paycheck in retirement. If he worked just a few more years till age 55, he and his wife were guaranteed around $2,500 per month with the pension. Just a quick calculation using simple interest revealed that in about 6 more years would be the break even point for taking the monthly payments.
Otherwise stated, that after 6 years, he was in far better shape taking the lifetime annuity payment for he and his wife. No question. In this case, taking the lump sum was not the right decision.
Should You Choose the Lump Sum?
The decision as to how you will receive your pension is one that should not be taken lightly. There are several factors to consider and the decision you make today will outline your quality of life for your remaining years. The benefits listed here could also be considered drawbacks if handled incorrectly, therefore be certain you are capable of managing your lump sum payment to ensure you will have financial security in the years to come.
If you feel you cannot properly manage your funds or simply don’t want the hassle of dealing with investments and long term planning, annuity payments might be the better option for you and your family. What is beneficial to one family may not be perceived the same for another, so make sure your decision is based on your unique situation and future needs. If you’re still not sure, be sure to meet with a qualified financial planner to asses your needs and see what direction is best for you.
It seems contradictory, but I love being frugal and I also love spending money. Over the last few years, however, my love of frugality has outweighed my love of spending — and it’s been good for my savings.
Yes, it’s OK to spend money sometimes. If you have it, and you’re comfortable with your present and future finances, by all means, spend away. But a lot of us, including myself, spend when we shouldn’t spend. It’s to be expected, I think, in our consumer culture. I can’t walk down my block without being sold something every minute or so, from billboards to petitioners to window sales.
Anyway, a couple of readers requested an article on how to avoid spending sprees. It’s something I’ve been thinking about lately anyway, so this was a great reason to give the subject more thought and put something together.
Identify the Root of Your Spending
We’ll start with the heavy stuff first because I think it helps put the practical tips into perspective. I recently read Lost and Found by Geenen Roth. Roth and her husband lost their savings in the Bernie Madoff scandal, but her book is mostly about her emotional issues with money. In one chapter, Roth describes an obsession with a pair of chic but expensive eyeglasses she desperately wanted to buy. The obsession is symbolic of her relationship with consumption. In an interview with Time, she explains:
“In the same way that we use food for emotional reasons, we use buying things to fill something that we can’t quite name.”
Roth adds that this can lead to “binge-shopping.” This hit home for me, because I used to spend emotionally, especially when I was younger. Learning to let go of my emotional attachments with spending helped me to avoid these binges.
For Roth, Stuff represented love. For me, Stuff represented acceptance. I recall one binge spree in college particularly well because I was making $10 an hour, and I skipped class to buy a bunch of clothes. This is so insensible, I remember thinking, and it was the first time I realized shopping was emotionally symbolic for me. I felt like, if I got a whole new wardrobe, I might be a different and better person. I’d be more self-assured, less neurotic. (It didn’t work.)
A friend recently told me about her own emotional spending. Like Roth, she equated it to love. “So I learned to love myself differently,” she said. Similarly, during one Christmas shopping spree that set me back quite a bit, I realized I also enjoy buying things for other people to let them know I care. I’ve learned to let them know in other ways.
Again, it’s OK to spend. I had a spendy weekend recently, and while it was a little out of control, I don’t think I was trying to fill a void. I was just having fun. It set my savings back a bit, but it wasn’t totally insensible — I didn’t skip any life duties to go shopping; I didn’t charge anything. And Holly recently discussed spending a lot during her vacation. I didn’t feel like she was trying to fill a void either — she was just enjoying her trip.
I think those instances are different from binge-shopping. To continue Holly’s booze metaphor, those instances are like having one too many beers when you’re out with an old friend. Binge-shopping is like drinking for the sole purpose of getting shit-faced to forget your problems.
Of course, for some people, it’s not that complicated — they just like to buy things. But if shopping has become an uncontrollable issue, it might be because it’s filling some emotional void. Identifying the root of your spending can help curb it.
‘Power Shop’
It seems unlikely now, but my dad used to have a spending problem. He got over it, so I thought I’d ask him how. “I power-shopped,” he said, meaning he’d walk around Best Buy, fill his basket up with Stuff and then put it all back. It seems kind of crazy, but it helped him let go of his desire to consume everything.
Reader Erica does the same thing. In her comment, she wrote:
“I find if I walk around with something in my hand in the store, after a while, I’m over it and I can put it back.”
I guess the idea is that, after “owning” something, you realize the product isn’t going to significantly change your life. It loses any appeal and meaning you might have attached to it. You realize it’s just a thing.
Erica did say this doesn’t always work, though, and my dad warned that it takes a lot of discipline. I imagine it can backfire if you’re good at arguing with yourself.
Focus on Your Goals
This is another thing that worked for my dad, and it also worked for me. Instead of focusing on the things I didn’t have, I focused on my financial goals. I checked my budget daily, read personal finance and frugal living blogs, monitored my goals and watched my net worth rise. The more focused I’ve become with my financial independence, the less obsessed I am with shopping. Yes, I still want things. But I don’t give in as much because giving in gets in the way of my goals.
Wait
Because emotional shopping is usually impulsive, waiting helps you decide whether you really want something or you’re just spending to spend. “I’ve gotten to a point of waiting a week or a month or a year,” my dad told me. “And if I still want or think I need it, then so be it, I will get it. But, usually, it turns out that the impulsive thought has passed.”
Avoid Shopping With Spend-Happy Friends
I have a friend whom I used to love shopping with. Why? Because he always bought something. This made me feel better about my own spending. If I’m wavering, and I see my friend buying something, I don’t know why, but I’m more apt to give in.
Avoid Stores
Especially when I feel vulnerable, I just avoid certain stores. Lots of stores trigger my emotional spending and make me feel like I need to own half of their inventory. It makes sense; companies spend a lot of money and put a lot of effort into appealing to our vulnerabilities.
Take a Field rip Without Your Wallet
This seems contradictory to the previous tip, but it helped me learn to appreciate things without the need to own them. Visit your favorite store without any money. For me, this squelched instant gratification. Without money or credit cards, you have no way to consume, and you’re forced to just accept products for what they are. This helped me appreciate the aesthetic or usefulness of something without forcing myself into the equation. So instead of representing anything significant, the thing is only a thing. It might be beautiful, it might be cool, but that’s all it is.
Another interesting thing about visiting your favorite store without money is that you also become aware of all of the subtle tricks that convince shoppers to spend — the clever advertising, the strategic store layout, the proportionate mannequins — and hopefully, you’ll remember these subtle tricks during a future temptation.
Make a List of Things You Already Have
It sounds a little obsessive, but to curb my temptation, I used to keep a list on my phone of all of the Stuff I’ve spent money on in the past year. While shopping, I’d get that little voice in my head telling me: Hey!You reeeally don’t need this.
It’s easy to ignore that voice. Something tangible, like a list, is harder to ignore.
Also, if there’s something I want, a list helps me compare it to what I already have. I ask myself, “What is it about this new thing that I like?” Usually, I already own something that possesses those qualities.
Just Stop
It’s easier said than done, I know. But when I’m particularly fed up with my desire for Stuff, I just stop. I think about things in perspective. Overspending — what a problem to have! I think about my mom’s awful stories of growing up in poverty. I think about how spoiled overspending must sound to someone who’s really struggling. And I just don’t do it. Guilt probably isn’t the best tool; but instead of the guilt, if you focus on the abundance you already have, whether it’s family, friends, independence, whatever, it can help stop the urge to spend.
I’ve gotten better, but I still have setbacks. When I’m overwhelmed with work and nothing seems to be going my way, I’m especially susceptible to “retail therapy.” And, again, it’s not bad to want things. But when it gets in the way of your well-being, financial independence or life goals, it’s a nasty problem.
Over the past few months, I’ve occasionally used the “Ask the Readers” feature at Get Rich Slowly to poll people about their budgets and spending habits. So far, I’ve asked folks to share their spending on food, clothes, gifts, and health insurance. Now I want to look at a bigger item in your budget — probably the biggest. Let’s talk about how much you spend on housing.
More than other expenses, your housing costs are influenced by where you live. Some parts of the country — and some parts of the world — are much cheaper to buy a home or to rent an apartment. It’s cheaper to live in Boise, Idaho, for instance, than to live in New York City. Generally, however, there are reasons for these price disparities. Most people are willing to pay more to live in New York than in Boise, and that drives prices higher. It’s a trade-off.
I’m a firm believer in the Balanced Money Formula, which says that if you pay too much for housing, you’ll have less to spend on other wants and needs, and you’ll always feel pinched, as if you can’t afford anything. On the other hand, if you limit your housing expense to below 25% of your take-home pay, you should have lots of breathing room.
For my own part, I pay a little more than I ought to for housing. After a few years of spending $0 per month (because we paid off the mortgage after selling the blog), I’m now paying $950 for my apartment in Portland. That’s 36% of my take-home pay, and a fine example of not practicing what I preach. But I’m able to get away with this because:
I’m still saving more than 20% of my income.
I have ample emergency savings.
The rest of my spending on needs is low.
My spending on wants is extremely low, and my relatively high housing expense doesn’t make me feel pinched.
As I mentioned before, this $950/month figure seemed high to me until I started comparing notes with other Portland renters. Yes, there are places that cost less, but they all involve compromises I’m unwilling to make right now. (The biggest compromise? Location. I want to be able to walk almost everywhere, and I can do that from this apartment. That’ll help me save money on auto expenses, which balances things a little.)
What about you? Where do you live and how much do you pay on housing? What percentage of your budget does this represent? Does your housing payment cramp other parts of your life? Or have you intentionally kept it low so that you can afford to spend on other things? If you were to start over again from scratch, what sorts of housing choices would you make? Would you rent? Would you buy? Would you move to another part of the country (or the world)?
Reminder: I’m not one of those who believes that buying a home is always best. Nor do I believe that renting is always best. Either can be a fine choice, but you have to be clear on your financial goals and you have to take into account your local real-estate market. To help make an informed choice, use something like the New York Times rent or buy calculator. In my case, I opted to rent.
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Okay, you are reading this because you are overwhelmed with the fact that your kids have everything (or the kids you want to buy gifts for).
That is a tough situation to be in.
In today’s society, kids are quick to get anything and everything they want. There are a million different reasons for that. But, that is the reality our society lives in. In fact, research proves overindulged kids may experience lifelong consequences.
So, what do you get for kids who have everything?
You have to really search and put some thought into finding an awesome gift – even better a gift that is not a toy.
Maybe it is the year to consider a no gift Christmas?
Kids who have everything may seem like they have it all, but there are still gifts that will surprise and delight them.
Let’s dig into these cool gifts for kids who have everything.
What do you get a kid who has everything?
You need an off-the-wall gift that is out of this world.
In order to hit a grand slam, you must really know the kid you are purchasing a gift for.
And honestly, most of the best gifts are gifts of time – specifically experience gift ideas.
What to get a kid that’s not a toy?
If you are looking for non-toy gift ideas for kids, there are many options to choose from. You need to turn your mind off the traditional gift giving and think outside the box.
Great ideas include anything personalized, educational classes, sports gear, or experiences like ziplining.
Whatever you choose, the important thing is that it is something the child will enjoy and cherish.
Lifesaver Ideas to Turn To – The 4 Gift Rule
The 4 Gift Rule is a guideline to help you find the perfect gift for someone. It suggests that you should give something that the person needs, wants, or may not have already. Since we have determined that “something they want” is already taken care of, here are the other 3 gift rules to consider.
Something they need: Think about school, sports, and activities – what is it that they need? Do they play baseball and outgrown their catcher’s gear? Interested in robotics, but don’t have the computer subscriptions to keep learning? There are many unique options available as this is personalized to them.
Something to wear: Even if your child has a closet full of clothes, there are always new fashion trends and styles that come out each season. They may also need new shoes or accessories to go with their outfits.
Something to read: Books make great gifts for kids of all ages. If your child is into sports, you can get them a biography of their favorite player. If they’re into history, look for a book about a topic they’re interested in. Right now, graphic novels are the big hit!
Whether you’re looking for a unique gift for a loved one, or need some helpful ideas for yourself, check out some of these amazing options.
Need Creative Gifts?
Here are the best places to find creative gifts.
If you’re looking for creative gifts, turn to Etsy! It offers a wide selection of handmade and vintage items that will surely provide hours of fun.
Need something quick, check out these Amazon gift guides.
Unique Gift Ideas for Kids and teens – Specifically Gifts for Kids who Have Everything
Everyone loves gifts, and kids are no exception.
However, when you are on the hunt for cool presents to buy your child that they won’t get tired of playing with or using over and over again, you may find yourself coming up short.
This is where we come in!
We have compiled a list of 35 cool gifts for kids who already have everything or are just too young to know what they want.
These gifts are sure to make your shopping experience a breeze and will keep you from having to hear the dreaded question, “What do I get them?”
Subscription
One option for a kid who seems to have everything is to get a subscription to their favorite magazine or TV show. This will keep them entertained and give them something new to look forward to each month or week.
Great options include Amazon kids or Kindle Unlimited.
Subscription Boxes
There are so many reasons why subscription boxes are so much fun. They are a way to try out new things without committing to anything. Plus, they come with a lot of great discounts.
You can also find boxes that are perfect for specific interests.
Kitchen Science Kit
The Kitchen Science Kit is a great gift for kids who love to know how things work and want to learn more. It comes with plenty of pieces that your child needs to start testing their experiments. This kit will help your child learn life skills like patience, organization, and creativity.
Coding Games
There are many great coding games that make excellent gifts for kids who have everything.
One option is the Bitsbox coding subscription box, which is designed for kids ages 6-12 and provides them with a variety of STEM education activities.
Another option is the Booleen Box, which is a computer building game that is perfect for kids who are interested in technology and engineering.
Both of these games are great ways to get kids interested in coding and help them develop important skills for the future.
Time Capsule
Time Capsules are a great way to preserve your memories and experiences. You can store anything in a time capsule, such as photos, articles, and notes.
The recipient can open the capsule in the future and experience the memories stored inside. Get your time capsule container!
Spa Day Kit
If you are looking for a unique and thoughtful gift for a child in your life, look no further than the Spa Day Kit. This kit includes everything a child needs for fun and relaxing spa day, including a bath bomb, nail polish, and hair treatment. The easy-to-use instructions make it perfect for kids of all ages, and the kit makes a great gift for moms on any occasion.
Scientific Explorer – My First Mind Blowing Science Kit
The Scientific Explorer My First Mind Blowing Science Kit is perfect for kids who are just starting to learn about the scientific method. This kit comes with a lot of different materials that help kids learn about science. It’s a great way for kids to learn about science and see how it works.
Customized Journal
Customized journals are a great way to show your personality and interests. You can choose the cover, the paper, and the layout of your journal. You can also add your own photos and drawings.
This will be something special that the child can use to document their thoughts and experiences. Pick your design on the customized journal here.
Customized Planner
There are a lot of different things that you can get a kid that doesn’t want toys. One idea is to give them a customized planner.
This will help them stay organized and be able to keep track of their school work, extracurricular activities, and social events. Design your customized planner here.
Lego Chain Reactions Kit
This is a great gift for kids who like to build and experiment. The portable craft studio is easy to carry and organized by item type and color group.
If your kids seem like they have outgrown Legos, check out Gravitrax! Hours of wonder and fun for preteens and teens!
ABC Mouse
The ABC Mouse is a great gift for kids of all ages.
It features age-appropriate games and activities, as well as family-friendly shows that kids can watch. You’ll have peace of mind knowing that your kids are engaged with awesome content when you give them the ABC Mouse.
Customized Jewelry
One option for a unique gift for a kid who has everything is customized jewelry. You can find stores that will let you personalize items like necklaces, bracelets, and earrings with the child’s name or initials. This makes the gift special and something they can treasure for years to come.
Amazon Glow
Amazon Glow is an interactive entertainment and video-calling system designed for children. A great way to keep in touch with grandparents.
It has a huge 19″ touchscreen that let’s kids be kids, and an interactive video call on a tablet or smartphone. Amazon Glow is designed for children to learn and play with each other, making it the perfect gift for your tech-savvy kid.
The service requires an Amazon Kids+ subscription, which automatically renews every month. For just $4.99 per month, you can give your child access to a wide variety of toys that they are sure to love.
Craft Supplies
When you give someone a craft supplies as a gift, you are giving them the opportunity to create something special. This could be anything from a new piece of jewelry to a painting.
Craft supplies are also a great way to show your appreciation for someone.
Gift Basket
Kids love to get gifts, but it can be hard to come up with something unique and special. If you’re looking for a gift that your child will love, you should consider building a gift basket.
This is a great way to combine different types of gifts, and it’s a fun way to spend some time together.
For example, my daughter got a princess-themed gift basket when she was little.
Non-toy gift idea for kids: Experiences
Experiences make great gifts for kids because they can be educational, fun, and memorable.
Some great ideas for experiences to give as gifts include museum visits, sporting events, Broadway shows, dinner at a fancy restaurant, science exhibits, art exhibits, theme parks, comedy clubs, acting classes, and dance classes.
Master Classes
Master Classes are a great way for kids to learn from the masters.
They provide a unique experience that can help kids learn about anything (almost). Master Classes can be a great gift for kids because they can help them learn new things and improve their skills.
I remember and treasure all of the master classes I took growing up.
Spa Experience for Kids
One way to give the gift of a spa day to kids is to buy some bath bombs, nail polish, and hair treatments. Another way is to set up a little home spa kit.
Finally, you can spend some quality time together and have fun!
Grab all of your spa experience supplies here.
Tickets to a favorite play or concert
One option is to get tickets to the child’s favorite play or concert.
This will give them an experience they will enjoy and remember for a long time.
Every time Imagine Dragons come to our city, I always hear the kids practicing their lyrics.
Tickets to Sporting Events
There are a lot of great sporting events happening throughout the year that your kid would love to attend.
Whether it’s a professional game or a college game, sporting events make for great memories. And tickets aren’t as expensive as you might think!
Head to the Theatre for a Broadway Show
Do you have a family member or friend who loves to go to the theatre?
Perhaps they’ve seen a show before and are always looking for something new to see. Head to the theatre for a Broadway show!
Broadway shows are often full of excitement and suspense. Your loved one will have a memorable time and you’ll get to go out with them!
A day of sleeping in
One idea is to give the child a day of sleeping in especially popular with middle schoolers and high schoolers.
This can be a great gift for kids who seem to have everything and are always on the go. It can also be a chance for parents to spend some time alone or with other siblings.
A day at a zoo
One idea is to give the child a day at the zoo. This can be an all-day experience or simply a visit to see the animals.
It can be fun and educational, and it’s something different that the child may not have done before.
Game Night
Kids love the game night! It’s a great way to bond with friends, have some fun, and learn new things. There is a lot of fun non-toy gifts you can give your kids for a game night that will make it even more enjoyable. Here are a few ideas to get you started:
Set up a board game or card game in your home and let the kids play with you.
If your child is a competitive type, give him or her an incentive to win by offering a small prize for the winner of each game. This will make the game night more exciting.
If you are playing a card game, make sure to have plenty of snacks and drinks on hand in case anyone gets thirsty or hungry while playing the game.
Check out the latest games on the market!
A day of cooking with a celebrity chef
One unique gift you could give to a kid who has everything is a day of cooking with a celebrity chef. The child will get to learn how to cook their favorite dishes from the best in the business, and they will get to eat their creations afterward.
Great for the aspiring chef!
Theme Park Excursion
If you’re looking for a unique gift for a kid who has everything, why not take them on a day trip to a theme park?
A day at a theme park could be a great non-toy gift idea for kids. Kids would love the chance to go on rides, explore the park, and enjoy the company of their friends. .
They’ll get to experience all the fun and excitement of a theme park while spending time with you (and their friends).
Splash at a water park
A day at the water park can be a great gift for kids who have everything. They will enjoy hours of fun in the sun and get to cool off in the water.
Plus, they will be able to play with their friends and make some new ones. Maybe even consider a season pass?
Flight Lessons
If you’re looking for a unique and cool gift for a kid who has everything, how about flying lessons?
There are many different programs that offer this experience, and it is sure to be something the child will never forget. They will get to fly in the cockpit of a private jet or airliner, and may even have the opportunity to take the controls!
They may even make a career choice out of this gift.
A day with a celebrity
Could you imagine if this kid got a chance to hang out with Dude Perfect or Ninja Kidz all day?!?!
They would be on cloud nine.
That would be one unique and cool gift for kids who have everything.
Course at a local college
One idea is to give the child a day of learning by taking him or her to a local college for a course of their choice.
This will allow the child to explore new interests and learn something new in a fun and stimulating environment.
There are plenty of classes to choose from.
Kid’s Choice Dinner
One great gift idea for kids is to give them a Visa Gift card. This way, they can “pay for dinner” and have a fun experience doing it.
Also, you could also give them a gift card to a grocery store so they can cook their own dinner. This would be especially beneficial if you teach them how to cook their own dinner as well.
A day of doing nothing
When it comes to finding a unique and interesting gift for a kid who has everything, sometimes the best option is to give them nothing at all.
A day of doing nothing can be just what they need to relax and enjoy their birthday or special occasion.
Can adults have this one too, please?!
Dinner at a Fancy Restaurant
A dinner at a fancy restaurant can be a great gift for kids.
Kids will love the experience of trying a different cuisine and sitting at a high-end table. Plus, spending a special night out with friends can be a memorable experience.
A day of service at a local charity
One option for a kid who has everything is to give them a day of service at a local charity.
This will allow the child to spend time giving back and helping those in need, which can be just as rewarding as any material gift.
In fact, this is why mission trips are so popular!
Some other fun experience gifts for kids include go-karting, theme parks, and escape rooms. These experiences are exciting and new, and they’re something that the kids can enjoy together.
The Ultimate Gift Idea for Kids: Cold Hard Cash
Giving cash as a gift is a good idea because it is a tangible gift that can be used immediately.
It is also a great way to avoid any possible clash of interests with the child who might receive the gift. Cash is a low-key way to show your appreciation for the child, and it is also a way to avoid feeling obligated to give a gift.
Also, it helps kids to realize the value of money and how to manage it. Those life lessons might be well worth it!
Or a Gift Card
When you don’t know what to get a kid who seemingly has everything, a gift card is always a safe option.
With so many different stores and places to spend them, gift cards let the child choose what they really want. This way, you know they’ll be happy with their present.
Unique Fun Toys or Eyes to See the World?
Now, you have a decision to make…
Will you go with: unique fun toys or experiences? The choice is yours.
Just remember… one will leave a longer impact on the recipient than the other. That is why many families are opting for Christmas experiences over traditional gifts.
Which Creative Gifts Will You Get?
If you have a child that seems to have everything, it can be hard to know what to get them for gifts. However, there are still some great options out there.
It is proven that experiences bring more happiness than traditional gifts, so why not lean to towards those ideas.
There’s no need to spend a fortune on a gift for a kid who has everything. With a little bit of creativity, you can find a gift that will be sure to put a smile on everyone’s face.
Review our list and see what takes your fancy!
If you’re looking for a gift for a young person who has everything, our list of 35 cool gifts is sure to have something for everyone. From non-toys to clothing ideas, there’s something for everyone on this list.
So, what are you waiting for? Get shopping!
You probably need inexpensive gifts for the woman who has everything, right?
Need More Christmas Gift ideas?
Know someone else that needs this, too? Then, please share!!
You may have a few different options if you are looking to open a credit card account with an additional person. Being a joint account holder and an authorized user are two different ways that two people can share the same account. However, there are a few important differences that you’ll want to be aware of.
When you add an authorized user to your account, the authorized user can benefit from the good credit and payment history on your account. This can be one strategy to help a trusted friend or family member improve their credit. With a joint credit card account, however, both people apply at the same time and both account holders are legally responsible for all purchases and debt on the account, regardless of which person actually makes the purchase.
Read on to learn more about this topic, including:
• What is a credit card authorized user?
• What is a joint account holder for a credit card?
• What are things to consider before adding an authorized user?
• What are things to consider before opening a joint credit card account?
• How to know whether a joint credit card vs. an authorized user is right for you?
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What Is a Credit Card Authorized User?
An authorized user on a credit card, sometimes called a supplementary credit card, is an additional user who is added to the account of the primary cardholder. The authorized user gets their own physical card and can make purchases. The authorized user may benefit from the good credit or a positive payment history on the account; it could help them establish or maintain their credit. However, they are not responsible for any of the purchases or debt.
How an Authorized User Impacts Your Credit
There are many factors that affect credit scores, but adding an authorized user to your account is not one of them. If you add an authorized user to your account, your credit will not be checked, and there should be no immediate impact on your credit. You will want to keep in mind, however, that you are responsible for any purchases made by authorized users. So if your authorized user spends more than you anticipate and you have trouble making the full monthly payment, it could impact your credit score.
Things to Consider When Adding an Authorized User to Your Account
Here’s a quick look at some things to consider when adding an authorized user to your account:
Risks
Rewards
You are legally responsible for all purchases made by an authorized user
May help establish or maintain the authorized user’s credit if used responsibly
May impact your credit if not used responsibly
Additional spending can generate additional credit card rewards
Primary cardholder can remove the authorized user from the account at any time
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What Is a Joint Credit Card Account Holder?
Unlike adding an authorized user to your account, you will typically obtain a joint credit card by applying for one with another person. With a joint credit card, the credit of both prospective cardholders is evaluated and used to determine eligibility. If approved, both cardholders are equally and separately liable for all of the debts and purchases on the account, regardless of who actually made the purchase.
How a Joint Account Impacts Your Credit
When you apply for a joint account, the credit of both people is reviewed, and then the applicants are possibly approved to receive a card. This will generally show up on each potential account holder’s credit report as a new inquiry, which may temporarily lower each person’s credit score by a few points. Additionally, both joint cardholders are responsible for all of the debt, regardless of who actually uses the credit card. So if one person spends more than expected or has trouble paying the bill on time, it may negatively impact both cardholders’ credit scores.
Things to Consider Before Opening a Joint Credit Card Account
Here’s a quick look at some things to keep in mind before opening a joint credit card account:
Risks
Rewards
Many major issuers do not allow joint accounts
Additional spending by two people can generate higher credit card rewards
Cannot remove one person from the joint account without closing the entire account
When used responsibly, it can help establish or maintain the credit of both cardholders
May get complicated if the relationship between the joint cardholders changes (e.g. divorce)
Joint Credit Card Account Holder vs Authorized User
Consider the differences between these two arrangements:
• A joint credit card account is one where two people jointly open and use the account, with both people equally responsible for all of the debt.
• An authorized user vs. a joint credit card has a key difference: The authorized user is not liable for any purchases they might make — instead the primary cardholder is responsible for all charges.
• Being an authorized user may be one way to help establish your credit if the primary cardholder already has good credit and continues to use the account responsibly.
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Choosing the Right Option
A joint credit card account typically only makes sense for two people that are in a committed relationship in which they are already sharing their finances. And you will also want to keep in mind that many major credit card issuers do not offer joint credit card accounts.
An authorized user, on the other hand, can make sense if you want to help bolster the credit of someone who is starting out. By adding them to your account, you may help them establish their credit.
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The Takeaway
An authorized user and a joint credit card account are different ways that two people can share a credit card account. With a joint credit card account, both people open the account together and are equally and separately liable for all charges on the account. With an authorized user on an account, only the primary cardholder is responsible for the charges. Those differences may help you decide which (if either) arrangement is right for you.
There are other considerations when applying for a credit card, such as whether you get rewards with each purchase. If you’re in the market for a new credit card, you might look at a rewards credit card like the SoFi Credit Card. You can earn cash back rewards on every eligible purchase, which you can then use for travel or to invest, save, or pay down eligible SoFi debt. You can even add authorized users to your SoFi credit card to earn additional rewards.
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FAQ
Is a joint credit card holder the same as an authorized user?
No, having a joint credit card account is not the same as having an authorized user on your account. With a joint credit card, both account holders are equally and separately liable for all charges on the account, regardless of who actually makes the purchase. With an authorized user account, only the primary cardholder is responsible.
Is it better to be an authorized user or have your own credit card?
When you are an authorized user on a credit card, you can make purchases and may be able to establish your credit, but you’re not responsible for any of the charges. Being an authorized user can make sense especially if you are just starting out. However, it may make sense at some point to work towards having your own credit card account where you don’t have to rely on anyone else.
Can you have 2 names on a credit card?
Generally there won’t be two names on a credit card, even if it is a joint account. In both the case of a joint account and being an authorized user, each person will get their own credit card with their name on it. Depending on the card issuer, the credit card account number may be the same or may be different.
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Look, we’ve all had a moment wondering something bonkers, bizarre, random – you name it. And nothing can be more confusing than the wide world of property and home loans.
So let’s look at some of the silliest and awkwardly-phrased mortgage questions asked on Google, seriously answered by an expert writer.
How home loan works
Want buy house. Not enough money. What do? Ask bank nicely. Bank let you borrow money. If it think you good for it. Then you buy house. Or unit. Pay bank back. It take long time. You give bank extra money, too. This called interest. That how home loan works.
Other stuff too. Less important.
Is home loan same as mortgage
Sort of? Mostly? Yes. Ish. A home loan is the financial product banks and lenders offer. Your mortgage is a home loan that you are currently paying off.
However, finance writers will often use terms like “home loan borrowers” and “mortgage borrowers” interchangeably, since when you’re making repayments, a home loan and mortgage are functionally similar.
So yes, a home loan is basically the same as a mortgage. (Unless you’re pedantic and write about them for a living).
Is home loan interest tax deductible in Australia
Yes! If you’re a property investor in Australia, you can claim the interest from your home loan on your taxes. In fact, landlords get a whole bunch of tax perks. Lucky them!
(Just make sure you talk to a tax expert before filing).
How is home loan interest calculated
Good question! Home loan interest is calculated and compounded daily. Your monthly mortgage repayment therefore incorporates interest from the last 30 – 31 days.
This is actually why making more frequent home loan repayments can sometimes save you interest in the long run. By shortening the number of days included in your repayment (fourteen instead of thirty) while keeping your principal in consistent chunks, you can pay off your mortgage faster with less interest over time.
However, this hack will depend on how your lender calculates a fortnightly vs. monthly payment size. If your fortnightly repayments pay less than half of the principal amount you would in a monthly repayment, it actually slows down how fast you pay off your mortgage. (Math involved, but that’s how the sausage sizzles).
Does home loan include GST
GST, or the “Goods and Services Tax”, is a government charge applied to most transactions in Australia. From lattes to Uber, most things you buy will have GST built into the final price. Financial services and bank products, however, do not include GST – therefore, neither will your home loan.
But: this doesn’t mean buying a home is tax-free. When you first purchase a property, you may have to pay stamp duty or an annual land tax. Later when you sell your home, you may also have to pay capital gains tax.
Always seek help from a tax professional and financial advisor.
Home loan spouse has bad credit
Ruh-roh. Spouse buy too many things on Amazon. Maybe get screwed with BNPL. Whoops. Work on credit score together. (But don’t control their money – that financial abuse).
Also. Could apply for home loan as just you? Think about joint tenancy vs. tenancy in common. Talk to financial planner.
Remember: team work make dream work.
Do home loans look at TransUnion or Equifax
TransUnion and Equifax are credit score reporting bodies, along with Experian and Illion. Whenever you apply for a home loan, lenders will run a credit check to assess your risk as a borrower. If your credit score isn’t good, they may reject your application.
Equifax, Experian, and Illion are the main credit bureaus in Australia, so your lender may check with one, two, or all of them when assessing your borrowing power.
Before applying for a home loan, send for a free credit report from one or more of these agencies so that you can see your score for yourself. Not happy with your results? Give your application a boost by improving your credit score.
Can mortgage be paid with credit card
NO! Technically, yes – but don’t do this! BAD IDEA. A credit card may buy things in the short term (and have more money on it than your debit card), but you’ll still have to pay it back with interest – and the interest rates on credit cards are much, much steeper than those on home loans.
By using a credit card to make mortgage repayments, you’re doubling down on the interest you’re paying overall. This could also potentially hurt your credit score and ability to refinance, because if you miss either a mortgage payment or a credit card payment, it goes down on your credit report.
If you’re really struggling with your mortgage repayments, talk to your lender. You may be able to negotiate a lower interest rate and work out a repayment plan that works best for your situation.
Recent law changes also mean that it’s far, far better for your credit score to declare financial hardship than skip payments altogether. You actually get rewarded for asking for help. Huzzah!
Just whatever you do: don’t put your home loan on credit.
Can I pay an auction deposit with a credit card
NOOOO! If you’re paying a housing deposit at auction, do not put it on your credit card. Not only will vendors not accept this as a valid form of payment, but putting a deposit on your credit card defeats the whole purpose of a deposit.
A deposit is a down payment: your home loan will cover the remaining cost of the property. Your deposit is therefore the only part of your home loan you don’t pay interest on (besides money in your offset account). By using your credit card, you create interest on the only interest-free part of your loan – and at a much steeper rate than mortgage interest.
Bad idea. BAD. No. Don’t put your home loan on credit.
Is mortgage a liability or an asset
A financial liability is something that drains your finances, such as debt, while an asset is something that improves or holds your wealth. A mortgage is therefore a liability, because it is a kind of debt.
However, the property you own, i.e. your equity, is an asset, since it can provide a source of wealth and security. Your equity can be unlocked to do many things for you, like refinance your mortgage or finance another property.
Does mortgage cover stamp duty
Stamp duty is a government charge for transferring property from one owner to another. For those who have to pay it, stamp duty can cost tens of thousands of dollars.
Your mortgage, however, won’t cover stamp duty, so when budgeting to buy a home, you’ll need to factor it in as an extra cost, on top of any conveyancing, agent, settlement, and valuation fees.
Does mortgage mean death grip
Fun fact: sort of! The word “mortgage” comes from the Old French mort + gage, meaning “death” and “pledge”. In mediaeval times, land that was mortgaged was fully pledged to the lender until the borrower fully paid it off or was dead.
So, same as today – basically.
Whose property am I on
Depends, but the safest answer is, “Whoever owns it.” Not sure who owns it? Follow this handy flowchart.
Have interest rates gone up
Yes – due to high inflation, the Reserve Bank of Australia has tightened its monetary policy and made 3.75% worth of increases to the official cash rate since May 2022, which in turn drives up the interest rates on home loans, term deposits, and savings accounts.
Do interest rates rise in a recession
No, interest rates do not rise during a recession. In fact, the opposite is true. Whenever the economy enters a recession, the central bank will cut interest rates to encourage people to spend money.
As a result, home loan interest rates will fall, making financing a property cheaper, while savings accounts and term deposits won’t be as attractive, so people will be less inclined to park their money.
Interest rates rise whenever there is high inflation, and high inflation is not the same thing as a recession. High inflation (usually) means demand is out of control and consumers are driving up prices, thus raising the cost of living.
To discourage spending, the central bank will raise interest rates, therefore making savings accounts a better place to stash cash while mortgage repayments become more expensive.
Who owns the Reserve Bank of Australia
Australia.
Can you bank with the Reserve Bank of Australia
No. The Reserve Bank of Australia, also known as the RBA, is a central bank in charge of monitoring the Australian economy and setting Australia’s monetary policy. Unless you are the Australian government, the RBA cannot manage your finances.
If you are in the market for a new bank, however, you can compare bank accounts using our hub page.
Will housing prices drop
While the housing market may experience temporary dips and falls, studies show that long-term, property prices will always rise. This is primarily due to inflation, but increased competition doesn’t help, either.
Hurray…
How buy first home
Try government help. Move away from big city. Maybe buy unit instead? Cry. But no give up.
In all seriousness, first home buying can be a daunting task, but there are still plenty of ways to break into the housing market – even with the odds stacked against you.
You’ll need to navigate the hurdle of rising interest rates, outrageous prices, and the cost of living, but with careful planning and research, these can all be managed.
For more information on how to get started, head over to our first home buyer hub.
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4.99% p.a.variable
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For refinancers only. Built by CommBank, the Unloan is the first home loan with an increasing discount (conditions apply) for borrowers. No application or banking fees. No monthly account keeping or early exit fees. Apply in as little as 10 minutes.
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4.99% p.a.variable
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Upfront fees
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Ongoing fees
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Discharge Fee
$0.00
Extra repayments
yes – free
Redraw facility
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Offset account
no
Maximum loan to value ratio
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minimum borrowing amount
$10,000
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type of mortgage
Variable
Repayment types
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Availability
Owner Occupier
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Owner Occupier, Principal & Interest
interest rate
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Initial monthly repayment
5.47% p.a.variable
5.62% p.a.
Get fast approval online in as little as one hour with the Bendigo Bank Express Home Loan. Available for new home loans only. Optional offset account to save even more. Flexible repayment options. 10% deposit required.
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Get fast approval online in as little as one hour with the Bendigo Bank Express Home Loan. Available for new home loans only. Optional offset account to save even more. Flexible repayment options. 10% deposit required.
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5.47% p.a.variable
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5.47% p.a.variable
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5.62% p.a.
Upfront fees
$384
Ongoing fees
$10.00 monthly
Discharge Fee
$350.00
Extra repayments
yes – free
Redraw facility
yes – free
Offset account
yes
Maximum loan to value ratio
90.00%
minimum borrowing amount
$5,000
maximum borrowing amount
$3,000,000
type of mortgage
Variable
Repayment types
Principal & Interest
Availability
Owner Occupier
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Own Home Loan
Owner Occupier, Principal & Interest, LVR <60%
interest rate
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Initial monthly repayment
5.54% p.a.variable
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Competitive variable rate. Multiple offset accounts available. Borrowers can also make extra repayments. Redraw facility available. Simple online application process. 40% deposit required.
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Competitive variable rate. Multiple offset accounts available. Borrowers can also make extra repayments. Redraw facility available. Simple online application process. 40% deposit required.
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5.54% p.a.variable
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interest rate
5.54% p.a.variable
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5.79% p.a.
Upfront fees
$250
Ongoing fees
$250.00 yearly
Discharge Fee
$300.00
Extra repayments
yes – free
Redraw facility
yes – free
Offset account
yes
Maximum loan to value ratio
60.00%
minimum borrowing amount
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type of mortgage
Variable
Repayment types
Principal & Interest
Availability
Owner Occupier
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Package, Owner Occupier, LVR<60%, Principal & Interest
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Initial monthly repayment
5.54% p.a.variable
5.79% p.a.
Ability to open up to 10 offset accounts per loan account. Fast online application. Linked Debit Mastercard® with fee-free access at ATMs across Australia. Package a credit card with your home loan and the annual card fee will be waived (T&Cs apply). 40% deposit required.
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Ability to open up to 10 offset accounts per loan account. Fast online application. Linked Debit Mastercard® with fee-free access at ATMs across Australia. Package a credit card with your home loan and the annual card fee will be waived (T&Cs apply). 40% deposit required.
interest rate
5.54% p.a.variable
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5.79% p.a.
interest rate
5.54% p.a.variable
comparison rate
5.79% p.a.
Upfront fees
$350
Ongoing fees
$248.00 yearly
Discharge Fee
$400.00
Extra repayments
yes – free
Redraw facility
yes – free
Offset account
yes
Maximum loan to value ratio
60.00%
minimum borrowing amount
$150,000
maximum borrowing amount
$10,000,000
type of mortgage
Variable
Repayment types
Principal & Interest
Availability
Owner Occupier
Repayment options
Monthly
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Solar Home Loan
Owner Occupier, Principal & Interest, LVR <90%
interest rate
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Initial monthly repayment
5.39% p.a.variable for 60 months and then 6.23% p.a.variable
5.98% p.a.
Enjoy a lower interest rate for the first 5 years if you have solar panels or plan to get them. Get up to a 30 year loan term. Unlimited additional repayments. Option offset sub-account. No ongoing fees to pay. Free unlimited redraws.
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Enjoy a lower interest rate for the first 5 years if you have solar panels or plan to get them. Get up to a 30 year loan term. Unlimited additional repayments. Option offset sub-account. No ongoing fees to pay. Free unlimited redraws.
interest rate
5.39% p.a.variable for 60 months and then 6.23% p.a.variable
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5.98% p.a.
interest rate
5.39% p.a.variable for 60 months and then 6.23% p.a.variable
comparison rate
5.98% p.a.
Upfront fees
$530
Ongoing fees
$0.00
Discharge Fee
$300.00
Extra repayments
yes – free
Redraw facility
yes – free
Offset account
yes
Maximum loan to value ratio
90.00%
minimum borrowing amount
$50,000
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type of mortgage
Variable
Repayment types
Principal & Interest
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Owner Occupier
Repayment options
Weekly, Fortnightly, Monthly
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